What to do if college counselors and class presidents are too selfish?

I feel that it is more common for counselors and class leaders to be selfish in college, because after all, they are all older, and they all have their own things in their hearts, and they all want to have money to spend, go shopping to find a girlfriend, invite their girlfriend to dinner, buy clothes for their girlfriend, buy cosmetics and bags, these are all things that need money.

If you don't think about anything for yourself, then the benefits will not come into your own hands. If you can't get into your own hands, you won't buy these things for your girlfriend, and you won't be able to meet your girlfriend's material needs, so it will be difficult for boys to get a girlfriend in college.

College life is the life of an adult, and once people reach the stage of adulthood, they will become very realistic and selfish, which is a common thing. I felt that college counselors and class presidents are not only selfish in college! I feel that people in the university are very selfish, and they only think about themselves and not others.

It can only be said that one eye is turned a blind eye, because after all, other people's officials are bigger than your own, and others are in charge of us, as long as they say that they do not interfere with our interests, even if they are selfish, it doesn't matter, because you must know that you don't have to take care of your own affairs. Otherwise, it will attract gossip, and no one will accept anyone when they are older, but when necessary, it is still necessary to take a step back, and it is more important to have a good relationship with the counselor and the class leader in the university. So I don't feel the need to be unhappy about something.

In the past, when I was in college, my counselor and my class president were also more selfish, and they only wanted to fight for their own benefits, and they didn't care about the classmates in the class and only cared about their immediate interests, but there was no way to do this, because after all, people were bigger than their own officials, and when they didn't provoke themselves and didn't touch themselves, it was better not to care about these idle things, and not to care about other idle things in college. I'm carefree, but I'm actually quite happy.

I don't know what your college counselors are like, it is said that some school counselors are also students, but our school is not, so let's not talk about counselors, let's talk about what to do if the class leader is too selfish.

First of all, you should know that "people don't kill for themselves", have you ever thought about whether you will choose to think about everyone as soon as possible if you are the squad leader, when things are related to your interests.

This is not only in school, but also in society in the future, and most people's first thought is their own interests. It's just that some people can give up their ego in the end and leave the opportunity to others, while some people still don't think about others after weighing and always put their own interests first. Unfortunately, you may have met a second type of person to be your class leader.

I don't know what the hell is making you think so much about your squad leader and instructor. But if there are some things that can't be changed, you should think differently, have you ever considered the contribution that your class leader has made to this class? Maybe when you were asleep, your squad leader was still staying up late writing activity summaries.

Usually, he always has a lot of unfinished ** and documents, coping with the tasks assigned by the teacher, and the feedback from his classmates who are either dissatisfied with his work or ignore it. You might think that's his responsibility, and that's how he should be. But no one is born to be as he is for others, and he should be rewarded.

If you don't get what you deserve because you have contributed, then maybe it is unfair to you, then you have the right to speak.

If you feel that they have gone too far, then you also have the right and obligation to uphold fairness and report them!

I've always felt that the class committee doesn't do anything, and the people below have to suffer, really, I'm an ordinary classmate in the class, but no one went to get the information last time, and then I went to sign by myself, check the book, and get the book, all of which I did by myself, and the counselor never put a good thing on me.

Don't pass by with any honorary titles. As long as you don't fail the course and don't do things, there is no problem with graduation. If you have a skill, you may be admitted to graduate school, let alone birds.

College counselors are teachers. However, it is generally a teacher who does not teach classes.

We have to understand a concept, college counselors are completely different from ordinary substitute teachers, and counselors in regular universities do not take classes, and the two belong to different positions and have completely different channels for professional title promotion.

Its full name is: "ideological and political counselor", so the main responsibility is to guide students to spend the four years of college safely, without violating laws and disciplines, and it can also be said to be everyone's first "college life mentor", guiding college freshmen to do a good job in career planning, and guiding students to spend the four years of college smoothly.

Introduction

There are very few counselors who can afford the title of "life coach", and many counselors just need you to "don't mess with me, everyone is fine." Attitude.

Actually, this is also normal, because a teacher may not be able to do everything. You may not know that college counselors generally only arrange one teacher in a college, and the number of people in a college is less than 100 people, more than 1,000 people, in this case, in fact, it is impossible for counselors to do everything for every student, and they need to worry about a lot of things, especially some disobedient students, they will be very worried.

If you have offended a counselor in college, here are a few steps to consider:

Calm down first and analyze the reasons rationally. First of all, you need to reflect on whether there is a problem with your behavior, and if it is a conflict caused by your own mistakes, you need to admit your mistakes and apologize in time.

Try to talk to the counsellor to resolve the issue. You can find time to talk to the counselor individually, express your thoughts and reason, and respect the other person's opinion. In the process of communication, you should pay attention to your tone and expression, and try to avoid being emotional.

If communication fails, consider reporting the situation to the relevant departments of the school for help and solutions. It is necessary to provide sufficient evidence and a description of the situation, and to respect the results of the treatment of the relevant ministry.

In future interactions, try to be polite, humble, and respectful to avoid similar conflicts happening again. At the same time, you also need to listen carefully to the advice and guidance of counselors, constantly improve your behavior and attitude, and strive to improve your overall quality.

If you have offended the counselor, you can give him a bag of candy, sincerely apologize to me, and ask for forgiveness to open the knots that may arise.

It is normal for people to have conflicts between people, and in college, it is normal to have a spear but not a shield with a counselor. But as an adult, you can't leave the conflict unresolved. You can first analyze the reasons for the conflict, and then solve it in a targeted manner, such as finding a counselor to communicate privately.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

Knowing mistakes can improve greatly, have a good attitude, take the initiative to admit mistakes, and give some gifts if necessary.