How to deal with deception and infidelity in the process of dating?

Every girl has a beautiful dream, and that is to marry love. The appearance of marrying love is nothing more than that the person you love also loves yourself, and the two people are honest with each other in the process of getting along, and there is no deception and use. But not all people will marry love.

Most love is sweet at the beginning, and two people who have just been together are tired of being together every day and can't wait to be together. But after a long time, some love has deteriorated, either the woman dislikes the man, or the man has a new love, and the two are no longer as honest with each other as before, and there is suspicion in getting along, until they finally part ways. <>

I've lived for 19 years and don't have much experience in love, but I think it can be solved if two people cheat in the process of dating. Sometimes deception is well-intentioned. It may be that the other party is still in contact with some things with the ex, but the other party can handle it on his own, and if he tells you, it may cause unnecessary suspicion between the two people and affect the relationship between the two people.

So, this deception is understandable. But there is a kind of deception that cannot be understood, and that kind of deception can only show that one of them has a ghost in his heart, and it also means that there is a problem in your relationship, so you must pay attention to it.

But if two people have some infidelity in their relationship, then if it is me who encounters this situation, I cannot forgive. I think that if the other person really loves you, no matter what the circumstances, he will not do anything to betray you. If he does, it seems to me that he has betrayed me, and in this case, the relationship will not be maintainable, and we will each have our own ways and will not interfere with each other.

In the face of deception and infidelity in the process of communication, everyone has their own way of doing it.

If this question were to be me, it would be a breakup! Because the deception and infidelity you said are my bottom line, my reverse scales, and no one can touch them!

It can only be said that it is necessary to break up in time, although it is said that the process is very painful, but the long pain is better than the short pain.

First of all, you're an idealist (just like I was), living in an overly rosy imagination and a penchant for memories.

Secondly, if you live in a long distance, you will definitely break up (I don't want to say more about it).

In the end, if everything can go with him, he is a free man in the world.

Pain, despair, remorse, there is a P use, Lao Tzu spent all his salary in that period of time, and went to Hainan to play a circle. When I came back, I felt how beautiful the world was, the beautiful flight attendants, the blue sky, suddenly opened up. YY has a bright future, not to mention that you are a college student with a college degree?

Understand your feelings.

Everyone will encounter such problems on the road of life, emotional problems, as you said, the deeper the love, sometimes the deeper the hate.

Things are already like this, it's better to know earlier than later, so that there is less harm to each other, and it takes a process to face the reality, and the best way to do such a thing is to start a new love life, or use time to heal your wounds.

Maybe she's just a passerby on your life path, and there's a lot more to come, and what suits you is behind.

Experienced, grown, experienced, grown, matured!

Happy to treat problems, happy every day!

Generally, a stupid force like you + cheap is destined to be betrayed, and women are reluctant to break up after being, do you want to give him the opportunity to betray you again? If you're reluctant to break up, go ahead and let your girlfriend get! She wouldn't betray you if she really loved you, and you lied to yourself like a fool!

If you have a pimple in your heart, you can't let it go and just die, it's a shame to live! Waste incompetence stupid cuckold king eight men!

It's rare for a man to be ruthless and good to a woman. We women are also very susceptible to injury, and I am just like you. Remember that since you love her, you don't care if she betrays you or not, that's a thing of the past.

Let it pass. The two of them will have a good time in the future. It can be regarded as starting from a new beginning, and now since it is a new beginning, it is necessary to understand each other, and it is no more than three things.

Since you love it, it's painful to let go, so why let go, start everything from scratch and forget all the previous ones.

You can give up, there will be good women who cherish you, although I am a woman, but I still say that she is not worth cherishing, I am 100% loyal to my boyfriend, because if the woman who really loves you is with other men, he must think of you, but she does not, she is reluctant to be good to him

If you are prepared to procrastinate and not accept the reality, you will end up hurting yourself. Don't get your hopes up and fantasize. It's yours and always yours.

Don't be like me. It's not that you can't let go of her, but you can't let go of the feelings you give. Everything will pass.

You can try to ask her if she is like to be with you, if she tells you that she wants to ask to be with him, or if you give up on her and forget about it completely, give her freedom and make him happy and you will be happy.

Betrayal is an unpardonable sin for love! I understand the deep feelings of love you have, but I still hope that you can come out of this sadness, because he doesn't deserve you because she betrayed you.

Hehe, time can dilute everything, and the best thing to do is to find a replacement for her place in your mind!! I broke up with my boyfriend on Christmas Eve, and now my heart hurts, you can feel it!!

Letting go is also a kind of love in disguise.

If you really love her, please let her go

Needless to say, though you'll be miserable

Parted. Love is based on mutual trust, and his infidelity can be punished with death 10,000 times, let alone deceive you for it.

Break up with each other quickly. The most unbearable thing in love, your other half has done it, proving that he is not worthy of your life, let go as soon as possible.

Let's break up! Since he doesn't cherish you and deceive you, why are you still stalking? Treating people who are emotionally unfaithful is not worthy of love.

At this time, you leave him and make him pay the corresponding price for his infidelity and deception. You have to understand that this kind of person is not trustworthy and he does not make you feel safe.

Parted. The most important thing in the relationship between two people is trust and loyalty. Neither of these things is gone, so what else is he going to do? Bye-bye.

In that case, I suggest you break up. You're all that's left together is an empty name. There is nothing within that can bind you together.

Then you have to go to a showdown with him, and then tell him that you know this kind of thing, and that you can solve this matter through the coordination of the two of you, or just break up.

Breaking up, being emotionally unfaithful and cheating on your partner is unbearable, especially for people who have both, there is no doubt that they must be scum, and breaking up is the best choice.

I advise you to break up. Now that you know, you'll never be able to trust him as much as you used to, and continuing to live together will only hurt both sides.

Of course, it is a breakup, this is a matter of principle, and there is a first time, and there will only be countless times later. So stop your losses in time and give up early.

You first have to judge whether what you're observing is really true, and if it's true, then you have to make a choice between forgiveness and separation.

Girls like to talk sweetly, and it's okay to say it appropriately.

It's okay for a man in love to occasionally lie with white intentions.

I'll tell you a secret that I don't even tell the subject?

If I deceive you something! Is it a big thing or a small thing.

Don't be together again, let's separate. The so-called infidelity is not tolerated a hundred times, and you can't accept it yourself, can you really do it with a thorn for a lifetime? Even if the stool chain arrives, it is not good for everyone, and sooner or later there will be problems.

Love and affection are not the biggest, even if you really love someone, it depends on whether they are worthy of your true love. It's very rough and many people abandon people who are worthy of love because of this, and Rimsui finds someone who is not worthy of love, and then keeps staging various tragedies. Therefore, it is better to be rational and be a human being, and constantly suffer from it.

Let's observe whether he has really changed, if as always, you should give up on him, he is not your lover.

Let's see how he does in the future.

I've also read some philosophical books, I know, the water is clear, there is no fish, it is impossible to have no lies in this world, boyfriend is also a person, let him be a clean and transparent crystal This is also unrealistic, in the face of some small deceptions, I will change dialectical to look at, on the other hand, I look at myself, there are some dark and damp corners in my heart that cannot be opened for him, so I still have to pay attention to some methods.

1. Investigate the reason for lying

If your boyfriend often lies and doesn't tell the truth, it may be a bad habit, or he doesn't love you at all and doesn't want you to know that he needs to figure out what the reason is before making a decision.

2. Give a verbal warning:

If your boyfriend lies, you can't stand it, and you don't allow it, you can give your boyfriend a verbal warning, tell him that since you have become a couple, you want to tell yourself everything, share the difficulties, share the burden, don't press yourself in your heart, say what you do wrong, just admit your mistakes, don't lie to deceive yourself, and tell your boyfriend your thoughts and practices.

3. Communicate more and solve:

Boyfriend lies, also for self-protection, it's better to communicate more when encountering things, don't be suspicious, don't believe your boyfriend, you can find an opportunity, wait for the matter to pass, talk about it, don't communicate when you're in a bad mood, otherwise the man won't admit it for the sake of his own face, let alone listen to his own advice.

4. Leave decisively when you can't get along

If your boyfriend lies, it also depends on what it is, if you are unfaithful to yourself and betray your love, then you don't have to think about whether to forgive, turn around and leave, give yourself a dignity, this is a serious deception is a moral problem, once there is a second time, breaking up is the best way to protect yourself.

In the face of repeated cheating by your boyfriend, what else can you choose? Leave calmly.

Of course, you have to seriously consider whether he really cheated on you repeatedly.

Why is it because? Or what is the reason? Or he has his irresistible reasons. Have you ever communicated with him seriously?

If you have communicated with her seriously, then you tell him that you know in your heart every time he cheats, you have forgiven him again and again, see how he reacts, if he has truly changed, and you still love him in your heart, you might as well give each other a chance.

If all this has been done, and he is still like this, it means that he really does not have you in his heart anymore. Instead of dying, it is better to turn around perfectly. It's best to live well.

I think your boyfriend cheated on you, and it was repeated, it shouldn't be a white lie as people say.

If he is subjective and deliberate, and there are some things that touch your bottom line, or the moral bottom line in society, and you point it out, he has no corrective thoughts and actual actions. As the saying goes, if you don't do it again and again, your boyfriend will probably be hopeless for you. Then don't hesitate, make a decision as soon as possible, or clearly propose to break up peacefully, so that it is better to get together and disperse.

It's better for you, and it's fair for him.

Unless you don't care about his deception, love him as a skin, and be able to accept his endless deception for the rest of your life. But don't expect him to change his promise when he gets married. Because he is used to lying as much as we eat, and if he doesn't lie to you, he won't be used to it.

A lying and deception between lovers can be forgiven, because people are not saints and sages. But repeated deception is unforgivable, because being a lover also has a bottom line, and often doing things that break through the bottom line hurts both the other party and yourself. It is also a respite that brings the relationship to an end.

I sincerely advise those men and women who are in love not to treat their lovers with deception, if you want to be long-lasting, you must be sincere, sincere, and true love! That's beautiful love!

It's hard to do it all your life without lying. After the truth of some lies is revealed, it can move people to tears. However, some deception cannot be tolerated. Because it's about character.

From your descriptiveness, it can be inferred that your boyfriend is a liar. For such a person, you should first take a good look at the reasons for his deception, and then decide whether to leave or not.

First, you look within yourself for the reason. If you are too possessive and do not give your boyfriend personal space such as socializing, then your boyfriend is afraid of hurting your feelings and hiding it from you in good faith. Although the relationship between couples should be sincere, and your boyfriend's inability is not encouraged, however, you should also reflect on yourself and give him appropriate freedom.

Also, if this is not the case and the boyfriend repeatedly cheats on your feelings, it is a matter of character that involves him. The most terrible thing between couples is insincerity and openness. If it continues like this, it will not change again and again.

I suggest you leave him. Because once a person falls into the cycle of deception and lies, he cannot change it. The longer Mud is with him, the more it hurts.

So be sure to find someone who leaves like this.