I am very resistant to falling in love, what s going on?

This kind of thing can happen in many people's lives. The main people who have been in love many times are among them. For those who haven't been in love a few times.

They don't feel that way, they don't say they're very resistant to a relationship, they like to accept a relationship very much. <>

In fact, this statement is not very absolute, because many people who have never been in love may also have this feeling of very resistance. Because they have never been in love, they will have a lot of concerns in their hearts. They don't know what love will do to us, what will happen in it, so they have a very vague concept of love, and they are afraid that they will be deceived if they are involved in love.

Or that they are not afraid that they will be deceived, but that they can't. I understand love very well. So they are very afraid that they have not protected this love, and he is afraid that he has hurt this relationship.

So I don't dare to try it easily. Because this is also the person they like, they don't want to lose this friend easily. <>

Because many people who are in love were good friends before, but after falling in love, they can't maintain the relationship between friends, and they will break up. It's not as good as when I used to be friends. They can still talk together, but after they break up, they become enemies and can no longer communicate with each other.

Afraid of losing his good friend, so he resists feelings and doesn't dare to start a relationship. But those who have been in love many times are also very resistant to a relationship and don't want him to start.

Because they are often in love, it also proves that they also often experience failure. So the reason why they are very resistant to the beginning of feelings may be because they no longer believe in feelings, and they don't know how to do this well after they have failed many times, because many methods have been tried but ultimately failed.

So the main reason why they resist feelings is the fear of failing again. And they don't dare to believe in feelings anymore, because they feel that the experience that so many times of love has taught her is that we can't trust feelings too much, and we can't fully invest in them, because we are still young and not sure whether feelings are real or fake. <>

So these people are also very resistant to the beginning of the relationship, because they feel that once we start, we will fail soon after, and the result of failure is the loss of this very good friend, or the person we like very much.

So a lot of times we don't want to lose too much, we handle things carefully, and I don't want us to experience failure again, so we don't dare to try easily.

Beginning to resist this relationship from your heart, it means that you don't really accept him, and you don't really accept this relationship. No matter what your purpose is to start this relationship, you may not have a relationship with that man, or you may have known each other before and had a relationship but it was not love!

Generally, after a girl separates from her ex-boyfriend, she will feel more or less uncomfortable. If a boy appears at this time, whether the girl likes the boy or not, when the boy confesses to the girl, the girl will definitely agree. It's not that the girl will really like the guy, but that the guy is borrowed to forget about her ex-boyfriend.

Or rather, I want to be with this boy but the pain of some time ago.

Therefore, you are very resistant to starting a relationship because you don't want to delay others, or you don't want to start a new relationship. In fact, the root of the matter is that you haven't forgotten your ex-boyfriend, and you are still immersed in the memories with your ex-boyfriend and can't extricate yourself. Or maybe your own wounds have not healed well and your heart is not willing to start a new relationship, you want to relax yourself, let your heart return to peace, and wait for the right person to appear.

The reason why you resist starting a relationship is because you don't want to get involved in the relationship at all. Because you've been injured in the last section, you're scared, and you don't dare to try again. You are afraid that no matter how much sincerity you give, you will not be able to return the sincerity of others, and in the end you will only be scarred.

Learn to relax yourself, let your heart return to peace, and cultivate yourself well. Wait slowly for him to appear, so that you will not start to reject a relationship, and your heart is very resistant!

It may be that your heart is more insecure, you have to let go of yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself in the matter of falling in love, you must be confident, and believe that you will definitely meet the person you love.

I am also more resistant because I have been hurt before, and my future plans have not been realized, and I feel that it is a waste of time to fall in love.

It should be that the previous love has brought you a bad feeling in your heart, and at this time, it is recommended that you watch more romance stories with good endings to change your attitude towards love!

It depends on whether you were a child or before. You have experienced some bad things in your relationship experience, and then wait for your own reasons to slowly adjust. If necessary, you can see a psychiatrist or something.

You should carefully communicate this problem with the other party, help the other party analyze some psychological factors, and let both people make some changes, so that the relationship can be better maintained.

Then keep a certain distance first, and then see the good in the other person, so that you can slowly accept the other person.

Summary. Good evening, dear. Kissing and resisting falling in love is a normal psychology. Because the kiss may see that the people around you are not too smooth in love, or they don't believe it very well. So it's normal to have resistance.

Good evening, dear. Kissing and resisting falling in love is a normal psychology. Because the kiss may see that the people around you are not too smooth in love, or they don't believe it very well. So it's normal to have resistance.

Don't worry too much, when you meet the person you like, your kiss will become very eager for love and like to fall in love with <>

<>Finally, I hope my help can help you kiss, I'm happy to answer for you. Is there anything else I can do to help you<>

Summary. Falling in love is very repulsive, and we also call it love phobia. He is also a type of anxiety disorder, a single anxiety symptom.

His psychological reaction is mainly that before you enter an intimate relationship, or in a relationship, you will always feel very nervous, restless, fearful, sweaty, and not sleeping well, quite nervous. This state. Then the reason for its occurrence is mainly related to everyone's life experience.

For example, he may have been hurt or had a negative experience in a relationship, and when he enters a new relationship, he will be upset and afraid of failing again. There are also people who have never been in love, they long for love, but they don't know how to do it, so they are more afraid. He lacks a secure attachment relationship.

Falling in love is very repulsive, and we also call it love phobia. He is also a type of anxiety disorder, a single anxiety symptom. His psychological reaction is mainly that before you enter an intimate relationship, or in a relationship, you will always feel very nervous, restless, fearful, sweaty, and not sleeping well, quite nervous.

This state. Then the reason for its occurrence is mainly related to everyone's life experience. For example, he may have been hurt or had a negative experience in a relationship, and when he enters a new relationship, he will be upset and afraid of failing again.

There are also people who have never been in love, they long for love, but they don't know how to do it, so they are more afraid. He lacks a secure attachment relationship.

I can have an affair with someone, but once that person says they want to fall in love with me, I feel very troubled, panicked, and irritable.

It's normal.

Okay. Thank you.

No thanks.

Summary. Kiss will be happy to answer your <>

If you want to fall in love, but you resist it, the answer is as follows: 1. You don't like this person enough, and just because you want to fall in love, you go to love casually, and you are in a hurry at this time. 2. You didn't take the test to see if you really liked this person, or if you didn't like it enough, and then you quickly got together and entered the love stage.

Then in the process of getting along in love, it feels like it's not punishable, and you start to reject.

I want to fall in love, but when I do, I resist.

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If you want to fall in love, but you resist it, the answer is as follows: 1. You don't like this person enough, and just because you want to fall in love, you go to love casually, and you are in a hurry at this time. 2. You didn't take the test or whether you really like this person, or if you don't like it enough, and then you get together quickly and enter the love stage.

Then in the process of getting along in love, it feels like it's not punishable, and you start to reject.

Kiss the following is for your expansion [too happy slide core]: I want to fall in love but I am a little resistant to falling in love: 1. Because I have expectations, but I don't love enough, I will like and rejoice in my heart, but I am afraid, this phenomenon is too common in ordinary life, I am not confident, I feel inferior, I don't have the courage to take the first step before, and I am afraid that I will be hurt, but love is always a beautiful yearning, so I will look forward to it, but I resist.

2. It is because the peers around me are all in love, and I also see that my peers are in love and are in full swing, and I see my peers in pairs, so I envy myself, so I want to fall in love, but why do I refuse to fall in love, this may be because I feel that my ability is not enough, I am not excellent in all aspects, I think that my feelings are not mature, and I feel that I am not qualified to fall in love, and I don't believe in my ability.

I like my girlfriend a lot, but I'm a little resistant to meeting her, avoiding her.

Don't dare to kiss her, don't dare to hug her.

Why. Do you feel that you can't bear the consequences?

Still not confident in myself.

I am afraid that I am not worthy of the other party and have the idea of timidity.

Or the fear of losing your image in his <>

I can't tell. Anyway, it's a little bit of a feeling of avoiding her.

Kiss I think it's a lot of guessing that people face the person they like very much, there will be some inferiority complex, slippery or too concerned about the other party's opinion of themselves and retreat.

If you don't hate it, it is an inferiority complex in the face of the person you love.

Is there any way to do that?

Because I like it too much, I'm afraid that I will do something wrong next.

Is there a solution for that?

Face the problem head-on and start holding hands.

Step by step.

No one is pushing you from behind, you can grasp the degree yourself.

If you want to ask, when was the last time you were in love? I would probably say junior high school, but of course it was the first time, and it was a one-sided drop ......

So from the perspective of an inexperienced person, this question is yours.

I am particularly resistant to love, and I think there are the following aspects:

1. Low self-esteem. I always feel that I am not good enough, or I am not handsome or beautiful, or my personal ability is not strong, etc., I am afraid that I am not worthy of the other party, and I never dare to take the first step.

2. High morale.

thinks that he is good enough, ordinary people are not worthy of him, and he can live a good life by himself.

3. Emotional injury.

I have had the experience of relationship failure, and I haven't come out of it for a long time, whenever I talk to others, I will always unconsciously think of the previous relationship, so repeatedly, the spirit can't bear it, and gradually lose hope in falling in love, and I don't want to talk about it anymore.

4. Too much dedication.

I put most of my energy on my career and didn't have time to fall in love, so I always felt that it was too much of a waste of time.

Because of being in the family of origin, when I start a relationship and really enter the state of love, it is often difficult to really devote myself to it, because I am a person who is relatively insecure and lacks self-confidence. The reason why such a problem arises is mainly because of the original family, in my growth process and under the long-term education and guidance of my parents, I am more reluctant to fall in love, because when I was young, my parents were especially afraid that I would have the problem of early love in order to let me study hard, so they always instilled in me some of their truths, that is, to get along with girls, to keep a certain distance, because many girls are often unreliable, Only when you have a real foothold in your career in the future can you consider falling in love, because girls are more realistic. Therefore, under the influence of their concept, after graduating from college, I should fall in love at the age of time, I still have some resistance to falling in love, because I am not very satisfied with my state, I am afraid that after starting a relationship, the other party will dislike my job and my income, although at this time, my parents are no longer as good as when I was studying, but are particularly concerned about my falling in love, and always want to introduce me to a girlfriend. But I didn't have any interest in it, and I thought I was still young and should devote more energy and time to my career.