What is it like to be insulted? What to do if you are insulted

When I first went abroad, there was a teacher who stopped my class because I was not good at English, and asked the whole class to isolate me, and said, "You may be smart, but I can't see it" (that is, I am stupid, I can't even speak English) I was at my aunt's house, and she was called by this teacher to ask "can you read?"."My aunt had been abroad for almost 20 years. Could it be that in the eyes of these white teachers, all Chinese do not speak English, or what?

I just went abroad at the time, and I didn't even dare to go to the supermarket by myself. Later, in the same year, he won the honor roll. When I graduated, I won 11 awards and 2 scholarships, and I felt like I was slapped in the face and hit her back, yes, I may not be smart, you don't see it, but I work hard enough and my grades are good enough.

I'm afraid it's not me, it's you.

I remember when I was in the fourth grade of primary school, I wrote an essay about my relatives, and I wrote about my stepfather, because my biological father died when I was very young, my mother remarried, and my stepfather was very good to us, so I wrote this article, and I felt that I wrote very well at that time, and I was moved by myself, and when I was in physical education class, my classmates all surrounded the Chinese teacher to revise the composition, and my dear Chinese teacher said in front of all my classmates after reading my composition: so-and-so (my name) has no father. Lao Tzu was in that mood at that time, angry, angry, aggrieved, and couldn't forgive this teacher for the rest of his life.

At the age of 21, I still haven't been in a relationship, and I don't have any friends, so I don't have any expectations for the future. This year's Chinese New Year, because I have to go to class, I am alone in a different place for the New Year, which is nothing, but looking at the family members in the group chatting voice, I found that I couldn't interject. On Chinese New Year's Eve, my birthday, I went to dinner alone.

When I first went to the store, it was very empty, but then I came to the restaurant and ordered a lot of people, and five or six girls came in and sat directly across from me, chatting and chatting. As soon as I finished eating, the girl opposite said disgustedly: This person is alone, why don't you leave after eating!!

What's wrong with a person, eating your rice or stealing your food!

When I was eighteen years old, my mother asked me to wash clothes, and then I went out to play mahjong, in the countryside, I still used a double-barrel washing machine at that time, and I had to use a water pipe to fill the washing machine, but there was a small hole in the water pipe, and my father said to stick the water pipe, and I said that the water would be full of sticky later! I don't know what's wrong with this sentence, I was slapped a few times by my dad, I know my dad doesn't like me, rural patriarchy is very common, although he is nearly 40 years old to have me, but he still doesn't love me, I got a few slaps that day, I don't know when I said that sentence is wrong**? A few days ago, my father actually said that it was better to have a few daughters, I laughed in my heart, do we still have a way to survive a few daughters?

When I was a child, I sent people under the fence, peeled beans and broke my fingernails, burned my nose with tongs in a pot (I still have a scar on it), went to a field far away to graze cattle before going to school, lived alone in the room closest to the cemetery, and had to use very little water to take a bath, these are nothing, I should be the kind of person who has a relatively large heart, and it will pass when it passes, but there is only one thing, I thought I didn't care, until I mentioned it to my girlfriend, I found that my nose was so sore, and my eyes were a little unbearable.

When you accidentally get stuck and are about to fall when you walk with something, the other party says that it's okay if you fall, don't drop something. When the other party scolds you in public. When the other two people whisper and use unbearable words to evaluate you.

When the other party mocks you sarcastically with cool words. When disgusted eyes are projected on you. When a guy humiliates you with unbearable words.

Sometimes I can't tell if there is hostility in the words, and whether the other person cares about you, but then I learned that no one will take you to heart.

Probably I always make people angry when I speak, or I am bullied by others.

When I went to the United States for the first time before my freshman year, my mother washed an apple for me to eat on the plane. In addition to the apples, I also brought a lot of mess, and in the end, the apples were not eaten at all. Fruits cannot be brought into the country.

I took two random bites of the apple before entering the country, and the whole thing was lost. At that time, I felt very aggrieved, and I felt that I would be the only one left in the future. Even if I write this now, my eyes are still sore.

Sort of...I am willing to leave my hometown for him, give up the good future arranged by my parents, I am not afraid of long-distance relationships, regardless of everyone's opposition, I just want to be with him, but he said: I need someone who can work with me, not you, I will find someone to marry in the future, and that person is not you hahahaha! I'm so funny.

Attending the wedding as a bridesmaid, not to mention the help from beginning to end, I haven't slept all night and been busy and hard, I just said that I only know the bride there alone, and the bride treats me as an outsider!

At home my dad said I looked like my mom and was ugly, and my sister looked like him. At school (junior high school), the boy in the front seat turned back to me and said, "Why do you look so ugly, the key is that the boy himself is not good-looking." Because of these people, I now have very low self-esteem.

Maybe the fat man (my own daughter) will attract some people's disapproval.

When I went to the clinic to see bulimia, an uncle doctor looked down on me very much, saying that it was very ridiculous at a young age, mild depression bulimia and bulimia were very serious, when I asked him how he could be like this, he directly said to you that you don't understand the profession, you just do what I say and you are very impatient to do what I say Mocking and contemptuous, I will never forget it in this life, just today, from tomorrow I will definitely control my self-change.

The more he thought about it for a while, the more angry he became, and he took a step back and kicked his nose and face. So I found that the most relieving thing is that you beat him up like crazy, preferably the kind that can't get out of bed for a month, although it is very uncomfortable when you pay for it, but the rest of the time is the kind of cool that has to float to the sky.

I didn't want to recall, but I remembered it again when you said it. When I was in elementary school, my classmates were obviously ugly, but they said it was me. Another pile of tissues was thrown into my seat.

Stuffing all the trash into my bag (all on purpose!). I didn't know what to think in elementary school, and I didn't dare to hit them. When my classmates provoked me, I accidentally got angry and shouted loudly.

The teacher said that it was all my fault, and now except for those classmates who have not bullied me, the others don't scream when they see me, and the teachers used to do the same. I don't want to go back to my old life.

When I was in the second year of junior high school, because I was not interested in learning, I didn't listen much in class, I asked others questions, others scolded me for being a monk, and my classmates looked down on me, and often laughed at my bad grades with others, and even insulted me with the whole class, and finally I couldn't bear to beat him, and the teacher also favored him, just because my family didn't have much money, although I didn't dare to do anything to me now, but this matter has been engraved in my heart, only 80 days away from the high school entrance examination, I can't let them insult me anymore. I must have trampled them on the soles of my feet, but I didn't have a good foundation, so I panicked.

I think a lot of people have been insulted, right? Except for humiliation and wanting to die, there's nothing left, right? Hug the people who have been insulted in the comment area, come on, life is so beautiful, how can you not come to a few scourges for thousands of years?

I used to be a relatively well-behaved child, but now I am very rebellious, even disobedient. It's a psychological problem.

When my dad scolds me, he always says you're useless, why don't you die. Because I have a lot of pimples on my face, people talk about how ugly I am when I walk.

It's very hot, and then I think about how I didn't get angry back at that time.

Do your own thing and let others talk about it.

Helpless, all insulted, what capital do you have to justify. When you are soaring, it is a strange word in the dictionary of life, "insult".

The psychological shadow area of anger and grievance is full, pretending to be happy and perfunctory! It makes people think that there is no bottom line