What happened to you that changed your life in an instant?

As it happens, I've been waiting for these things to happen. If something happens that changes my life, I can't ask for it.

I did have such an experience, that is, I suddenly figured it out before, and I didn't want to be so stubborn.

When I was in junior high school, I didn't know why I suddenly opened my mind, and suddenly I had to make up my mind to study hard. Before, there were about 100 students in our grade, and I was in the 40th or 50th place. In a middle school in a small county, it can be said that the level of education is not particularly high, not to mention the first test, and the second book may be difficult.

At that time, I didn't know why I suddenly opened my mind, and I felt that as long as I studied hard, I would have a future. I think it was the smartest decision I've ever made, and it was the one I made when I was younger.

When I need to ask others to help me do something, and others are busy shirking it, I understand that no matter what I do, don't pin my hopes on others, and I am the safest to rely on myself.

When I was in high school, I felt that everything in life was not so interesting, and then I thought that instead of living like this, it is better to work hard for the college entrance examination results.

The relationship between people is like playing a game of losing the ball, you throw it to me, I throw it to you, there are comings and goings, and in the process of getting to know each other and running-in.

I fell into a relationship, although I broke up, but I didn't get out of that feeling, that is, one day I suddenly realized that I came out of that relationship.

When I was in the middle of my sophomore year of high school, a conversation with my teacher made me suddenly realize, and then I began to study hard and achieved very good results.

When I was talking to my high school teacher about making a mistake, it dawned on me that I was going to go to a good university.

I was in lovelorn and suddenly sobered up. It made me feel that my behavior in the lovelorn was very irrational, and it was also at this time that I suddenly realized that I should become better.

When you see the truth of many things, you will have a feeling that you are the same, and you will see many things clearly, and then change your attitude towards life.

When you have been working hard to get something that others can easily get, you will feel that many things you can't do well if you want to do it, but you still have to work hard because there will be hope.

This is a thing that many scientists can't explain now, but there is an explanation that I personally think is more appropriate: because the activity of the cerebral cortex causes the brain to subconsciously self-fantasize that it is uncontrollable and unaware of it, and most of our situations are doing some things that we often do, so this phenomenon occurs and I often have it, or because the brain has written down a certain detail of what it used to do, and this detail happens to appear again this time, and the brain has a kind of thing called '. 'Shallow consciousness maximization' is this phenomenon, and I hope my explanation can give you a satisfactory answer.

It's in the human brain, the hippocampus...

Earlier I saw the idea that the cell went wrong, and the cell that received the situation was supposed to go into the consciousness of something new, and then it went wrong and went into the known consciousness.

1. Often when doing something, at a certain moment, I suddenly realize that the current state and the things I have done have appeared in my dreams.

I have this too.

Falling asleep and feeling empty or falling may be growing taller.

It's too much to stay up late, and people are too tired. Either your physique is too bad.

I used to think that the more friends the better, but when I was faced with a dilemma, I realized that the only real friends the better.

Everyone in life will continue to grow, and in the process of continuous growth, many concepts in our cognition will change. A lot of my friends I've been with have been really vulnerable when faced with difficult situations.

The more friends there are, the easier way to walk, that's what I've been thinking for quite some time. When I first came out of school, life was really tight, and it was because of the help of my friends that I was able to get out of the predicament of life.

That's why I always feel that the more friends the better, and the more friends I have, the more people I can help when I'm in trouble. Later in life, I always wanted to meet more people, wanted to be friends with more people, and sometimes even hurt my own interests to help others, hoping to be helped by more people when I was in trouble.

I always thought I had a lot of friends, until I was in trouble and I realized that there were really not many people who could help me.

A true friend will help you in times of need. When I got married, I needed to buy a house, and my savings were very different, and my parents gave me a lot of help, but I still wanted to pay a little more, so that I could pay a lot less interest in the future.

I thought of my friend and asked my friend to borrow money, because I didn't borrow much, and I was confident that I would pay it back within two years. But at this time, it was my college friends who lent me money, who helped me when I was just out of school, and who helped me when I needed money when I got married.

Of the friends I met later, very few lent me money, and most chose to turn a blind eye. From that time on, I felt that it didn't matter how many friends I had, it was important to have a few true friends.

I've long since changed my lifestyle, and while I have a few true friends around me, the rest are slowly losing touch. I guess life should be less complicated, and maybe it would be more comfortable to keep it simple.

On the road of life, it is enough to have three or five confidants. Manage your friendship with your heart, and time will give you the best answer.

In fact, when everyone reminds themselves in life, they will have a deep awakening to themselves.

The moment I was sick and uncomfortable in my life, I suddenly realized that human life is very fragile, and I must try to face life with a smile and live every day well.

In the second semester of my third year of high school, I suddenly realized that I couldn't go on in abandonment, my classmates around me were studying hard, and I couldn't wait for this time to pass, and I had to take the initiative to impact it myself.

Personally, I feel that when you are facing difficulties in life, there is an elder by your side to guide you, how to solve this difficulty, and finally you go to practice to solve it, and then at that moment you feel that your life suddenly woke up.

The moment I didn't get into college, I seemed to grow up instantly, and when I saw the college entrance examination scores, I seemed to instantly understand what it meant.

I have been immersed in my own world for a long time, and when I suddenly compare with others, I find that the gap between myself and others is really very big, and I realize that I should wake up and start planning my life again.

When you see the classmates who are the worst after graduation also drive a BMW, you can have no money and no background, but you can't do without a heart to work hard.

I am more lamented by the death of my loved ones. We feel that life is impermanent, and we should cherish it even more.

I once had a job, and the leader got along, it can be said that the leader became a friend who had nothing to say, generally he went out to socialize, he liked to take me, I tried to make myself dressed up a little brighter, and then showed my own side, which also earned him a lot of face. I always felt that I was good friends with the leader, and the leader would definitely promote me, and I would become more and more successful if I followed him, but this kind of thinking was not until after a few things that I suddenly realized that I was so naïve.

I said okay, then I'll put it on the table, and then he said very seriously in the next sentence, the table is also bought for ** money, and if you soak in water often, it will be bad for the table. I was depressed when I heard that, so where did I put my umbrella? It's such a simple thing, I don't even know where to put the umbrella!

I saw that my colleagues were not satisfied for a few days, so I privately suggested to the leader that I could take a few more days off, which was the voice of the whole team. The leader came up and said, I come here to work every day, I am paid, they are here to work, not to ask for a holiday, if you want to take a holiday, then don't come to do it, I was speechless after hearing it.

I have been depressed about these problems for several days, thinking about it, and suddenly understood in an instant, it turns out that the leader is the leader, don't be delusional to be friends with the leader, the leader will never treat you as his friend, it is possible that you are the talent he needs, so he will indulge you, but in some things, it can be shown that the leader and you are not all the way, you should never touch the authority of the leader.

It was probably a sophomore when I brushed Zhihu, and at that time I suddenly saw a person on Zhihu talking about his feelings, mentioning what he got on Zhihu and what the meaning of brushing Zhihu was, and suddenly woke me up, and I suddenly realized it and began to reflect.

In addition to the extensive browsing of new things and the superficial dabbling of things of interest, the most important thing in the current grade is to need an "optimus" to understand and study deeply, which can be used to support oneself and become the main energy. It's not a bad thing to brush Weibo and post bars, but you can get very few things. Occasionally, you might get something really S-class, but the cost is just too high.

So decided to uninstall Weibo and Tieba.

Some things are really suddenly figured out at some times.,The word naïve is probably to explain the previous state.,Just like in the past, I used to talk to my buddies seriously about not drinking to death.,Despise girls for makeup or something.,Later, after thinking about it, I found that my thoughts were too "naïve". As long as it's not alcoholic addiction, it's not unreasonable, and it's not a bad thing for girls to wear makeup or something, and that's someone's choice, so why should I criticize, and I'm sorry to all girls for their childish thoughts in my heart.

In fact, after unloading these, you will find that you have a lot more time in your life, you can read some useful books or feel a good unconventional **, delve into the major you like and are studying, and sometimes listen to songs, which is actually very good.

So thanks to the person on Zhihu, I also began to reflect on myself, change myself, some things are really inadvertently understood, which requires an opportunity, of course, that feeling of sudden enlightenment is really great, I am also glad that I can understand these early on, let myself change.

It's a really amazing feeling to come to an abrupt realization, and it's very sudden, and often without warning, which is why it's so peculiar.

I still remember that the current boyfriend of a female classmate in the class was my ex-boyfriend, and the two of us were quite close for a while, and one day she suddenly told me about her relationship with him, I didn't have any thoughts or feelings at the time, I intuitively felt that her words should be trying to express something, but I didn't know what she wanted to say and didn't answer, and the topic ended here. Later, about two years later, one day I was chatting with my best friend, and I suddenly understood what she meant, she must have wanted me to be jealous, but I was indifferent at the time, and I immediately thought it was a very interesting thing.

One more thing is about chemistry questions. There is a compulsory exam question in chemistry in the third year of junior high school, the topic is probably a brass spoon, to calculate the number of ingredients in it, this question is not changed for soup, the teacher has talked about it many times, but unfortunately I just couldn't at that time. Until one night a few days before the high school entrance examination, I was doing an exercise when I encountered such a question.

It was strange at the time, but I just looked at the question and made it. After that, I also got it right in the exam.

Since then I've experienced what an epiphany is, and it's been very interesting. Sometimes we may see a sentence and think of something, and suddenly we say, "Oh, that's how it is."

Of course, I think that more sudden realization is that we have experienced things and understood such experiences or truths after understanding, so it is better to see the world more and have experiences to have more insight.

When the ** and lies in life are exposed, when the guessing puzzle is suddenly prompted, when the world fog does not distinguish the truth, there is a feeling of sudden enlightenment, just like being cheated of money in life, after a period of time, you will figure it out.

From childhood to adulthood, my parents only loved my younger brother, which made me feel particularly wronged, until one day I learned from my mother that my younger brother was a child who was picked up, and I realized it completely.

Talking about a small thing when I was a child, the bottom of the small river more than a mile away from the village is flat, very wide, and the crops are good every year, and it rained that year, and the crops in the river were flooded, and one morning it was foggy, and we children went to the river to play, and when we walked to the river, we suddenly found two people walking along the riverside like a crawl, and they didn't fall, we were all afraid, and some said: I'm afraid of drowning devils. Some wanted to go back and call the adults, but finally agreed to go in and have a look, and found that they were all pulling a rope, and then looking at the other end of the rope, they were pulling a very small boat.

There was also a kid our size sitting on the boat, fucking, it scared us, and from then on, I knew that the boat was pulled by people in the retrograde.