How did you get past the future mother in law? How to get past the mother in law.?

First of all, you have to believe that a person can be changed, and you have to look at a person with a dynamic eye.

Secondly, you also have to believe that no matter how high your mother-in-law's expectations are for her future son-in-law, the first thing is for her daughter, not herself.

I hope these two sentences can cause you to think and find a solution

I seem to be younger than you, hehe, but I can say what I think, if you really love each other, you don't have to be afraid of anything, even if your mother-in-law is so strict, what's the use, it's hard to let you separate. The possibility seems to be not small I think the mother-in-law wants to test your liking for her son You don't have to pretend to be anything in front of her Don't be nervous Just treat her as your mother In fact, no one can stop two people from falling in love Hehe Come on

What are your strengths? If you know how to cook, you can cook a meal. In short, show your good side.

If it were me, I would be prepared in three ways.

The first is to find ways to understand the likes and dislikes of the mother-in-law. Individual breaks. The purpose is that buying a gift and meeting will not say a topic that disgusts the mother-in-law.

The second is to find five or six friends to cheer you up, arrange a plan, when you enter the mother-in-law's house, friend A calls you, talk about some work important, be sure to let the mother-in-law hear. Again, change the time slot until you leave and act like you're a busy person. The purpose is that the mother-in-law believes that you have the strength.

The third is to learn about the life and deeds of your mother-in-law from your object, and you should also pay attention to the details. The purpose is to find out the character of the mother-in-law, and after knowing the personality, check the personality characteristics from the Internet.

Be prepared, as long as you have experience and good eloquence, I believe you will not fight unprepared battles.

To tell you the truth, it's important to be the right person. Different living environments have long had different outlooks on life and values. After marriage, the relationship is incompatible, most of which is due to different outlook on life and values.

Of course, if you are in a new environment in the future, maybe you will also change, but whether this environment is created by yourself or given by others will have a greater impact on you personally.

Because you're a man.

Hello. Let me tell you a story first: Recently, a female netizen of mine who had a good chat also complained to me that her family is very rich, and her boyfriend has no money.

It feels like they have a good relationship, and her parents don't agree (which should be firm). I said, "It's not the right door, isn't it?" I could feel her hesitation, she admitted, but she still loved her boyfriend.

At the moment, they are still in a stalemate. Therefore, if you want to pass the level of your mother-in-law, the key is to strengthen your girlfriend's heart!

Ask your girlfriend to tell you more about her mother, such as her temper, hobbies, etc. Take a look at her ** in advance, look at a few more, and leave an impression in your mind, so that it will be easier to integrate after meeting. For your work situation, you can appropriately float a little more on the basis of seeking truth from facts, and keep it within a reasonable range (you need to talk to your girlfriend in advance about this).

Also, pay attention to your clothing, words and behaviors. Don't give gifts or anything, the first meeting will give people a bad feeling. You will be nervous when you see your mother-in-law, and you will definitely be even more nervous when you see your rich mother-in-law, but you have to suppress it no matter what, and you have to show a natural and relaxed state, remember!

You really want to be with her,,, so does she really want to be with you???

It's her business, and if she truly loves you and wants to be with you, nothing will help her family!!

It's you who can't run away, it's not your don't force it!!

Emotional matters can't be forced, the key lies in the two of you!!

As for meeting each other's parents, just face them with a normal heart, behave dignifiedly, and show your temperament!!

To be honest, you're not going to have a good problem! Let's not talk about the conditions, people ask you: What do you take to give her daughter happiness...No matter how noble life is, you can't save it on your own (unless you're so good that they don't have to be picky).

However, there are exceptions, if she doesn't have that kind of prejudice in her family, you can let your girlfriend probe the mouth! Plan again! And the last one, your girlfriend likes you very much, and she even has the heart to elope, and she has the determination to give up everything for love......Then it's easy to do, otherwise you should put it down yourself!

It's no fun, you have to give yourself a way to live!

First of all, you have to pay attention to your appearance. Secondly, you must behave generously and decently, so that people have nothing to say, and you must be elegant in conversation, and you must do things to let people see that you are really developing towards the future of you and their daughter. In this way, they will feel that you are reliable and will feel comfortable handing over their daughter to you

It's best to relax your mind, don't be nervous, answer questions when you have them, and show yourself where you are... There is a saying that would rather laugh at the pulsatilla than at the poor youth. Young people are most of all self-motivated... Break a leg!!!

In fact, sometimes the ancients said that it is very important to be a good person, are you going to be a son-in-law? Very angry, if her mother is a snarky person, what you say is not right, the reason is that you are poor, if her mother is an understanding person, then you answer all your conditions honestly, and during the banquet you have to show kindness to her daughter, every kindness, so that for a mother is more effective than any sweet words.

You should definitely go shopping, the best thing is to buy some supplements, what you should pay attention to is your own words and deeds "For example, if you watch TV at home or how, it is possible to cross Erlang's legs, then in ** you should pay attention, after all, the first time you go, you must leave a good image for your parents" If her parents agree with you as a son-in-law, then they will definitely agree to how you call them, and her sister's child must send red envelopes, who calls you a generation older than him...

Walk, ride, drive yourself, whatever you want.

Behaved politely, and the meeting gift was bought. Don't be too honest about your family situation, lest you be picky. Kuazhuan's mother-in-law is young and beautiful, and it is said that her daughter is no wonder that she is also beautiful and looks like her mother.

Kua mother-in-law's cooking is delicious......The first impression is very important, and people respect clothes first and then others. I feel that when she asks what things and tricks to test you, she immediately changes the topic after answering once, such as asking when her house was built, and whether her uncle and aunt are currently working or ......retiring

The general situation is to wait for the question and then answer. If you are a talkative person, then the initiative is in your hands. At first, you can praise your mother-in-law, such as being young, beautiful, and healthy.

Say less and do more, ask what you say, and don't be too public.

Ouch, you're so young and beautiful, no wonder your daughter is just like you.

The first gift should be a little thicker, and it is best to bring 2, for example, if you want to buy wine, you have to bring two bottles, the so-called good things come in pairs. Before going to her house, ask her parents what they are taboo, and behave steadily and behave naturally and appropriately. The mouth must be sweet, and it will shout.

You're almost 30 years old, and you've seen a lot of scenes, so it shouldn't be a problem for you! No matter when and where you treat your girlfriend as a relative, her parents can rest assured that they will hand over their daughter to you. Behave well and you'll pass the interview!

Here is some advice for you: first ask your girlfriend about the preferences of your father-in-law and mother-in-law, you can't go wrong with what she likes! Then pay attention to the gear! Sunshine point, mature point, let them feel worthy of trust!

First of all, gifts are inevitable When you enter the door, your mouth should be sweet, don't talk too much, don't say what you should say and don't say, don't be afraid, people will always have a first time, with the first time, there will be a second time, and it will be good to be ripe later! Come on, I wish you success!

Do more of what you should do in your daily routine. That's it.

If you have a good relationship with your wife, you will achieve your goal, and your mother-in-law will naturally be fine, and you have to live with self-esteem.

Marriage is a matter of conjecture to the future of life, so the other party's family will have material requirements, and you can prove that your career and income can reach that level in the future.

This can't be a one-trick job, the key is to treat them like your own parents through daily performance, and you will naturally win rewards.

Getting a girlfriend pregnant, although mean, but very straightforward.

Yes, this society is indeed cruel and realistic, you can do anything if you have money. Hehe.

Take the money. If you don't have any money, let alone get it done, it's good to let you in the door.