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Seeing relatives and friends, these related people die, everyone will have a shadow in their hearts Fear of death I think the best way is to stay in your family if you have nothing to do Try to find something to find Don't think about him Go out with friends and be happy Sing and sing Crazy Forget to hang After all, everyone has to go through the road of death Why don't you face it calmly You say it's put? You also have to learn to let go of yourself Going on like this is not the solution It will only make you more depressed In fact, no matter how much others say, they can't help you Walk strong Out of that shadow See more of the good side of the world Meaningful things When you find your goal I don't think you have time to think about it In the future, if you still vaguely think about it, talk to your friends, and it will be much more comfortable to say it.
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There's nothing wrong with being sentimental, and you ask yourself why you care so much, like why I often have tears in my eyes, because I love this land so much. Yes, it is love, you are a very emotional and sensitive person, and those who leave a beautiful image in your heart will feel very happy and happy when they feel your true feelings.
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You seem to be a seedling, unable to withstand any wind and rain, but what is not difficult and dangerous in the world? Birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable things, why do you care so much, be broad, why do you cry for people, other lives are not worth your crying?
Feel it more, and you'll naturally get better.
Feeling, life is not terrible, death is not terrible, what is terrible is that we don't have the courage to face it.
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My aunt has been kind to me since I was a child, and she loves me very much, but she got a terminal illness at the beginning of last year, and when she heard the news, it was like the sky was about to fall, really, so uncomfortable, unspeakably uncomfortable, she left us in May last year, and I died of sadness, hey! The world may be like this, friend, don't be sad, time is the best healing medicine, after this time, they are memories, living forever in your heart.
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I think you're just a menstrual cycle, everyone has a short period of time every once in a while, unhappy or very depressed, it's just a matter of time, after this time you will be fine.
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The Three Realms are idealistic, and the Ten Thousand Laws are only knowledgeable.
The phase is born from the heart, and the environment is created by the heart.
Sickness comes from the heart, and disaster comes from the heart.
Consciousness determines existence, and what kind of consciousness there is, what kind of life form and living environment there is.
Our own confusion lies in the confusion of our own consciousness, the confusion of life lies in the disorder of our own consciousness, our pain mainly comes from the pain of our own consciousness, and our uncertainty lies in the fact that our consciousness is not clear, and we do not know ourselves and what we need.
Most of people's pain, frustration, anger, hatred, disappointment, despair, and other negative emotions come from the ego consciousness, "this is my home", "this is my person", "this is my ......Rather than dealing with the endless troubles of my mother-in-law and mother in my life, it is better to get out of the consciousness of the ego and go straight to heaven.
As long as the consciousness of breaking through the walls is broken, there is a new scene.
Faith has an incredible meaning. Faith is a state of the same frequency of the mind, a meticulous, rigorous and meticulous thinking structure, and a perfect symmetrical system that can react in an instant. Faith is the attribute of God, the belonging of gods and Buddhas, the quality of immortals, and the pursuit of sages. As long as people live with faith, no matter what kind of disease, blindness, leprosy, paralysis, and so on, can be cured without cure.
Jesus is the embodiment of faith and he clearly tells us that if one has faith, one can uproot a tree and plant it into the sea. Buddha Shakyamuni also said that as long as a person has a true belief in the "Diamond Sutra", he can become a Buddha, and if he can reach the state of "no appearance", he can become a "true bodhisattva".
A person who is confident in himself can generate infinite spiritual power; A person who wants to change the world will have wisdom; A person who wants to become a master will inevitably have a strange fire in his heart; A person who has an infinite yearning for life will surely find a true guide.
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I wonder if you believe in Chinese medicine?
The theory of Chinese medicine can explain your psychological problems, and it can also be the best of the best.
You are suffering from "bile qi deficiency" in Chinese medicine. As long as the deficiency of the gallbladder meridian is cured, it can be cured.
Traditional Chinese medicine believes that if a person's gallbladder meridian is deficient, it will make the heart meridian chaotic, and once the heart meridian is scraped, it will be timid, or sleep is not deep, or even sleep poorly. Because he is timid, he is always suspicious; Because you are suspicious, you are worried; Since you have been thinking too much, several of your questions have appeared.
You go to see a Chinese medicine doctor, it's very easy to eliminate.
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You have compulsive tendencies, and the root cause is an insecure inner situation. This is a psychological problem, and it is already more serious according to your description. Psychological problems are mainly "imagined" by oneself.
And this kind of "imagination" is "abnormal" in the eyes of normal people. However, it is "relatively normal" in the eyes of the patient.
I can illustrate your problem with this sentence, which is "not afraid of 10,000, just in case". If something goes wrong, it's bad. This is a very small, very small chance that you will live in worry and fear every day, and your life will be devoid of joy and happiness.
And people with OCD are still desperately emphasizing "what if this problem arises"?
You know the story of "unfounded worries". You think about it; We could be hit by a car tomorrow, we could get cancer tomorrow. Although the odds are small, very small, you can't say no, right? So, excessive worry leads to a serious decline in your quality of life.
People with obsessive-compulsive disorder don't believe in anything, they don't believe in science, they don't believe in logic, they don't believe in psychiatrists. What do they believe? They believe in the "worries, fears, fears" in their own hearts. They believe in "10,000."
1. What if".
In fact, anything has the possibility of happening before it happens. Tomorrow the Earth will**. As long as it's not over tomorrow, it's possible.
Unless, tomorrow comes, tomorrow is over, the obsessive-compulsive person can say with certainty; O, March 12, 2011 Earth does not have **. However, tomorrow you still have a lot to worry about.
When you think about it again, you tell yourself; This is obsessive thinking. This is caused by a lack of inner security, professional psychologists have told me with vivid examples of the harm of this kind of thinking, I don't need to think like this, such thinking is really redundant, a waste of time, a waste of life, my quality of life is seriously reduced by my own worries and fears.
I have dispelled this worry and fear with my wisdom and understanding, with my abilities and talents. I've used a shredder to get rid of those worries and fears. Little by little, I became stronger, safer, more confident, and more optimistic.
When you often do this kind of positive imagery; When you become confident and strong little by little; When you make the problem clearer and clearer little by little; Your psychological problems will all disappear!
Bless you!
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I think you have some mild obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Being too yourself and not accepting yourself too much.
You can try to go out into nature and relax your mind, let go of some other stresses and thoughts, and listen to some soothing thoughts.
When you have these thoughts, tell yourself that it's not your real rational thinking, it's obsessive-compulsive disorder, and then switch your attention.
Good luck with you**.
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A little obsessive-compulsive, very insecure, very worried about what will happen, if you feel that it really affects your life, go to the psychological counseling center, don't go to the mental health center. If it's not very strong, it's okay not to look at it, and if you endure the symptoms, you will subside, and you don't need to control yourself and don't think about it.
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Mild obsessive-compulsive disorder Change your mindset, which is your mindset, and let yourself imagine the worst-case scenario, and in the worst-case scenario, you can still face it calmly and easily.
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Obsessive-compulsive disorder, a short-term illness may be caused by one's own mind, but if it is long-term, it will become a disease. Sometimes you can't control it by yourself without the help of **, you also want to control it, but you can't control it, right? Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't worry, go to the hospital to see, Chinese medicine is very good, Western medicine is too big, in addition, you have to control it, don't think too much, relax, it will be fine soon.
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Analysis: Hello, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life.
Advice: It is recommended to consult a psychologist**.
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It's because you're overnervous, and you think on the bright side, there's nothing in the world that can't be solved.
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I think perhaps the most difficult thing for you to accept is that those who are not as good as you have better grades than you. Because I feel like you're pretty sure of your cleverness. You always believe that if you want to, your grades will come up quickly.
But the reality seems to have caught you off guard for the draft, and now you are a little confused. He even began to doubt his own abilities. It is this questioning of your own abilities that makes you deeply painful, after all, it affects a very fundamental belief that your intelligence allows you to get good grades without having to work hard.
Maybe you can face that panicked self in your heart and ask him what makes him so nervous? Ask him what he thinks about the decline in grades, and ask him how he feels. At the same time, you should also ask him if there is anything he has done well, and if there is anything that makes him feel better.
By listening to your own heart, you can reduce your anxiety and learn to look at the same issues from different perspectives, and perhaps you will find the power you have.
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The third year of high school is mainly a review of knowledge, so let's find the textbooks of the first and second years of high school and review it.
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In fact, many people think that they are very smart, and they always feel that as long as they work a little hard, they will pull back the gap in the past, in fact, it is unrealistic, after all, the gap of 2 years is not so easy to make up. But brother, I advise you, it's already a fact that you are lagging behind, just don't take the score of the test paper as a matter of Yu Tuan, as long as you feel that you are a little better than last time, just let go of your heart, and the rest is on your own.
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