Does everyone go through a breakup?

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

Personal opinion: There is rarely a successful relationship, there must be a process to understand some things.

It seems that there are very few feelings that go to the end.

A: I don't dare to say everyone, but most people will go through such an emotional journey: quarrels, falling out of love, and breaking up.

And this is often called emotional problems, and there are many people who go out after encountering emotional problems, so you can do this to get out of emotional problems:

1. Give yourself the private time and space to cry Everyone will cry when they encounter difficulties, which is not ashamed, this is very normal. It's the same when you encounter emotional problems, you need to release the negative emotions that have been suppressed for a long time, to let go of them, so that the positive emotions can come up, and you can truly embrace those positive emotions. So, the right thing to do is to be right for the sake of the greater positivity, and to cry.

2. Pick up the time you have spent and use it on other worthy feelings You have spent time on the wrong person and the wrong relationship, and then a series of emotional problems will inevitably occur. If you want to come out, you might as well try to pick up the time you once wasted again, spend the time on your family and friendship, and you will find that when your efforts are proportional to the gains, you will have a sense of happiness.

3. Enrich yourself with an empty shell, but also enrich your boring lifeWhen a person is most injured, his shell is actually empty, because the things in it are emptied, and some things are gone, you have to enrich more good things and be a fulfilling self. Go on a trip, learn a skill that you once wanted to learn, or do something you didn't dare to do but wanted to do, and you will slowly find that you are slowly becoming stronger, your life is slowly enriching, and those emotional problems that once bothered you have slowly faded with the wind over time.

After the breakup, the impact that the person I loved for the first time had on me was huge. This relationship was like a profound education for me to learn how to deal with the ups and downs and setbacks of life.

During the time we were in love, he always brought me a lot of joy, warmth and sweetness, as if every moment was full of happiness. However, when the relationship came to an end, we had to choose to break up, which made me feel unprecedented pain. This failed relationship experience has made me gradually understand

Life is not always easy, and we can't expect everything to fail as in a dream.

For example, I've had setbacks in my career. Once, I was trekking for a project, and I put in a lot of hard work, but it didn't work out. During that time, I felt very lost and depressed.

However, remembering the growth that I had bravely faced since my breakup with him, I regained my strength and believed that I had what it took to get through this hurdle.

In fact, that breakup experience taught me to accept and deal with the imperfect reality of the charter section, which made me more mature and courageous. This growth has been a key force in overcoming countless obstacles on my life's important path.

So, even though there was pain and loss, it is undeniable that the first person I loved was a huge boost to my growth. It was that feeling of bad reputation that made me know more how to cherish the present, move forward bravely, and become a better person.

Regarding love, how can there be so much love at first sight, but about breaking up, there are many premeditated plans.

Just like the night will always experience sunset and moonrise, just like tears always have to be cooled down, a day's breakup is also enough to save up every disappointment, sadness, indifference, baseless auspicious ......Zhifeng Trail finally broke out one day.

So what are the signs between two people before they break up?

Overly picky, unwilling to contact, have nothing to say, and unwilling to go out or do things together.

In love life, "the last straw that crushed the camel" I don't think this is an excuse, Gao Congwang but there has already been a crack, no one will say that a relationship is suddenly terminated for no reason, but slowly disappointed in this relationship, and then explodes at a certain point, leading to the termination of the relationship.

1 There are many examples of this around me.

One of my roommates had his own girlfriend when he was a sophomore, and at that time he went out to eat with the people in the dormitory or something, and he would take his girlfriend with him, and at that time he felt that they were very compatible, and it was the feeling that he would go to the end, but suddenly one day he said that he broke up, and we were also very sudden, but he said that he was too disappointed in this relationship, and then he said some of his views on this girl, and we also understood the reason. <>

2 Love is not suddenly terminated.

Everyone will encounter various problems when they fall in love, such as small conflicts between two people, quarrels over small things, but some things will affect a lot, that is, everyone's bottom line, if you keep violating the bottom line, the other person's patience is also limited, so slowly Zheng Shen's disappointment accumulates to a certain extent, and he will propose to break up because of a seemingly small thing. There's a reason for that. <>

3 When you fall in love, you must understand each other.

Everyone's relationship is not smooth sailing, they all encounter some small problems, and they have to solve problems when they encounter problems, and many times they have to accumulate through these small problems and this relationship is buried, so no matter what the contradiction is, it is necessary to actively solve it, and sometimes it is the best way to solve the problem by slowly understanding each other, and the contradictions between you will also be well solved. <>

Falling in love is the process of two people getting to know each other, and slowly two people will become more and more tacit.

Breaking up peacefully is the best way, and only by getting together and dispersing can we show each other's generosity, and we can also leave a good impression on each other, so that we will not be particularly embarrassed when we meet.

When two people have reached the point of breaking up, I think the best way to break up should be to go to a particularly quiet place with the other person for dinner, and through this meal, let the two people talk about their feelings and propose to break up in the process of eating, so that the two people can break up peacefully and not be hurt more.

It must be a peaceful breakup, two people take the responsibility on themselves, and such a breakup will be very peaceful.

I think a decent breakup is the best way, everyone can break up peacefully, I don't think it's so embarrassing, because I don't think it's really necessary.

<> reasons for a breakup can vary from person to person, but in some cases, some reasons for a breakup may be considered outrageous or unusual. Here are some reasons for a breakup that might be considered outrageous:

1.Zodiac discord: Someone may propose a breakup on the grounds of constellation discord. However, there is no scientific basis for this rationale, and it ignores the complexity of people's personalities and behaviors.

2.Our shoe sizes are different: An outrageous breakup reason may be a different shoe size. This kind of justification suggests that the person proposing the breakup hasn't seriously considered their relationship and may be looking for a ridiculous excuse.

3.Because you're too short: height isn't a key factor in determining the success of a relationship. It is irresponsible and outrageous to use height as a reason for a breakup.

4.Because of your hair color: Hair color shouldn't be a reason to break up either. Using hair color as the reason for the breakup indicates a lack of respect and understanding for the relationship on the part of the person proposing the breakup.

5.Because you're too fat: weight isn't the measure of a person's worth. It is unfair and outrageous to use weight as a reason for a breakup.

6.Because you're left-handed: Being left-handed is not a serious problem and shouldn't be a reason to break up. It's ridiculous to use such a trivial thing as a reason to break up.

7.Because you're a vegetarian: An outrageous reason to break up could be because you're a vegetarian.

This reasoning suggests that the person proposing the breakup did not seriously consider their relationship and may be looking for a ridiculous excuse. Note that these grounds are extreme examples and should not normally be used as grounds for a breakup.

The reason for the breakup should be the unsolvable problems encountered by both parties in the relationship, such as disagreement of values, trust issues, etc. When proposing a breakup, try to be honest, respectful, and understanding of the other person's feelings.

It may be that they love each other too much and want to give each other the best. Maybe it's a personality incompatibility, or maybe you have different dreams, etc.

It's painful and painful to get used to it.

And the people you mentioned.

It's just some people.

There should be some people who don't have the painful experience of breaking up!

Do you want to be held for the rest of your life? That's so tiring.