Girlfriend of 2 years and first love How do I choose!

First love is often very beautiful, so don't break that beauty, don't let those memories become painful, just cherish the present, after all, I've been with you for two years, it's not short, you're like that because you quarreled with your girlfriend If you hadn't quarreled with your girlfriend, would you still go to your home to find a friend, would you still contact her? So, maybe this chance encounter is to test you to see if you are loyal to the current one.

Didn't see your question from start to finish.

You love your girlfriend very much. The memories of getting along with my first love are beautiful, isn't it contradictory?

But I still want to say you.

There must be a practical reason why you broke up with your first love in the first place. quarreled with his current girlfriend, then for sure, of course, two people living in reality can't be completely consistent in everything and have their own habits and directions. You are now escaping reality and immersing yourself in memories.

Besides, your first love doesn't mean anything right now that she wants to kick her boyfriend and elope with you. Your wishful thinking doesn't know that it's best to stop in time. Otherwise, it must be unpleasing to both sides.

No matter what, if you really love your current girlfriend and respect your first love, cherish the present and don't let your first love look down on you. I wish you happiness.

Be a loyal and responsible person, I advise you to cherish the present, after all, your first love now has a boyfriend.

We can't suppress our feelings,,, because maybe neither of us will end up well.

Cherish the person in front of you, and it's normal for lovers to quarrel and fight. A girl who loves you will always be by your side.

Some things are destined to last a lifetime if they are missed. Many people think that they can do it all over again, but in the end, they know that they really can't go back to the past, so get along with their current girlfriend The first love can only be the first love Of course, if you insist on reconciling with the first love, I have no way Friendly reminder Really have to spend wine Don't play ambiguous Be careful that you can't get it in the end Send a poem to you...

The red wine is drunk alone and the cool breeze hits, and the flowers fly to the clothes of passers-by.

Persuade you to cherish the people in front of you, and don't wait for the mountains to prevent people from isolating.

Once the sea was difficult to water, you can understand your feelings about your first girlfriend. But you've got a new girlfriend, and she's got a new partner. I think it's better to live your current life, lovers will always have contradictions together, just understand each other and tolerate each other.

You have to know that what you can't get is always the best, you think she's good now because you don't have her, now it's just friendship between you, we usually feel very good and tolerant of friends, on the contrary, your girlfriend has been by your side for so many years, you may have gotten used to it, used to her getting anything, but, that day she left, you will understand. In fact, your girlfriend is the best, and the first love is just a beautiful dream, and the dream will eventually wake up one day.

Let it go, her heart is not with you, and it hurts to love.

o My God shouldn't be much hope.

Let's just say that you did the wrong thing at the wrong time.

Divide it, the longer it goes, the more you can't let it go.

It's too long. Didn't look at it. Anyway. Good luck.

Do you still want to keep it? I suggest you let go, will the feelings you leave behind still feel the same way they did at the beginning? Finally, I would like to give you a word: where there is no grass in the world, why bother to love a flower.

She loves him a lot more than you do, so let it go. Wishing you the happiness you find out.

Crazy men and women, it is good to see through the red dust.

Fuck, second-hand, just unreliable.

Tell you, I don't think there's any need to redeem her, she doesn't belong to you in the first place, there is a good saying, the twisted melon is not sweet, have you heard it!!

Don't be nostalgic for her appearance, appearance is not important, what matters is the heart, you yourself know very well that she doesn't care about you, so what else to force, for example, even if she is by your side, she may not be happy if you are happy!

Do you want your loved one to live an unhappy life for the rest of your life?

Sometimes giving up is also a sign of "love"!

Go and enrich yourself, let time pass, and find your own girl again!!

Hey, really, there's no need for this kind of woman.

The word "love" never appears in your question, so ask yourself first, do you love her? What do you love about her? Pretty or excellent?

If a person really loves another person, he will change for the other person and work harder for the other person to improve himself. This is the power of love, if you just blindly retreat and feel that you are not worthy of the other party, you will become more and more inferior, and you will find more and more your own direction.

Now that you're separated, you also have to do a good job of self-reflection, do you still love her? If you love, chase it back, and then try to improve what you feel is lacking. If you don't love her, let her go. Recognize what love is all about.

I don't think you have any confidence in yourself, and maybe the same problem will arise when you meet the next girl. You have to make yourself "strong" first. Take a look at your own brilliance.

No one is perfect, two people together is to tolerate each other, improve each other, and support each other, which is where true love lies.

Time can dilute everything.

This person is very arrogant, you should work hard, your own career, when you have money, she kneels in front of you and begs you, don't do it.

Don't rush back to her, make yourself excellent first, only by becoming excellent can you be confident. If you are not confident, she is liking you, and you will one day lose her because of the cowardice in your heart.

I suggest you take a look at "The Road to Psychological Strength", a book that compares the wrong one... You should turn your sadness into motivation and work hard for her to see your excellence one day in the future, girls will not like people who are not self-motivated.

Friends, we should not live in memories, you have to look forward, after all, there are people outside of people. There is a day outside the sky, if she dumps you, then you should not feel inferior, low self-esteem will only make you feel guilty, but just when you are sad, your first girlfriend may have already been at ease, will you feel angry? Then please turn anger into power, use time to dilute everything, I have a message for you:

If you think of her, then there is only one possibility in your life - pain, I hope you leave her and experience 10,000 possibilities in life! Best wishes!

Brother, I tell you. There will never be a girl who can stand above her in your heart because you love her so much!

Let it be, leave it to time to solve it, men should be tough!

There must be no better than her, because if you feel that she is very good and is looking for her, whether you are better than her or not, you will feel that you are not as good as her.

Don't regret it. Men should be able to afford to put it down.

The most important thing for men is to be confident that there are many good girls in the world and that they don't hang themselves from a tree.

You like paper money because you don't see gold, and when you like gold, it's because you don't see masonry.

She's not your first love, it's obvious when you kiss, and the boys and girls who kiss for the first time will only suck.

It's hard to be sure, because it depends on the girl's experience, some girls like to watch TV, imitation, it's easy, and some girls are very shy, generally speaking, it's mouth-to-mouth, at most teeth touch teeth, and some are very big, they will suck when they open their mouths, not strange. Why speculate, if there is a guess in love, it is destined to change or fail.

You have talked about it yourself 2 times, and it should be very clear: this calm is not really calm, but the comfort of real love.

Your partner may really not have a relationship with someone, so thinking that love is like the feeling of ignorance at the beginning.

Since it is the object of the conversation, after all, it is necessary to sublimate the object of the conversation into a husband and wife, and then from a husband and wife to a child and his parents, and then sublimate into an old husband and wife, and finally a widow or remarry.

You have two problems: 1. The problem of your partner, little experience in love. 2. Your question, you have been in love twice, you should know that you have been in love for a long time to further develop the relationship.

It's been talking for more than half a year, and you're still living in a long distance, and you and she are thinking about the future. You should be proactive and plan for the future.

Instead of talking and talking, waiting for a woman to make a request?

First shot, she decides @!!

To communicate face-to-face, find problems from yourself first, avoid doubts, and then understand her thoughts.

Go kiss her now! Take the initiative!!

Heaven and earth are wide and humble are narrow, the wind and snow are idle, and the laborers are redundant!

You are really a child, don't just see what is in front of you, the temporary entanglement will become light in the new environment after a long time!

Women are impressed with their first man, and men are usually suspicious of women's first comparisons. But no matter whether a man or a woman has a wheel, there will always be a first time, give her time to fade it, and usually mention her in the past, tell her to distinguish her position, she is your girlfriend now, why do you always think about other men? So look away, because she will have other men in the future, and you will also have other women in Tongzhou, that's for sure, so don't take it too seriously, just be happy together.

My brother taught you a personal outlook on life, which is "mentality" in a nutshell - the law of wandering: this is my self-created self-law, that is, no matter what situation you are in, in any situation, facing anyone or even yourself, don't fill yourself in, and always regard yourself as an outsider or a bystander, because the bystander is "clear"! For example, when you and a bunch of people are arguing on the ground, call for shelter, empathize, and see yourself as a cloud in the sky, and there are countless things that can overlook the earth, and those people are just a handful, how can it be enough?

Today's sea of flowers will also become a pile of hay tomorrow, the node of life is just a small station, after a short perch, it will start a new journey, because the years are irreversible, and it is always forward!