Is it better to have a mother in law and daughter in law relationship, and what kind of mother in la

Before I got married, my boyfriend's mother really didn't like me anymore, but after my boyfriend and I decided to get married, our attitude was immediately different!

It's actually very simple to make your mother-in-law like it, you must not have a temper in your mother's house, you must show weakness when you quarrel with your husband, and end the fight with forbearance, you must not teach your husband in front of your mother-in-law, your husband can teach her privately! If you have to work at your in-law's house, don't be like a big lady, don't start if you can't cook, choose vegetables and wash dishes, ......The mouth must be sweet, and it is worth saying something disgusting and wanting to vomit for the sake of family stability!

Yes, the relationship is much better...

I'm not married. My boyfriend's mom was nice to me. Better than my own mother. I feel lucky. When a woman grows up, she wants a husband and a mother-in-law.

My boyfriend and I are not married, anyway, I think his mother is not very bad to me, I just think he cares about my body.

Tell me about my family.

I think I'm good enough, I usually help with housework, eat and wash dishes, but my mother-in-law still has problems with me, and I'm very depressed.

My mother-in-law told me to work three jobs, in front of my husband (just to let me go out and make money, have you ever met such a person?). My son didn't scream, asked me to do three jobs, and really treated me as a servant), my husband was silent next to me, and I was very angry (because I didn't want to quarrel with my mother-in-law, every time she said anything about me, I endured it, and tried not to talk back to her, and my husband let me do the same).

I don't have any feelings for her now, sometimes I feel unhappy when I think about going back to my husband's house, it's almost the Spring Festival, I don't want to go back to my husband's house, and I will be told this and that.

A woman had a fever of 41 degrees and her husband had a fever of 39 degrees, so she asked her father-in-law to take the two children to her in-laws' residence, and they told her mother-in-law to go back as soon as possible to avoid infection.

At this time, her mother-in-law was reluctant to leave and insisted on staying to take care of her son and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law found a floor mat, found a quilt, and prepared to sleep on the floor. When Ms. Chen slept in a daze, her mother-in-law would go to the end of the bed to warm her feet, and when she woke up in the middle of the night, her mother-in-law would ask her if she wanted to go to the toilet or drink water.

When many people saw this, they praised this mother-in-law for being so good, she was simply a fairy mother-in-law, she was not afraid of being infected, and she took care of her so carefully, she took care of her better than her own mother.

Some netizens saw this** and thought of their experiences in the past few days, and tears were about to flow. A mother said: "My mother-in-law heard that my child and I were both impotent, and directly said that she was afraid that she would be infected and would not come to take care of the child."

That's human nature, and fortunately, I survived with my children. ”

A netizen who also survived by himself said: "What a good mother-in-law, my mother-in-law was so scared that she didn't dare to come to my house, she hid far away when she saw me in the yard, I still took care of the two children when I had a fever, and the two children were yang one after another." ”

Yes, we often say that adversity sees the truth, usually it is said in a fanciful way, at critical moments, behavior will betray a person's true thoughts, making you feel that her previous words were just jokes, and now she is the real her.

In such a comparison, Ms. Chen's mother-in-law is really a good mother-in-law, and then looking at her previous **, I found that her mother-in-law has not only been good to her in the past few days, but has always treated her like a daughter. Because she was married far away and was not familiar with her life, her in-laws said that they would treat her as their own daughter, and they really did it.

That's my opinion.

Of course, the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law can be good. When I go out with my mother-in-law now, everyone else will mistake me for her daughter, and they all say, "Your daughter is so good to you."

If there is any secret to a good relationship with your mother-in-law, it should be the following three points:

The first is to let go of the estrangement, completely accept the mother-in-law, think about the mother-in-law's difficulty, why should women be embarrassed by women. Open your heart and treat your mother-in-law as a customer, and you must be able to observe words and feelings.

We can be so patient with our customers, why can't we do it to our loved ones?

The second is to be able to coax, what is good to hear, but this also depends on the character of the old virtual boy, depending on which set she eats. It is our lawyer's advantage to be able to say that we can call for words, and being thick-skinned is our specialty.

Of course, coaxing can't be limited to words, you must seize every opportunity to buy some small gifts for your mother-in-law, buy them on a business trip, buy them when you go out to play, in fact, your mother-in-law doesn't care about what she buys, she just wants to know whether you care about her or not, whether you respect her or not.

And I found that when I did this, my husband treated me better, and he no longer nagged me to buy things indiscriminately, because no matter what I bought, I would buy a copy for my mother-in-law first, and I would also say that ** was about 20%.

The third is to be good to her son, that is, to her husband, the better you are to her son, the better she will be to you.

Every mother's mind is the same, she wants her children to live well, so if she wants her mother-in-law to be good to herself, she needs to be good to her son, she only needs to be good on the surface, of course, it is best to be good from the heart. For example, in front of his mother-in-law, he called his son ** to show his concern, left delicious food for his husband, bought clothes for his husband, etc.