Mom said, Don t tell other people about your shortcomings, your difficulties, your bad things, but

This shows that your mother loves you!

Nothing, huh? Be careful when speaking and make a good impression in front of people you don't know very well, which is a guarantee of good relationships. Stick with it, it'll be good for a long time.

Of course, it depends on the person.,If it's to make friends, talk about your hobbies first.。。。

Yes, to come out of society is to learn these things, and to be infinitely useful.

You don't have to do this deliberately, you will understand it slowly.

Just be cautious when you speak, and don't let people you don't trust hold your handle.

The family is innate, your parents only have such great abilities, if you want to live a better life, you can earn it with your own hands in the future, don't put pressure on your parents.

Rich people also have troubles, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and you can't just look at things by appearance.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the appearance of the scenery is not necessarily happy

As the saying goes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the specific situation of other people's families is not something you can see clearly at once, and your mother is not wrong in this sentence.

That's just an appearance, and every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

Go and communicate with your mother, because for a while, your parents didn't treat you as an adult, and they said your bad things unconsciously, not intentionally. That is to say, parents do not take these problems seriously, just casually say it, and you are a child who has not yet reached adulthood (in the eyes of your parents you will always be a child), at this time you should go to your parents to communicate, when communicating, pay attention to your tone, can not blame parents emotionally, or there will be no conflict, go try, parents will always love their children, you tell them what you don't want others to know, although parents don't take it seriously, but in the future they will pay attention to these problems.

What to do, people's personality is like this, some people like to depreciate themselves, and then the people around you say good things for you, and then talk very happily, maybe that person is the same as your mother, this is the tacit understanding between them.

If your mother doesn't say this one day, even if you do, that person is boring and helps your mother talk about you, then your mother will jump up, and some things are self-deprecating when you say them, and it's an insult for others to say them.

What's the relationship between you and your mom like?

Is it a relationship where you can talk to each other calmly?

If you can, try to find an opportunity to express your feelings to your mother.

In addition, your mother may be a person whose boundaries are relatively unclear, so it is difficult to distinguish between relatives and relatives.

If so, it may also be accompanied by a more emotional and more skillful communication.

If there is a consultation channel, it is recommended to talk to a professional first.

Learn the right skills and try to communicate with your mother.

Bless you

Now I don't bother to tell them anything, a little thing, I can't wait to beat the gong and drum to tell the world.

What can I do? Let her go! You're still a mother, I'm actually a father, I'm out of the house, he will go around with people and I'm doing something outside!

He said all kinds of things, when I got home, I would be questioned by the people in the village, and I really wanted to find a hole to get into, but what can I do!? After all, it's your own parents, and you leave them forever? No, so just follow them!

My dad always talked to people and showed off everything to them. I don't usually get along with me.

Dad said psychologically, and my mother said that my mother doesn't talk to others, always told my dad, sometimes I didn't say that my mother told my dad, my mother also told my dad that I think my dad is not good at work, but there is no "heart brave" vernacular, so that I don't want to talk to her, always quarrel about this, I don't think my dad is bad is love to show off, my mom she wants to do what she doesn't say she always says what I said, my dad plans to let me recruit a son-in-law at home, my mom is counting on me, so I don't want to fall in love.

My mother is exactly the same as your mother, to put it bluntly, she has no brains, her brain is lacking, and I often tell him not to go out and say don't go out to say, but she is just cheap, damn, I really want to beat her.

Everyone in the life of Zaoyan has their own difficulties, instead of always going well, every day goes well, but we often complain that others don't care about you, can't understand their own difficulties, often complain that your mother is not good to you, can't make yourself like other classmates go back and forth, complain that your classmates are not good to you, and can't send his concern in time when you fail, complain But have you ever thought about it? Others also have their own difficulties? How have you ever experienced others?

We are all an individual to form a society, we all have to care, care, understand, as long as we can give a little love in the understanding, the world will become a better world, and we understand at the same time forget that others are the same as their own desire to care, understand, sympathy, desire to make those unnecessary complaints about this stool, if each of us can understand the difficulties of others, then the world will be free of those troublesome disputes. Just like every time we go home and stretch out our hands to ask our parents for money, the most terrible thing is that my mother gives less, and begins to say that my mother is not good to you, but have you ever thought that it is not easy for my parents, my mother has to arrange the life of our whole family, and my father has to bear our tuition, every penny is hard-won, as the saying goes, "I don't know how expensive firewood and rice are not at home", and my parents also have their difficulties! Although they didn't show it, but their pressure is very high, when we help classmates at the same time and are rejected, you also have to think about it, it's not that your classmates are not good to you, you don't care about it, but classmates also have his difficulties, is their own requirements reasonable?

By reflecting on it from time to time, we become peaceful and tolerant. In fact, we can also understand others at a deeper level, others do wrong things, it is to criticize, but as long as we can tolerate his difficulties a little more, and meet his hardships, this can give others a kind of warmth, so that things will pass, complaining about others will not help, and it will hurt the feelings of others! "Let's just say that the last time I asked my classmate to do something for me, maybe he forgot and didn't help me, and me?

But don't promise me if others are willing to help me, "How much does others hurt others in this way, who has done nothing wrong!" No one is perfect. As long as we can empathize with other people's difficulties.

To understand the difficulties of others, each of us has to dedicate our lives to it. Finally, I would like to say that if you want others to understand your difficulties, then you should first understand the difficulties of others.

Knowing your shortcomings, try to slowly change yourself and make yourself better and better.

Some people are like that, nothing. I didn't tell anyone anything. It's your own personality.

You can also take this opportunity to go outside and gain some social experience, no matter what our parents say, we can think that they are good for us.

I seem to feel a little sorry for you.

People like to educate others, and educating others makes a person feel fulfilled, which is human nature.

Just talk about it, don't practice.

Lay a finger on someone.. When they really let them do it, they are dumbfounded.

I hate this kind of person the most.

Go your own way and let others do the talking!

That's not self-aware. I hate people like that, too.

There is a saying that the crow falls on the pig, and when it sees others black, it can't see its own black.

There are all kinds of people in society! One kind of rice raises a hundred kinds of people. That's society.

Yes, I am not qualified to speak about others, ignore him.

There's a theory that people hate the same part of themselves, and thanks to their feedback on me, I'm going to do it to my advantage.

Sometimes it's like this, but you just don't feel it.

Just talk about not practicing stupid tricks, ignore them.

Generally, leaders love this, face problems, flickering to keep their positions. o(∩_o

Strong words are unreasonable, vexatious.

This is normal, because everyone likes to make friends with a little more people, if you deliberately tell others about your shortcomings, then others pay more attention to your shortcomings, rather than your points, and over time, you will give others a less satisfactory impression. Shortcomings are discovered and corrected by yourself, rather than blindly saying them, and if you meet someone with bad intentions, it will also bring you a lot of trouble. The above is my personal opinion, I hope it can help you.

If you deliberately tell others, what is a small shortcoming may be expanded in the eyes of others. It will be difficult for them to see your strengths anymore, and if you know your weaknesses, you can just correct them, and you don't need to deliberately say it. I think so.

In interpersonal communication, you first seek common ground and seek differences, and if you first tell others about your shortcomings and shortcomings, you will leave a bad influence on others, and then you will communicate like this in the future. People want to look for the better, and the same goes for friends. If you don't feel that you have any shining points, then your interpersonal relationship will not be so good.