What kind of experience is it to have a discordant view with people you play with

I think everything should be based on the three views, and the people who play with them do not agree on the three views is a very tiring experience, and we can't talk about one point.

There are often disputes over various things, and it may be that we are unhappy with each other, so our relationship becomes meaningless.

Therefore, it is very embarrassing and tiring to disagree with the people you play with.

If you don't agree with the people you play with, you will quarrel when you meet, and you will always quarrel over a little thing. But since you know that this person does not agree with you, but you still choose to play with her, it means that this person still has a lot of advantages that you are optimistic about, so at this time, both parties should still tolerate and understand each other, and sometimes take a step back and open the sky, and the friendship between each other will last longer.

If we have some disagreements, then disagree, let's deal with these things a little bit for the time being, and the relationship between each other should not be shaken.

Since I was a child, I have a friend who has been playing to adulthood is very maverick, and I always can't go with his ideas, and when I was a child, I often quarreled about what to play and how to play! When I grow up, I will start to debate often because of some differences in opinions!

One of my roommates and I have different views in many places because of different living environments, and we can't say who is right and who is wrong, but we just can't talk together, we can only maintain normal communication and life every day, and there is no way to be true friends.

There will indeed be many contradictions when people with different views play together, so we should tolerate such a problem, after all, the ideas between people are different, 1000 readers have 1000 Hamlet, and we should adapt, and we should adapt, after all, communication needs to be tolerant.

I remember my best high school classmates, we were both in a dorm room, we both went to dinner together after class every day, and when we went back to the dorm, we secretly played with our phones together, watched anime together, what did we both do together? But because of one thing, I found that the three views of the two of us did not agree, so we broke up, because in the third year of high school, I thought I should study hard, but he thought that he must go to bed before 11 o'clock at night, because 11 o'clock to one o'clock is the time for the human body to detoxify, but because I have to study hard, I broke up with him.

Play when you can, don't play if you don't have the same personality, and there is no interest relationship, there is nothing to weigh, just be yourself. Everyone has their own advantages, you have to be good at discovering the advantages of others and apply what you have learned, this is the right way to deal with others, if there is really no nutrition in communicating with the people who play, it is recommended that you play less and read more books.

After watching Xu Zhian and Huang Xinying's ** today, my first reaction was that they deserved to be exposed, one had a wife, the other had a boyfriend, and they did such an unbearable thing, but my good friend said that this taxi driver was very immoral, this kind of thing is a matter of two families, why did it break out?

Therefore, we didn't speak all afternoon, and sometimes we couldn't communicate if we didn't see each other, so we stopped this conversation for the time being.

With a person with different views, we usually say that this kind of person does not speculate for more than half a sentence, so when Feng Shi meets this kind of person, if you say that you talk about something, or have different opinions on a certain point of view, you don't need to argue with him, just ignore it.

It's easy to be with someone who doesn't agree with you, either you will have a strong conflict, or you may fall into a state of cold war, so if it can be resolved, or if you inevitably have to meet her every day in your daily life, it is best to find a way to solve the situation.

Generally speaking, if we are with a person who does not agree with our three views for a long time, it is easy to have disputes, which will lead to conflicts, and will also affect our own mood and emotions. If you are in this situation for a long time, it is easy to cause all kinds of physical diseases.

With people who don't agree with the three views, we also have to distinguish whether this kind of person can communicate with them, if it is really a stubborn person, then you don't need to talk too much with him. If the other party is a sensible person, if you feel it is necessary, you can also tell him your point of view, and guide him carefully and patiently.

Therefore, when you meet someone who has different views from yourself, you want a harmonious language environment, you can reserve your own opinions with each other, and don't refute him when you don't recognize each other, but understand him from his point of view, and you can keep your own opinions. This is the similarity and difference between silver and dispersion. For example, if you like to drink and you like to drink coffee, then you can go to a place where you have both, and each has its own hobby, so you can get the best of both worlds.

Or discuss it, find a common ground for both parties, have a meal together, drink nothing, think about each other, and accommodate each other.

Why do I always feel like my boyfriend doesn't understand me at all?", many friends have asked this question.

Maybe it's because your three views are different.

Sometimes they really don't mean to be angry with you, but they really can't understand Qin Duansheng.

They don't understand your happiness, sadness, grievances, and anger. They don't know what you really need, so they can't meet your needs.

Therefore, it is really difficult for people with different views to go to the end.

Some people say, "It's easy to fall in love because of the five senses; It's not easy to get along, because of the three views. ”

When you are with people who have the same three views as you, it will be much easier and more comfortable to get along.

You'll find that it's really cool to fall in love like this.

I understand your preferences, and I know that playing Honor of Kings will always buy a few ** for your favorite heroes; But I hope you can understand me, and don't think that I buy some luxury goods to worship material money.

As a boyfriend, you should respect your girlfriend's desire and pursuit of beauty, instead of counting her down and teaching her to be diligent and thrifty.

When a girl falls in love with you, she doesn't come to you to be angry and wronged herself.

Of course, it is not that you have to spend much, but at least within your means, you must support her more.

People with the same three views understand the attitude of their lover to spend money, and they understand that girls like to love with a sense of ceremony.

Just like I like to eat stinky tofu, you like to eat high-end Western food, but this is not an inconsistency.

But you have to say that I eat stinky tofu as junk food, that I eat "", and that you have become the embodiment of elegance, this is the inconsistency of the three views.

When encountering differences, we should know how to respect each other.

Just like I like to eat stinky tofu, you understand and accept my preferences and are willing to eat with me.

People who have the same three views know how to respect your choices and hobbies, and will not impose their own ideas on you.

A lot of quarrels and suspicions are caused by the inconsistency of two people's three views.

I like to dress up in a new and bright way, but in your eyes it becomes a revealing dress; I'm out with a few old friends, and you think I have another purpose.

Good lovers will put themselves in each other's shoes, understand each other, and respect each other. will not be worried about a little thing and quarrel.

I think the person who refutes you for everything you say must not love you.

People who really have the same three views are full of trust in each other, and to a certain extent, they will give each other the living space and freedom they want, and respect each other's choices.

I like a sentence very much, both of us are going to go for a lifetime, so why take it so seriously? ”

Like-mindedness is a real plus in a relationship, and to give you a simple example, all boys love girls who play basketball because they share a common hobby.

You like to walk around, see the world, and see the scenery and people everywhere, but he thinks that this is spending money to buy sin, which makes no sense, and just wants to "Ge You lie down" at home every day;

You like the majesty of the sea, but he says that people have drowned in the sea.

This is the so-called "words do not speculate more than half a sentence".

The rest of your life is long, and you must find someone who fits you together.