I am in the most confused stage of my life, and I really want to be quiet but I don t know where to

I hope you read the story. will help you.

There are a pair of brothers, and their family lives on the 80th floor. One day they came home from a trip and found that the building was out with power! Although they were carrying large bags of luggage, they didn't seem to have any other choice, so the elder brother said to the younger brother, let's go up the stairs!

So, they started to climb the stairs with two large bags of luggage on their backs. When they climbed to the 20th floor, they started to get tired, and my brother said, "The bag is too heavy, so let's put the bag here and take the elevator to get it when the call comes." So, they left their luggage on the 20th floor, which was much easier, and continued to climb up.

They talked and laughed and climbed up, but the good times didn't last long, and when they reached the 40th floor, the two of them were really tired. Thinking that they were only halfway up, the two began to complain to each other, accusing each other of not paying attention to the building's power outage announcement, which would end up like this. They climbed as they argued, and just like that, they climbed all the way to the 60th floor.

By the time they reached the 60th floor, they were so tired that they didn't even have the strength to quarrel. The younger brother said to the elder brother, "Let's stop arguing and finish climbing it." So they silently continued to climb the stairs, and finally arrived on the 80th floor!

Excitedly coming to the door, the brothers found that their keys had been left in their bags on the 20th floor.

Some people say that this story is actually a reflection of our life: before the age of 20, we lived under the expectations of our families and teachers, carried a lot of pressure and baggage, and we were not mature enough and incapable, so our steps were inevitably unstable. After the age of 20, I left the pressure of everyone, unloaded my burden, and began to pursue my dreams with all my might, and I lived happily for 20 years.

But when I reached the age of 40, I found that my youth had passed, and I couldn't help but have a lot of regrets and regrets, so I began to regret this, regret that, complain about this, and hate that, and spent 20 years in complaining. When I reached the age of 60, I found that there was not much left in my life, so I told myself not to complain anymore, but to cherish the rest of my days! So he silently finished his remaining years.

At the end of my life, I remembered that I seemed to have something unfinished, and it turned out that all our dreams were left in the 20-year-old youth.

The most important thing is for people to know what their dreams are. to work in that direction. You know. The time to come is like this. Cherish the present.

Be quiet? The quiet of hearing is not too tight.

Tranquility is fundamental.

Confused, if you can break through, there will be a great improvement.

The heavens will descend on people, and people will do it, ha.

I'm the same as you, I can't see the road ahead, talk to my family and friends, maybe I can give you some help, I just drank with my brother, I wasn't in a good mood, but now I don't talk about it, at least I'm more comfortable.

Confusion usually refers to feeling overwhelmed about the future direction of work and life. Confusion is also a necessary stage of life. Who youth is not confused, especially modern people.

Today, with the rapid development of information technology, we are overwhelmed by a lot of uncertainty in the present, and the future is even more uncertain. I don't know what to do. In fact, each of us gets confused.

Bai Yansong once said: "Whose youth is not confused." "Confusion is a necessary stage of life growth.

This is the process of integration with society, the stage of growth.

Establish a good state of mind.

Empty yourself.

Don't think about it anymore, find something that allows you to focus on it, such as fitness, reading a book or sleeping, or talking to friends, maybe at some point you will understand what you want.

At this time, I will leave myself alone for a while. Then remember what you have done from the past to the present, see what you really need, and finally set a goal for yourself and try again.

I might find friends to chat with, or sleep at home, listen to music, watch movies.

When you don't know where to go, then you will adjust your mentality, tell yourself to do things calmly, and then calm your mood in this way.

When you feel particularly confused, you should actually calm down and choose to sleep or listen to some**.

When I'm confused, it's actually because we're under too much pressure, so I'll put down all my work to relax completely, and then come back and continue to work.