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Love is a very wonderful thing, the love period does not mean that it will be the same in the future, it is possible to love and love will not love, this is because your love shelf life has expired. At the same time, it also shows that you don't love deeply enough, and the emotional foundation is not thick enough, so you will be everywhere, feel that you don't love anymore, and lose your freshness.

Flowers are not red for a hundred days, there is no banquet in life, love is not a long-term thing, love needs to manage each other, a pair of young people love each other, you and I are in love, two people love like a person, some people say, you see how sweet they are. When two people are in love, they can't wait to melt into one person, hug and walk, hold hands, and are not willing to part for a moment, and the relationship comes too quickly. Some feelings can't stand the test of time, love goes quickly, and in the end, they love and love, and they feel that love is not so powerful, and if they don't feel it, they don't want to love.

Love is like this, there is no banquet in life, love comes too fast, goes too fast, a couple walks and walks and disperses, love is not a long-term thing, do you agree with this?

Love lies in management, if you don't manage it well, you will feel everywhere and feel that you don't love two people who love each other always feel full of hope for the future, two people will be good for a lifetime, there is no force to stop them from being together, we are rushing to get married. However, less than three months after saying this, this couple is clamoring to break up, why is this? Because two people don't understand that love lies in two people managing each other, not in one party putting all into it, and the other party is very selfish and never knows how to give.

Do you think this kind of love can go without problems? So, it's normal to walk and walk around, and you don't love it.

Some people say that people who are experienced in love are very popular with lovers because they can teach me how to grow up and how to love others. No one is born to fall in love, love is also a science, everyone needs to learn with their hearts, as long as you have others in your heart, others will also put you in your heart, two people work hard with each other, you will love more and more.

Because at the beginning, everyone was fully engaged in this relationship, and they were full of the freshness of love, but as the contact increased, they all discovered each other's shortcomings, so they slowly lost love.

The main reason is that the love period will actually dissipate, and the freshness between two people will slowly become gone.

This is because each of us is in a new relationship when we are in a new relationship. In this period, we all have a sense of freshness for each other. But when this period passes, we will feel very familiar with each other, so familiar that we will feel no feelings.

When I was in love, because I had a sense of freshness for each other, I cherished the time I spent with each other, but I didn't love it when the freshness faded.

Because during the period of love, the freshness of the two people reaches its peak, and it will slowly fade, and after getting along for a long time, the shortcomings will be exposed, and they will feel that they don't love each other.

Because of the long-term popularity, the shortcomings have been exposed over time.

Because there is no view in a familiar place. There are no great men in the eyes of friends. The longer two people get along, the more familiar they are with each other, the more they lose the color of life, and they lose their curiosity.

phaseIt's just plain. When people come to a strange place, they will be very vigilant and keep their eyes open. Observe, observe, observe, understand, understand, understand.

In this process, since it takes a lot. It's the same with people. From the blandness of acquaintance and understanding, this is a normal process.

Finally, wait for familiarity. So it feels like it's getting weaker and weaker.

All good things come to an end. No matter how delicious the meal is, it will end, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be dull. When I was a child, I was full of pride.

When I grew up, I realized that it was an unattainable dream. When I was a child, my buddies and brothers didn't know what kind of Liangshan heroes there were when they grew up. After getting married, each of them will take care of their own homes.

At this time, people have entered a quiet period, and they are busy running around for a living. At this time, the friendship and friendship of the past are not so important, the important thing is how to live, this is the world of adults.

As you grow older, with the richness of social experience, with the hardships of life. People's energy is limited, and the feelings they once had slowly faded. It wasn't until later that I learned that feelings were luxury.

Life is the necessities. Money is a necessity. You can't do anything without money, and you can't live without money.

So the adult world becomes a combination of interests. That former affection was insignificant at this time. In today's living conditions of high consumption, high prices and high housing prices, the feelings between people are getting weaker and weaker.

As the pressure of life increases, and as we get older, the feelings between people will fade. What was once a friendship has turned into a floating cloud. Vulnerable in the face of reality.

In this way, it is normal for the relationship between two people to fade everywhere. So don't regret it, don't linger, live desperately for the sake of life.

If there are a few intimate friends in this life, then it is the luckiest thing, but in life, because of work reasons, so that many friends between the feelings become weaker, some people are in the place, the feelings will become more and more faint, friends can be said to be very important to us, when you fail, there are friends to pull you, when you succeed, there are friends to before and after, these are very happy things. In my opinion, there are three main reasons why the relationship between two people has become weaker, there are fewer exchanges, the opportunity to deal with things together has become deeper, and both parties are too busy, which is introduced as follows:

First, the communication has become less The pace of society is very fast, and there are many ways of communication, whether it is between friends or couples, if the communication between the two parties becomes less, then the feelings will become weaker, because the communication has become less, the other party does not know what you are thinking, and you also do not know what the other party is thinking, and the feelings of both parties will become weak after a long time.

Couples have been together for a long time, why does the relationship fade? After reading it, there was silence.

The relationship between the two has faded after a long time, in fact, the main reason is that they have not communicated well together, and the relationship has faded after a long time.

The reason why this situation occurs is because when two people get along, if they don't manage with their hearts and don't care about each other's feelings, they will definitely fade if they don't have a common word after a long time.

Because they know each other very well and can't maintain a certain freshness, then the two people will become more and more bored with each other, and there is not much emotional sweetness.

Because you didn't know each other when you were just together, when interest drives you to want to understand each other, two people will slowly walk in, whether it is love or friendship.

When you want to get to know someone, to understand her world, to enter her life, you will unconsciously go to her to contact her, because only by getting along can you have common topics, and only by chatting can you understand the other person's life status. It's all out of curiosity, maybe not because of liking, because of love, but some people don't understand it, and take this feeling as liking, so they start a wrong relationship.

But when two people know each other well enough to find that the other person is not the person they want, and they no longer want to continue to get along and no longer contact each other, then the feelings of the two people will naturally become strange and slowly disappear from each other's world. The process of getting along is to pursue a like-minded person and live together, so even if you encounter such a situation, don't be overly obsessed, and the emotional thing will not come.

The reason why the relationship between two people is weak is that both people have adapted to each other's way of speaking and doing things, and it has become a habit, and another point is that when you get along, you have a lot less time together or time to chat than before.

First of all, the first situation is better, because you know each other's hearts for each other, understand each other, as long as you slowly change it will naturally return to the previous way, and you will find a lot of fun.

For the second kind, it is because you have less contact, to put it bluntly, feelings are things that are not in contact, no matter how good your previous relationship was, how precious it was, a single you have not been in touch for a long time, then you get along slowly faded, and then break up, and finally become strangers, whether it is love or friendship, frequent contact This is a necessary condition for getting along, otherwise even if there is a good foundation, it is inevitable to become strangers in the end, and you will meet again after a few years, then you have nothing to say.

The truth of getting along with two people has a certain relationship with what we often call "three-minute heat". The most common phenomenon around me is that two people will be inseparable, but after a period of running-in, they will choose to part ways. But it's not for everyone, after all, some people still get along very harmoniously.

It is not unreasonable to say that the distance is not beautiful, when two people are in a state of being tired of being together all the time, when the other party's small shortcomings are all exposed in front of their eyes, it is not surprising that the heart will have an unconscious sense of disgust, it is not very obvious at the beginning, and when this emotion accumulates to a certain extent, it will erupt in an instant, followed by two people with clear bridges.

People's feelings cannot withstand the scrutiny of time, whether it is friendship or love, many times it is necessary for each other to run in with each other and tolerate each other. But few people have such patience, they will always be in a state of boredom, as if life has squeezed them and made them hoarse, they have not had too much energy and emotional entanglement, some of the taste of life has been seen through, and gradually it will fade away.

There is also an emotion that will become mediocre after a long time, but in the eyes of outsiders, it is not high-profile enough, maybe it is the mode of getting along that others are used to, and the criticism of the outside world does not seem to be so important to the parties. This kind of casual emotion seems to me to be a level higher than any other emotion. Its mode of getting along is plain, in fact, two people have long been indispensable in each other's lives.

People will experience too many emotions in their lives, but we have to go through a lot of battles to gain experience from them, I think it is enough to understand a little bit anyway, and all feelings should be treated sincerely, knowing that it is not easy to come by, and we are not qualified to squander such extravagant things.

Affection also takes two.

If two people don't know how to get along, then the relationship will naturally fade away. There are many couples who quarrel with each other because of a little thing, and they always think about the problem from their own point of view, and they don't know how to understand each other, and the relationship will be slowly consumed at this time.

There is also the fact that feelings need to communicate with each other, if you hold everything in your heart and don't discuss it with the other party, then the generation gap between you will get bigger and bigger, and finally slowly disperse. Therefore, in the process of getting along with each other, we must know how to communicate with each other, and how to create topics to chat with each other.

Also, the relationship needs to be kept fresh, when two people have lived together for a long time, they are very familiar with each other, at this time, we must know how to make ourselves more attractive, so that he will put his mind on you. And we also need to know how to make some small surprises.

First of all, it must be understood that the relationship between two people cannot always be in a state of glue, it is just the situation in TV series and movies. And the indifference mentioned here is only a return to calm and daily life. There can be small surprises and small happiness in life, but it will not always be full of surprises.

Secondly, everyone may have periods of upswing and bottleneck in life, and it is necessary to give time to reconcile with each other. The fact that the two of them are becoming more indifferent may be that the other party's career is getting busier during the rising period, and you can take the initiative to ease the relationship between each other. It is also possible that the other person has encountered some bottleneck in his life, and you can show your understanding and face it with him.

Third, the gradual indifference between two people can also find the reason from themselves, and see if they have neglected the relationship between each other because they have been too busy with work recently. Or because the pressure is too great, they accidentally transfer their negative energy to each other, which makes getting along with each other even more tired.

When two people first got together, they didn't know each other very well, they were full of freshness, and they were still in love at the beginning, and the two people would stick together every day, but after a long time, they got to know each other and were familiar with each other, so they didn't have that freshness, and they also knew each other's shortcomings.

For example, my current boyfriend and I, when we first got together, we stuck together all day, went to dinner together, went to class together, went shopping together, and on weekends we would always go out to the movies, go for a walk, and sometimes we wanted to be together all the time.

But after a few months, after the love period passed, the distance between me and him slowly became farther away, no longer as stuck together every day as before, and the sweet words between the two people became less, sometimes there was no topic when chatting and chatting, and I also knew that this was the so-called transition period.

In fact, when two people are together, during the transition period, they will be like this, they will feel indifferent, and they will even feel that they are about to break up, but as long as they survive this period, your relationship will become better, so it is normal for two people to be indifferent when they are in the relationship, don't worry, don't feel confused, this is normal.