What kind of opposite sex do you admire? What does it mean to appreciate a person of the opposite se

What I admire most is a boy who has his own thoughts, makes decisive decisions, and is a sign of a mature man, and such a person can also become a great thing.

As a girl, what I appreciate most is a serious boy, a boy is very handsome when he is serious, whether it is serious about work, or serious in life, or serious in feelings, girls will be fascinated by it.

I admire bold men who speak up, at least those who have studied high school or above, of course. Those so-called wise, scheming people, I admire, but I don't like them. Those who have worked hard all their lives and only know how to bury their heads in hard work, I understand, but I don't appreciate them.

Everyone's three views are different, and of course, others won't care if you like it or not. Just be yourself, just have peace of mind.

I appreciate people who can grasp the sense of proportion the most, and getting along with them can rectify their impulsive personality. You can also learn a lot of ways to do things.

It's the kind of people who work very hard, and they all say that "the harder you work, the luckier you get". Those who work hard may not succeed, but they will certainly become role models.

I'm a person who admires the kind of people who make friends with Mingxin, this kind of person distinguishes the truth from the false, and sees the world clearly. They don't lose"Chivalrous", the word of righteousness first, do not follow the trend, see profit and forget righteousness, always maintain a pure state of mind, know right from wrong, and make friends.

Selfless people, of course, because selfless people will always tell you what true selflessness is. Always have good thoughts.

A quiet person, a quiet person, a person who does things quietly, and is frank and responsible.

People who like and appreciate hard work say that "industry is good at diligence and frolic". Industrious people are the easiest to succeed and deserve praise.

A responsible and handsome soldier brother.

Two meanings:1. Like. A lot of likes start with appreciation, from admiring a person and then slowly becoming like a person.

Because of a certain point in you, he thinks he likes it very much, wants to get closer to you slowly, understands filial piety to you, and finally likes you. This kind of liking is much more skillful and mature than simply being attracted by appearance.

2. I don't like it, it's just a simple appreciation.

Just appreciate someone, think that you are a great person, and learn from you. Or think you're talented, knowledgeable, and so on. He won't, he doesn't have these qualities, but when he sees you, you have these qualities, so he admires you.

Now in this new era of openness, many young people have many love experiences, so what are the qualities that attracted them to the other party in the first place? In addition to the appearance, appearance, and outfit at first sight, here are some of the inner qualities that I personally think are needed.

1. Take responsibility and do what you say.

As a man, you must not be timid and afraid, and if you hide behind everything you encounter, you will definitely be looked down upon. Don't often regret the decisions you make, let alone be swayed by other people's opinions, and be an assertive man. Speak confidently, even when arguing with others.

Be brave enough to admit what you do wrong, and then take responsibility for what you should pay, rather than passing the buck to others. Even if things don't go well, the end should be complete, not unfinished.

2. Sincere quality.

The so-called truth, positive character, sincerity, not hypocrisy; The so-called sincerity, high emotional intelligence, know how to empathize, and do not hurt people for the speed of spitting out their tongues. It is not only to respect the people who have interests, but also to respect strangers and people who have intimate relationships; Not only respect others, but also respect yourself; We should respect not only human beings, but also nature and all life. A person who knows how to respect, even if he is not a lover, even if he is not of the opposite sex, will be a shining person.

Kindness is the highest level of emotional intelligence, and with kind people, I can relax and interact with each other equally and peacefully.

3. There is connotation.

Academic qualifications are also a kind of, to be honest, boys in addition to their own professional field, learn more about other aspects of knowledge, and will always be able to use it in the future, with a certain amount of knowledge to talk generously and understand humor, girls never know how many topics you have to talk about. In the initial conversation, both parties must have a common topic before there will be a series of contacts. This is a certain test of emotional intelligence for both parties.

Of course, there are many people whose current partners are not the ideal type they were at the beginning, in fact, no matter how good the quality is, they also need the foundation of love between the two parties. The so-called lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, what suits him and what he likes is the most important thing.

We have always been with the opposite sex, and each other's every move affects our impression of him, and as a girl, I appreciate the following qualities of a boy the most.

Respect for girls

I think there will be boys around you who show disrespect for girls, such as some boys will laugh at which girls are ugly, so short, so fat, and so on.

In my opinion, no matter what other people's appearance is, whether they look good or not, they are someone else's, and no one has the right to comment, and there are even some people who laugh at them with sarcastic behavior and language.

Insightful

Some boys have no eyesight, and sometimes when they joke with girls, girls are unhappy, and they have to keep talking, and finally say that girls are small-minded.

But some boys are very perceptive and can see through the girl's displeasure at a glance, then they will immediately stop joking, and will also hint at the people around them and take the initiative to ease the atmosphere.

Strong sense of responsibility

Most boys have a personality of "nothing to do with themselves, hang high", in fact, this is a very irresponsible behavior in the eyes of girls.

Even in a small group such as a class, you can show whether a person has a sense of responsibility or not, just like the teacher asked the students to move a new book at the beginning of the school year, and the responsible students went as soon as they heard it, but the irresponsible ones still sat still.

Love hygiene

The most important thing to make a good impression on others is hygiene. People who are well-dressed and hygienic may not be praised by others, but if a person is not even neatly dressed, most people may not be willing to approach you.

Gentle personality

I'm not saying that you need to be as soft and weak as a girl to be gentle, what I'm talking about is not domineering, not short-tempered, and you can't get angry when you encounter a little thing, such a boy will only make me feel like I can't achieve anything, and I can't control my temper.

In general, most boys have qualities that appeal to me. It's just that there will be a small number of people who don't impress me with a bad impression of him.

The person I like doesn't need to be too handsome, but the appearance must be something I want to see and like. You don't need to be too rich, but you must have the potential to make money and a motivated heart. It doesn't need to be too interesting, just I say the first half of the sentence and he can take the second half.

But the premise of this is that his IQ and EQ must crush me, talk to me speculatively, is an interesting soul, does not speculate more than half a sentence, if I can meet my soul mate in this life, I will not hesitate to take the initiative. I believe in love, but I don't believe it will happen to me, maybe it's hard, maybe by chance, we miss it.

I like him, it's not that he talks to me particularly speculatively, it can be said that he is a straight man, and he is not a very powerful person, a science student, his grades are okay, and he is on a 211. He is average-looking, but he is the type I liked at first sight. Before I got to know him, I just looked at the appearance and felt that he was a very good person to get along with.

After learning about him, I found that I loved him more than I had ever imagined. He is not only humorous, but also very popular, and has a high emotional intelligence in dealing with people, and more importantly, his science grades are great! Sure enough, the person I like still has capital.

So I made a move, I took the initiative, I am usually very cold, but I am not calm when I see him, I took out the courage that Liang Jingru gave me, pulled his sleeve at the end of a recess exercise, and in the eyes of his many brothers, I asked him if he could go to dinner together at noon, and he promised me.

As a result, at that time, the college entrance examination was approaching, and there were more than 100 days left, after he and I had four meals and exchanged chocolates, he refused to come with me again, I don't know if it was because of studying, or "my dish looked delicious at first, but after eating a bite, I found that it was not delicious and vomited." We never really spoke again.

I admit that I coaxed me, anyway, no more than 100 days, no less, if you become it, you will be together, and if you don't succeed, you will graduate.

But, if you really like it, you have to catch up with him, even if you don't really be together, then talk and eat, touch your clothes and pull your sleeves, and wait for you to get out of class.

He is very handsome, very tall, has very good clothes, has a particularly positive outlook, and has good quality and morality.

His personality is lively and cheerful, and he is also very refined, and at the same time in line with my vision.

The difference between appreciation and liking of the opposite sex is that the opposite sex may like you and want to be with you, while appreciation may agree with a certain statement or practice of you, but it is not necessarily like.

Like refers to a person's inclusiveness, tolerance of some flaws and details, including favoritism and favoritism; And appreciation can be a person or a certain aspect of a thing, such as appreciating a person's performance in a certain thing, or a certain character, maybe hating a person very much, but appreciating what he does in some way.