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Hello! There are two main ways to relieve loneliness:
One is self-discipline;
The second is counseling and medication by a psychiatrist**.
Once you find that you have a tendency to be lonely, you should soberly tell yourself that you will only get loneliness instead of happiness by imprisoning yourself in a cage of solitude. We should be brave and firm to open the doors and windows of our hearts, step out of our personal world, and actively participate in social activities.
First, moderately intense work can avoid a certain sense of loss psychologically, and a fulfilling life has a subtle effect on improving people's depression;
The second is to cultivate good hobbies or participate in some public welfare activities as much as possible to trigger new pursuits;
The third is to change the environment appropriately, avoid breeding inertia, to a new environment, accept challenging work can stimulate people's potential and vitality, change their mood with the change of the environment, so that they always maintain a healthy and upward psychology.
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I suggest you listen to Professor Zhu Guo's lecture at Fudan University, whether the surname is Zhu I forgot, anyway, the name is Guo.
Her theory of loneliness is highly recommended that you listen to it.
Loneliness is not the same as loneliness, and everyone should pursue a kind of loneliness.
It's a spiritual treasure.
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Find someone or something that you care about very much, even if it's a small doll, he (it) can make you like it very much, or it can make you hate it very much, be friends (enemies) with him (it), and then replace what you want to do to him in your heart and say it to relieve your loneliness. Of course, the premise is that you have a certain amount of self-control, so that you will not go to extremes. It's better to be positive and less vulnerable early.
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As long as you work, you will be fulfilled.
When you are bored, you will be lonely!
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It should be combined with your hobbies! It can't be without! If you're interested, let's participate! Such as: Look**! Play basketball! Go out with your roommates! It's late to have something you like!
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Except for poverty and toothache, love conquers all.
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Make more friends, go to outdoor activities more, feel more about nature, appreciate this society with your heart, treat people or things with a peaceful mind, do more things that make yourself and others happy, or find a sunny other half.
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Love, there is no other way, no matter how successful you are, you will eventually need the care of the opposite sex to eliminate the real loneliness.
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I think loneliness is a normal state for people at certain times, so there is no need to be overly anxious and worried. If you don't feel lonely, there are many things you can choose to do. For example, talk to good friends and spend time with your family.
On your own, you can go running, cycling, doing yoga, reading books, watching movies, etc., there are many meaningful things. These things can help your brain relax and put you in a good mood. So, don't be sad about loneliness, loneliness is sometimes the best time for a person to recharge, because of loneliness, so you learn to explore your inner world, which in itself is a valuable growth.
Looking back on this life, no matter what we have, it will still be far away from us one by one. In the end, we are still alone, which is not a pity, sometimes imperfect is the most beautiful. Perhaps, we can't achieve enlightenment, which requires a high level.
We can do it, maybe just enjoy this life. So, it's not terrible to feel lonely, maybe you're used to the carnival of a group of people, and you don't feel comfortable with yourself, but people are independent individuals, and we can't always rely on others to live. Leaving everyone, we can still live well, this is the embodiment of our personal value!
Feeling lonely is also divided into many situations. Maybe it's because after a busy day, you find that you don't seem to have anything. Maybe it's in a strange environment, there are no people we know, no one knows ourselves, so it's touching loneliness.
Maybe it's because I don't have a good relationship with the people around me and feel that I'm being excluded, so I'm very lost. It all seems like loneliness is a negative emotion, but is that really the case? So why are there still many people who praise loneliness, thinking that loneliness is a one's carnival and freedom.
Therefore, loneliness is also worthy of recognition and encouragement. In your own small world, you can do whatever you want, you don't have to worry about the opinions of others, you can play wantonly, and be the most true self, what a happy thing! <>
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You can exercise, you can work out or learn some related content, so that you can become better.
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At this time, you can choose to read, then you can also choose to watch variety shows, you can also choose to watch movies, and then you can also choose to travel, and then family and friends chat or go shopping together, or you can choose to eat.
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The best way to address loneliness is to use "prosocial behaviors."
Prosocial behavior is the act of comforting, sharing, helping, or cooperating based on a general concern for the feelings, welfare, and rights of others.
Loneliness is contagious, but so is prosocial behavior. People who accept prosocial behavior are 278% more likely to engage in prosocial behavior themselves. The knock-on effect of prosocial behavior in reducing loneliness is enormous.
If you regularly perform a prosocial behavior, it may trigger similar behaviors throughout the organization and even the wider world, leading to a healthier, stronger family, and a more united community.
Just as a healthy body requires an exercise regimen, so does a healthy social life. When we practice social fitness, it can lead to better well-being, improved mental health, and reduced loneliness. Social activities can reverse the negative effects of loneliness at work and at home.
What are the prosocial behaviors
One is to show gratitude to someone: tell someone one thing you appreciate about them. Express your heartfelt and personal thanks via email, text message, handwritten notes, or in a face-to-face conversation.
Don't let tasks and deadlines override your relationships. Create the necessary leeway and self-licensing, say no to urgent things, and lean toward important things. In addition, never deviating from the task is a robot.
Be a wonderful person.
The third is to flip through the memory of your phone: look back at the ** on your phone and see who you were with today a year, a week or a month ago. Send a text to someone in **, including ** and a text message about that memory.
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Summary. Pro, the way to solve the loneliness psychology is to increase interpersonal communication, relaxation training, exercise**. Increase interpersonal communication:
In a sense, people are social and need to have interpersonal communication, because many times, physical and spiritual needs are met through interpersonal communication. Relax**: Practice mindful breathing and learn to live in mindfulness.
Because of these loneliness, to overcome it is to read more, do something beneficial to society, and be able to generate good emotions yourself. Exercise**: Exercise can increase the excitability of the brain, produce some excitatory neurotransmitters, promote the relaxation of body muscles, and produce pleasant emotions.
If the long-term loneliness is not relieved, it is recommended to seek the help of a professional psychologist.
Solutions to loneliness.
Pro, the way to solve the loneliness psychology is to increase interpersonal communication, relaxation training, exercise**. Increase interpersonal communication: In a sense, people are social and need to have interpersonal communication, because many times, physical and spiritual needs are met through interpersonal communication.
Relax**: Practice mindful breathing and learn to live in mindfulness. Because of these loneliness, to overcome it is to read more, do something beneficial to society, and be able to generate good emotions yourself.
Exercise**: Exercise can increase the excitability of the brain, produce some excitatory neurotransmitters, promote the relaxation of body muscles, and produce pleasant emotions. If the long-term loneliness is not relieved, it is recommended to seek the help of a professional psychologist.
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Solving loneliness starts with finding the cause. There are many reasons for loneliness, and when you feel lonely, you need to figure out why you are lonely, and then you can find a solution to loneliness.
You can go to group activities more often. The reason for loneliness is often the lack of friends, so we might as well actively participate in some group activities, so it is easy to make a lot of friends. If you have more friends, you won't be so lonely, and you can connect with friends every day, play together, and chat together.
These are easy to eliminate loneliness.
Loneliness is something that everyone will have, and if we understand the reasons for our loneliness, it will be easier to solve loneliness.
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How to solve the problem of loneliness? Redeem me to help you mess with you.
Laugh more. Go play and relax yourself.
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