I know very well what I am doing, that is, I don t have the ability to act

A lot of times people are in a state of confusion.

And then according to your current situation, do you analyze it in depth, is it physical work or mental work?

Set yourself a goal for finding a job (if you are really at a loss, there are many jobs on the general job search network online, pick the one that you feel is the best match for you), and ask yourself: "How long can I do this job?" "Please don't consider it if it's less than a year.

Good work takes time to settle in.

The current society is a materially powerful society, so now go about finding a job, no matter how much income it brings you, it is your labor income, act, come on, I hope you can find a suitable job.

What are your hobbies? Give yourself a goal, make a schedule, arrange things according to your actual considerations, try not to do too much, but do everything well, and then summarize the things that you haven't done every day at the weekend to see what you can't do and what you can't do well. Also, ask your friends to supervise ha.

There is a saying that says; Magnificent buildings are piled up brick by brick and tile that look inconspicuous, and life is the same, living your own day is a happy life.

You can't succeed if you don't do it.

What should I do if I don't have the ability to move? That's a problem. But the way to solve it is simple, as long as you want to solve it, you will succeed.

Let's talk about a small aspect first, for example, if you are studying, you encounter a problem that you can't do, and you still can't do it after discussing it with you at the same table, then you should find a way to solve this problem, you should go to the teacher or a classmate who knows this topic, but you yourself didn't look for it because of shyness, or because of your own psychological problems, thinking that you can't be others and can't, you think very well, but when it comes to the exam, you really encounter this question, and you are blindsided. Everyone else can answer, but we have deceived ourselves because of our shyness and the cleverness in our hearts, so we must be positive, and when we have no ability to act, we must think about the consequences, not what happened at that time.

Action is the most basic law of a person's survival in society, if you don't even have the most basic things, then you can't survive in this society. Think about it, a boss wants a smart but lazy person, or a not very smart but diligent employee, this comparison will have a result, remember that you have no action after you have to think about the consequences, don't just think about the time.

I don't think there will be no "action". At least every day we still have the mobility to eat, sleep, and go to the bathroom. Haha, just kidding.

What I want to convey is that the power of action itself has always existed, but there is no motivation to mobilize. It's like going down to a restaurant to eat, if the food is not to your liking, you have no motivation to pick up the dishes; If the blind date is not eye-catching, you have no motivation to continue to develop; If you don't like the content of the work, you may not have much motivation to take the initiative to work. So, there must be something called before the action:

Vision, or sense of meaning.

Have you ever had such an experience, when you saw your male god and goddess for the first time in your youth, there was a place in your heart that was instantly activated. Then I always want to see him again, learn more about him, try my best to inquire about him, and go to the places where he may appear every day, hoping to create a chance encounter. At this time, you don't have to tell yourself at all:

I want to be actionable. You'll do these things naturally. Therefore, it is very important to find your vision if you want to be more active.

If you find that your vision is to travel the world, and you really want to realize this idea, then you will be motivated to learn English. How do you find your vision? You can refer to the questions I have answered"How to Find Passion and Persevere".

Many people ask me if I have no ability to act, do I still have the capital to be self-reliant? In fact, you have to think about the people who fought for the team in the Paralympics; For the honor of the country; People who work hard for their own lives.

They are also disabled, and they are also incapacitated. But why can they work hard for the honor of the country, even if they train for more than ten hours a day, they have to try their best to win the medal in their hearts. Why do they continue to play in wheelchairs on the basketball court, while those of us with good hands and legs lie on the ground, pretend that our legs are disabled and go to beg from pedestrians, and then take the money to socialize and drink spicy food.

When these people are seen, what kind of gaze do they look at these people, and do you feel good about such a gaze? Won't you feel conviction in your heart? You have to think about it, even if you don't have the ability to act, you are a person with bad hands and feet, but your heart is good, your heart is strong, and your heart is motivated enough to overcome resistance.

If you want to prove yourself, you have to work hard, and if you can move forward, it proves that I am a person with the power to act, I have not lost everything, my heart is strong.

I want to make a big deal out of my heart, I don't want my life to be boring, I don't want my life to be nothing, I don't want my children to have nothing. Therefore, I have to work hard to prove myself, I have to use my own actions to prove that I have the capital to be proud of, that I am also a useful member of society, and that I also want to contribute to the country and myself.

Then you have to find the motivation and purpose of life again, and remember that you must put it into practice, otherwise it is the same as not having ideas without ideas. Be an actor in life, don't let laziness take over your life, and be a hardworking person.

When you don't have the ability to act, you can choose self-motivation and others, and when you can't persevere in doing something, tell yourself in your heart that I can and I can do it. If you have given up in your heart, you can let others motivate you, such as someone you like or someone who is of great significance to your life, as long as you have their encouragement, I believe you will regain your motivation.

Of course, you can also find a competitor in life, you can choose not to overtake him, but you must make sure to follow him all the time. Have you ever seen a 5,000-meter run? It's about endurance and impact, and often the winner is not the one who is in the first place, but the one who runs in the second place, because even though you don't run in the first place, you are very close to the first place, and you can overtake him in a corner.

As an aspiring young man in the new century, you must not be a giant in language, but a giant in action, only in this way can you achieve your goals and write your extraordinary life!

Life is always changing, some things will always slip out of your life, whether it is important to you or not, and some things will come back into your life, whether you need it or not, it is this change that allows us to learn to adapt, to take responsibility and to live in the moment because of the survival of the fittest....

God closes a door for us, will always open a window for us, when your life encounters a bottleneck, you will feel that God is unfair, but have you ever thought that this is a turning point on your life road, but also a way for you to show your self-worth on the road of life, we have to learn to survive in this world with a variety of lifestyles, this is the performance of winner, if you don't want to admit that you are a loser, then please be strong, how can you not move, what if you have no ability to act, every part of our body can be a manifestation of value, we can not move, but we can think, have wisdomEven if we can't move, but in this era of developed networks, we seem to be able to go further while sitting at home, although we can't move, however, the mind has no boundaries, the footsteps can't reach the place, the mind can leap, so there is nothing to be discouraged about....

The suffering you are suffering now is because your past was too perfect, your life is too comfortable, God envy your life, you are a perfect apple, so God can't help but bite you, don't care, in fact, the injury you suffer, can not withstand the happiness you feel, what you have to do is to relax, nothing is more important than your own efforts, you should live again, we start all over again, practice more, we will not increase the burden on others because of our own disabilities, this is what we should do, and we should consider it in the future。

We always have a lot of ideas, but we don't implement them well, just like many people shout to **, but they still can't control their appetite, they can't take a step out of their legs, and they don't have the determination to lose a lot of pounds, so they have been shouting for many years, and there is still no change in weight. Because you just talk about it, you have a mouthful of it, and let everyone know that you are going to be **, you have never taken action, and you have forgotten everything you have said, sweared, and determined. You are always a giant in thought and a dwarf in action.

Every day, you set countless goals for yourself, but you don't make a plan for yourself that can be implemented, or you have a plan, but you always delay the implementation of the plan, and over time, you forget the original goal. The determination that I swore at the beginning is laughing at you who have achieved nothing now.

Therefore, when we have a goal, we must put it into action in time. For example, if you want to get up early, set an alarm for yourself and give yourself a death order, if you don't get up, you can't eat delicious food. For example, if you want to run, put on your running shoes and go outdoors, and don't stay in the house to excuse yourself from going out.

For example, if you want to **, you have to control your diet well, you can't always comfort yourself and say that it doesn't matter if you eat a little, for example, when you want to improve your connotation, you have to read more classic books, don't think that someone likes me like silly white sweet.

Set a goal for yourself, not more, just one, and then make a plan to achieve this goal, you must urge yourself to complete it every day, today's things, today's completion, don't put off the tasks that are still completed today to tomorrow, tomorrow will be tomorrow, tomorrow will be so much. Therefore, we must do a good job today, be strict with ourselves, and not make any excuses and reasons for ourselves. In this way, your execution should be greatly improved.

When you complete the goals you set for yourself, you can give yourself some rewards appropriately, so that you will have the motivation to persevere.

And what you have to know is that nothing can be achieved overnight, it is impossible that you can lose three pounds tomorrow without eating today, you can run a marathon tomorrow, you can go to the marathon tomorrow if you run today, you can pass the TOEFL IELTS tomorrow if you memorize words today, no one can eat fat in one go. So when you work hard but don't get anything, don't complain, don't doubt, and set off firmly in your direction! You have to be patient, you have to learn to wait, all good things come from waiting, you will wait until the day when the flowers bloom.