I loved him for eight years, and he didn t understand until he was gone。。。。。。

People are always so weird, and almost everyone is.

It was only when she was lost that she was aware of her existence.

The man doesn't flick when he has tears, he should really be enlightened.

It's really not easy for two people to meet, and it's even more difficult to meet one you're willing to give your all, since he doesn't want to share, give him a chance.

Otherwise, you will regret it later.

It's not easy for a couple, who would have thought that there would be a day of divorce when they decided to be together, how cold a wife should be, and naturally everyone doesn't want to come to this point, my situation is similar to yours, but I'm not married yet, I've always been afraid, I'm afraid that I will regret it one day when I get married, and frankly that kind of tiredness is really hard.

I can't make a decision if I don't want to separate, not to mention that it is of course a very painful decision for you to get married and separate, think about it clearly, see if there is room to turn, think about how happy you were when you decided to be together, and now you have to separate to solve the problem?!

You must be so annoying, alas, what is love...

Is it really to the point where you have to break up? Can't you try to give him another chance, and give yourself another chance? After all, you have eight years of the sun and the moon!

People don't know until they lose to feel everything in the past.

It's always after you lose it that you want to have it again.

The shortcomings of human nature: you don't cherish what you get, and you regret it when you lose it.

XX years of repairing the same boat and sleeping together in XX years.

Sister, you have to think about it

Now that he has repentance

I also waited until I lost it to know how to cherish it, if he really woke up, give him a chance.

I don't even know if my girlfriend will have a chance to come back.

There are only four words for love: stay the course.

So why get divorced. Didn't he wake up?

Maybe you love your boyfriend more than he loves you, and maybe you give more affection, and if that's the case, you're just going to make that kind of guy feel like it's okay for them to play outside anyway because you're going to forgive him for everything. Control your feelings properly, don't be like a flood, which will only drive your boyfriend farther and farther away.

Decisively, really, there is no need to waste it on this kind of person, long pain is better than short pain, time is the best healing medicine, you deserve better!

He is a man with a family, so why bother? Is it interesting to get the heart of others who can't get him? If he really cared about you, he would have divorced his wife and been with you a long time ago, leaving this sad city, right? Time can dilute everything. It's up to you to get over this hurdle yourself.

To put it mildly, I have also been lost, but I think: it was because it didn't hurt enough, and it hurt so much that the rice wine was put down to a certain extent.

My dear. I'm in the same situation as you. Is your matter settled ?

I'm in a lot of pain right now. I'm two months and eight years away. Maybe you're the one who is good for you.

My man said he loved me and he loved his wife. Something went wrong with his company. Nothing could be given to me.

And I can't live without him. Now I always feel like he doesn't love me enough. Very painful.

I don't know what to do.

He has a home, he can waste time with you for 8 years, but you have nothing after 8 years.

I think you just haven't been broken and don't give up, all the men in the world are dead?

If one party doesn't love it, the other party will let go. There is no reason for love, when either party no longer loves, it's time to set him free to grind the bush sedan chair! Even if you try your best to keep him, there is no point in being reckless.

Why not save yourself a little self-esteem and let him go in a chic way? Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower? No one has to be whom

Let go when it's time to let go, that's called sanity. Otherwise, it will make yourself more miserable. Gains and losses are in the past, and you will be more mature from now on.

Friend, what if you don't let go, will he come back? Or are you still unwilling to accept this fact? Why force yourself and others?

Feelings, once one party withdraws, then if the other party still insists, then in this love game, there will be another tragedy. Why bother?

Sister, love shouldn't be so tangled, love should be easy and happy. Adjust yourself, be happy from now on, and live every minute to the fullest Also, don't get too tired, live.

Why are you so tired, learn to liberate yourself, the road ahead will be more exciting, and at that time, when you look back at the pain and hesitation at that time, it is a different taste.

If you know that you love the wrong person, leave it immediately, know how to stop losses in time and will not lose all, just treat him as a guest in your dreams, and forget it all when you wake up, sister, I have just experienced the result of an eight-year love breakup, in fact, there is no imaginary heartache, but much easier, you can't lose a forest because of a tree, there are still a lot of people waiting to meet in your life.

Then fire him.

You will find your value.

Because you care so much.

Others don't feel like they care about the rhythm.

I want to regain my dignity and feeling.

This is a must.

This trick is too ruthless, don't say what I said.

There's no need to continue, I've been a man for eight years, and as a result, you don't have me in your heart at all, it's ridiculous, the pain is temporary, you can't let yourself suffer for the rest of your life, and leave early.

Similar to me, his attitude chilled my heart, he just got 100,000 back to me, I don't know if I love it or not, I am confused, I feel that I am not valued.

Men are like this, they are too possessive, you must leave him, change places, you have no legal relationship, and you don't love him anymore, it's good to go out for a walk, or answer your parents' side. You don't need him in your life. Don't you have a penny, did he imprison you, won't you escape, it's a big deal to call the police, collect good evidence, and you will get rid of him.

Men's possessiveness! You make the wrong choice and pay a heavy price! But if you don't decide to leave, then you still have a few 8 years of your life to waste for him! It's really not okay to call the police!

Time is passing, people are also changing, he liked you eight years ago, it doesn't mean that he still loves you eight years later, maybe you have changed. You have to be able to bear this thing for time! It's still not suitable, there's always something for you, don't worry about it anymore, eight years is a long time. Wishing you happiness!

If someone likes you, will you be 100% like? Can you guarantee it? It's not that you like him, he has to like you.

Even if it's been in love for eight years, it's the same for ten years. If you don't like it, you don't like it, and you can't help it. It's like when you buy clothes, and the salesperson says that you look good, you will definitely like it.

But will you really like it.

There is no why, if you don't like it, you don't like it and can't come.

There are many men in the world, why just for him? I want to open a little, and I'm looking for someone stronger than him.

Forehead! It can't be helped. Am I too!

Emotional matters are not wishful thinking, and besides, twisted melons are not sweet.

Dear, try to fall in love with me, so that you will slowly forget about him.

Some people are cheap, and there is no need to be sad for him.

I think you should have told him that there was a 50% chance of success. But if you don't tell him, how will he know?

I also had a crush on someone, but unfortunately I didn't confess, and then I heard from a friend that he already had a girlfriend, and I saw them kiss with my own eyes, and it was really uncomfortable, so I wondered if he would be with me when I confessed first.

It's been 3 years now, and I still can't let go of him, and I often think of him. I regret it!

I hope you can be brave and don't let yourself regret it!

Eight years, not eight days, a person's youth has several eight years, you can be sorry for yourself, but you can't be sorry for your feelings, even if you feel that he won't care if you say it, you have to be brave once.

Moreover, a person can actually just have a crush for eight years, I have to say, you are really special.

Everyone will love someone special.

Let's go away, child, there are 8 years in life, for such a long time, he can't feel your love for him, let's go The sky of the future is vast...

Tell him, you will regret it for the rest of your life, I also like a girl, I waited for her for four years and she knew and rejected me. But I don't regret it when I give up, you have a crush on him and you don't let him know. You've been waiting in vain for the past eight years.

You have so much perseverance! Find a suitable opportunity to say it, and if you want to leave something, your eight years of investment will not be in vain!

Don't leave yet, you should hint at him first and see how he reacts.

If he has a girlfriend now, and he is very happy, then I think, leave silently, I have a crush on him for 8 years, and I must be very reluctant to love, but his happiness is ......

Honestly, if you don't say it, how will he know? Tell him that whatever the outcome is better than the way it is now, and that if he doesn't accept it, you're going to go and go.

Why don't you tell her? You shouldn't be timid or don't tell her that you like him because of low self-esteem, it's unfair to yourself and to her, it's possible that he has liked you for a long time, but he just doesn't know how to speak, you have to try.

If he refuses, forget it.

Eight years? For a long time, I would like to pay tribute to your infatuation. To be honest, if you haven't said it for so long, then keep it in your mind, sometimes it's a kind of happiness to look at him quietly, if it is pierced, it seems to be incomplete, and it is related to whether he has a family, if he has a family, you will be stressed if you say it.

Let's keep that beauty! Wishing you happiness!

I don't know if there is an age gap. I've been around for almost 7 years too.

I think I should tell him that I won't regret it for the rest of my life, even though I know it's the result of no emotion.

But just this time, it's better to tell him.

I don't want him to like himself, I just hope he understands this heart.

I don't need to tell him how many years he likes it and what deep feelings.

Just tell him you like him.

Love is foolishness, and there is no reason for it.

With the perseverance of eight years of crushing, it's better to show the courage to confess again!

Then let's go, I don't want to analyze your situation either!! In fact, it is already clear, and you already have the answer to ask us about the psychology of time!

Before you go, express it, even if you don't like it as much anymore! Maybe you'll have something you don't expect!

Of course not, just tell him that he is responsible for your own eight years, maybe he has been waiting for you for eight years.

Tell him! Even if you have to go, don't give yourself a chance to regret later.

Since you have the courage to have a crush for eight years, you should have the courage to express your heart to him, no matter what the outcome, you can at least get a clear answer, so that even if you let go, you will have more relief. Come on, little sister.

It's been eight years, and he didn't see that it was really time to leave, and if he didn't want to leave regrets, he confessed to him before leaving.

It feels a little sad. If you can hold on for 8 years, why can't you tell him? Why torture yourself so much?

Tell him that there are no more than two results: one refuses, and the other comes together happily. Even if we are rejected, it doesn't matter, because we have really loved, and we can only blame it for not having fate.

Tell him that he has been torturing himself for 8 years, and don't regret it for the rest of the time because he didn't say it now.

Most crushes don't know about each other. Do you think you're good enough? If enough, chase it, otherwise, give up.

No, I think you should take the initiative to confess your feelings to him, if he can't accept it, then you take the initiative to leave, and you have no nostalgia...

First of all, we need to correct a concept, whether love is long-term or not, and how long you have been in love, has little to do with it.

Eight years of love is love, and love at first sight can also be love.

Secondly, having said that, after eight years of relationship, because of the farewell at that time, in the end you choose to sink yourself, until you later take revenge on the other party. I really want to say that you don't love her for eight years, you love yourself more, you just feel that she has failed you for eight years of affection, and all the fault lies with her.

Every relationship is a matter of two people, at the beginning your sinking is your irresponsibility to yourself, until later revenge, you converted all your eight years of deep affection into hatred, deep sadness and pain.

Why punish the other party like this, and hurt yourself even more. If you're lost, let it go.

This kind of dark psychology is really terrible, can't you find your other half in the past eight years, do you feel cool to hurt her in this way?

If you love her, don't be cruel to her, when will you repay the wrongs.

It's all broken up, there's no need to retaliate, let it go.