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Life is actually not boring, from different angles, you can feel the joy of life, even if it is a little thing. Just like me! Sometimes I feel that work is the same every day, and I study the same, and I don't learn anything after studying, but I choose to go shopping by myself to see what's new outside.
Occasionally go out to dinner with good friends and get to know everyone's lives so that I don't get bored. For example, if you eat rice every day, and occasionally change to noodles, you will feel that the noodles taste good! Why do you eat rice every day?
Hehe! That's what life looks like. It's not that life brings you boredom, it's that you don't want to get out of this boring circle.
Wouldn't it be nice to give yourself a little more reason to change your current habits? You say there is no hope, no money, nothing. Hehe!
If you don't have money, you can earn it! If you think it's too little, you should think, why am I making so little? What is the reason?
At the same time, it can motivate you to learn, and in the process of learning, you will accept new things, and you will be bored at the same time? It seems to me that there are not many people who have nothing, you look at those beggars, what do you think they have? It may be that they are not as rich as us materially, but spiritually they are happier than you, they are doing the same work every day, and they may not have a good income every day, but they are still so happy, because they have no burden, they have their own way of being happy.
This is what they have come up with in the midst of suffering, and this is the joy of suffering! First, to obtain spiritual satisfaction through art, **, art, film, literature, etc. all belong to this category, and the specific choice of what should be based on my own interests, there is no absolute. Second, exercise to fatigue the body, divert psychological attention, and obtain a certain sense of mental satisfaction through competitive sports.
Third, through the exchange of human feelings to obtain spiritual satisfaction, care and help to other people, human emotional communication and interaction has a good spiritual satisfaction. Fourth, to obtain spiritual satisfaction through the process of finding a faith that truly suits oneself. Fifth, through the pursuit of a certain cause, to obtain spiritual satisfaction.
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Men and women have good and bad sides, but you or someone has not yet experienced the taste, in fact, as long as everything you encounter is carefully recalled, sometimes you can imagine that if you encounter things, then you yourself stand in another angle to see, to think, things may be different. Although it is easy to say, I sometimes can't think from another perspective; Speaking of which, I sometimes feel the same way as you, and I think it's really annoying to be a man! Good luck!
A man who wants to be a woman!
Trouble, thanks!
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Hello, here are some suggestions.
1 Try not to keep texting when you can't see each other, he will get annoyed. At most, send one or two faint expressions, it's best to hit a **, just say hello, hang up if there's nothing to do, say something interesting, don't always say something meaningless.
2 You can be coquettish when you meet, but don't stick to it. Smile a lot, and occasionally lose your temper is cute, and you can't always be careful. Don't cry in front of a guy (it doesn't count when you're moved), most of the time he'll be distracted rather than lovingly (really, I've read articles in the newspaper).
3 Don't meet all his requirements, and experience the sensation of electric shock slowly. Usually be more shy and reserved, and release your enthusiasm and melt him at critical moments
4. When you go on a date and leave, hug him while he is not paying attention, and pay attention to one, and pay attention to the touch of the part. After turning away, you have to walk in style, you can go back and smile sweetly.
There are many small details in life, and if you grasp them well, you can warm up the feelings, even if you annoy him, you have to coax him. Smart girls will manage their feelings, and a little heart is to add interest, and it is not good to be too deliberate. Know more about him, understand him, and at the same time, you can't lose yourself, and let your weight gradually increase in his heart.
But if he doesn't give you a corresponding response, you have to think about it, don't try too much, and if you can't catch up, you have to let go decisively, procrastination will depreciate yourself).
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1.Listens carefully to what people say. She is a good listener, she will want to know what the other person has said, and then give feedback, and will leave an opportunity for others to say a few words.
2.Be calm and control your emotions. Many people in life have the habit of blaming others first after something goes wrong, and it is a quarrel to cover the face of the person who made the mistake. It is the most correct choice to control your emotions and deal with things calmly.
3.Get used to compliments, not nitpicking. I believe that all people are the same, that is, they like to work with people who can talk. Praise others as an instinct, not a hypocritical, deliberate compliment. Being able to see the good in others and tell them that you are great.
4.Don't be aggressive, be a man and leave a line, so that you can meet in the future.
Compare the heart] [compare the heart] [compare the heart].
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Always keep smiling. A smile is your most powerful**, it's completely free, and you can't go wrong! So smile as sincerely as you can! Whether your man is impressed by a smile or not, you will become more attractive, and a smile will make you feel happy on your own.
Show men the best of you. If you change yourself for the sake of a man, then you will be in trouble in the future. But you can show men the best of yourself – both in character and appearance.
Although it sounds simple, it can greatly improve your self-confidence and enhance your image.
Try flirting with him and giving him a hint that will give him more confidence
Try to do a little thing for him. Let him feel that you have noticed his feelings for you and are willing to respond. But don't overdo it and make him feel embarrassed, just let him notice.
Bring him positive energy in life. Some people may be prone to pessimism, and those who are optimistic will attract them. Instead of always thinking about the bad parts of your life, focus more on the better aspects of your life and be positive.
Optimistic people are always more loved.
Most importantly, don't force it. Remember: you can't "force" him to fall in love with you.
Men will make their own choices. But people can always control their feelings, and if you feel that he has no feelings for you, then learn to control how you feel about him. Feelings should go with the flow, and what should come will always come, but the time has not yet come.
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Change yourself, make yourself very intellectual, very reasonable, so that you are ready to love you.
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Hello! This situation is mostly determined by the individual's personality and behavior. If you want to quantify, it is recommended that you grasp the following points:
1. Caring but not spoiling; Caring well will make the other person feel touched and warm.
2. Give the other party personal space; People still need a moderate amount of space. For example, his social activities outside and his privacy should be moderately respected.
3. Be a smart, wise and confident woman; Being able to give reasonable guidance when encountering difficulties can be impressive. Beware of scheming and chatter.
4. Learn to be coquettish appropriately; This is a woman's specialty and patent. If you use it well, it will have the finishing touch.
5. Be a strong backing and harbor; Men are also playful and fragile animals. Blows and complaints can only drift away.
In fact, your question is both simple and profound. The method is the same as that of controlling people. The art of controlling people is only a means, and loving each other is the goal. The ancients said: Serve the king with color, die with grace and die with virtue, and serve the king with virtue, forever. Once you understand the truth, you will know what to do.
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Those who make themselves beautiful and bright, women don't love beauty, and they will eventually be eliminated.
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Don't talk to him, stay away from him.
The truly effective way is to improve one's overall quality, knowledge, appearance, and self-cultivation. And remember to be natural when talking, neither humble nor arrogant in order to reflect the charm of a man. Don't deliberately slap the horse, virtual flattery, you can talk about literature, books, artistic creation. >>>More
If your personality is not good, you are dressed beautifully, but in the eyes of others, if your personality is good, others will not look at your clothes.
If you make others happy, you will feel happy yourself. Satisfied.
Read more, and talk less and talk about the classics. Don't say the meaning directly, metaphor is the key. Humorous people must know more, otherwise it will be a bad joke, and you will laugh. There are also humorous people who like to pretend to be deep and talk back.
It seems that many people are more easily irritable when it's hot, even if there are annoying things, try to treat it with a normal heart, because there will be a solution to things anyway, when I'm irritable, I try to find a way to calm myself down, don't think about it, such as listening to the melody and brisk rhythm, or when the weather is cool, go outside to blow the wind and relax, I think it's quite effective. Try to be as loose as you can, sentimental you.