How do you spend your days without good friends?

University! It's so much more realistic!! Normal!! Let go of your heart and take the initiative to socialize with others, there won't be many college friends, but there must be!! It will be useful to work in the future!!

I'm the same as you, but in any case, please believe that kind people will not lack friends, no one can accompany you for a lifetime, you have to learn to endure loneliness when you grow up, and finally enjoy it, I recommend that you read more books when you are bored and depressed, I just survived, and now I also have a few friends, everyone is usually busy, but still very happy.

You can see that you are a more nostalgic child, right? My daughter is very similar to you, but you have to know that a naïve child will go through such a period to grow into a mature adult. So you have to learn to self-regulate your life and learn to communicate with people so that you don't feel too lonely anywhere, you say?

I'm just like you -- but I'm also on a very good relationship with my former friends, I've always been in touch, and I'm usually playing games and watching anime, and I'm living a good life.

First of all, don't magnify this feeling too much, don't always think about it, try to help others, you want others to do to you like to treat you, you can do to others first, help others in some things you can, you will be happy, then cheerful, and then there will be friends like you.

The second is to be independent, learn to grow, arrange your own life, and actively participate in school activities, so that you will make like-minded friends.

I really hope it can help you, but take your time, don't rush, and give yourself more confidence.

Slowly you will adapt, you can't change the environment, you can only adapt to it.

You must take the initiative to integrate with them, communicate with them more, and make your classmates feel that you are indispensable in life.

But it depends on how you communicate with others, but I think people who have a good sense of humor and joke are best to get along with. Give it a try.

If you don't think of yourself as this school, you can't make friends.

I'm the same now, slowly adapting to the environment, meeting new people, and learning to be independent.

1. Actively participate in the communication between students.

In fact, many times students will get together to chat, or learn to communicate, so usually when you see a few people communicating and chatting there, you can take the initiative to participate in it, so that the chances of you making friends will be great. But it should be noted that you don't need to find too many people and communicate with the group, because there are too many people, which will only make it easier for others to ignore you and laugh away.

2 Open your heart.

If you don't have any friends at school, it may be because you usually protect yourself too well and don't like to communicate with others. In fact, if you want to make friends, you have to open your heart. Then try to accept some classmates who are different from you to become friends with you, only in this way can you make friends more easily, otherwise others will only think that you are a withdrawn person and will not want to play with you.

3 Try to communicate with others and talk about topics that interest them.

If there is someone who takes the initiative to chat with you, then this person may want to become good friends with you, so you must not avoid it at this time, and you need to actively chat with him. At this time, you can talk to him about things he likes to do or things that interest you.

In your life, you will meet all kinds of people, colleagues, neighbors, classmates, passers-by, and so on. Maybe it was just then that you developed a deep friendship and became good friends. In my opinion, at every stage of life, there will be friends at every stage.

I have classmates at school and colleagues at work, but how many of them stay and become friends? Who else is with you now?

When I was a child, my friendship was very pure, it was just silly play, how to have fun every day. When I grew up and had my own criteria for choosing friends, my life changed. Take my friend, for example, who may not be the best in your heart, but he does occupy a very important place in my heart.

When I talk about my childhood playmates, I don't feel anything anymore. Maybe it's because after entering society, everyone's habits have changed. She was a few years younger than me, but she had always played well as a child, and we would share whatever we had to eat, and we would just shout yes and it would appear in front of each other.

After a while, we got together again, but I found that we had changed a lot, and now she started to mix in society, smoking, drinking, playing cards, etc. And I'm still a college student, and it's really unacceptable to see her like this. In the past few days of contact with her, my words and demeanor, I feel that I have become so strange, and I don't have the feeling of talking about everything between friends at all.

When you don't have friends, you can have some fun on your own, such as what you like to do. Find your own hobbies, such as listening to **, watching movies, and participating in some outdoor activities.

In short, it is enough for a person to have three or two close friends in his life...

Someone to talk to when you're sad, someone to share when you're happy, and a get-together to drink and brag when you're free, but if you don't have friends, or you don't have friends, you can't help but feel a little lonely....

It is an indisputable fact that as you get older, you will have fewer and fewer friends around you.

If you don't have friends, your life will be boring.