What should you do if you are discouraged by your love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-11
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't be discouraged, you can calm yourself down during this time, go to a place with mountains and rivers and trees to relax,,, don't think too much, let yourself think quietly

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How can you be discouraged by love, as long as you work hard, you will have good results, work hard yourself, and with the encouragement of others, you will succeed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then it depends on whether the other party still has confidence in you? If the other person still loves you and has faith in you, then why should you be discouraged by yourself??? Don't be like this, no matter what you do, you must have confidence in yourself, only in this way can you successfully complete what you want to do, and only in this way can you get the happiness and fulfillment you deserve!

    Be bold and love, and be sure to have confidence in yourself!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then find a way to rebuild your confidence.

    It takes courage and strength to love someone.

    Besides, since you are in love.

    It's about looking at the beauty in each other.

    The other person must have a reason to love you.

    Just keep this good thing in yourself.

    Make yourself better and better.

    Your love will last a long time.

    You don't have confidence in yourself right now.

    Just think about being together.

    Good times.

    If on this romance.

    There is no nostalgia left.

    It's better to let it go as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, there is no such thing as being discouraged or not being discouraged, it's just that you have experienced it and failed, so you are discouraged! Everyone has such an experience, no one's life is flat, especially love, you must experience some things before you know how to cherish it! Hold the hand of the son and grow old with the son!

    Hope you understand!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Imagine how important the other person is to you, and sometimes, you should let Love take a break, recharge yourself, and find yourself. Let the other person be silent and don't let love become a repressive ......Wouldn't it be nice that you don't lose your skills and that the other person understands your importance? Go for it!

    I wish you happiness ......o(∩_o

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Calm your mind first, then relax your mood, keep yourself busy at work if you have a job, and let yourself forget about love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Look at your own love. You should think seriously and analyze what the reason for your failed love is. Is the other party bad, or is it wrong to do it yourself.

    Many times the failure of love is for both parties for a reason, and they cannot be disappointed in love because of this. Recognize what love is. Love is not enjoyment, not just waiting for the other person's giving.

    True love is mutual, it is that both like each other and are willing to give for each other. Treat love and people you like without worrying too much about gains and losses.

    Know what kind of love you want. Only people who know what they like will treat each other sincerely and love each other. Love can't be compromised, and you should also need to know what your future life will be like and work hard for it.

    Love needs to be managed. Happy love, and sweetness are two people operating together, only by helping each other, relying on each other, discussing things together, learning to trust and tolerate, so that you can feel the happiness of love.

    Forget the past and cherish the present life. Disappointment in love is nothing more than not forgetting the pain of the past and the failed love experience. However, that is all in the past, what we need to do now is to regain confidence and find the right person on the road of love, so that love will be happy, not disappointed.

    Maybe we can't meet the other half who can accompany us for a lifetime, and we can't see anyone else, but don't let your so-called love spread wantonly, and it will be empty in the end.

    When you meet the right person, you will be happy. However, the road of love is not smooth sailing, and only when you meet the right person will you get true love and feel the happiness and sweetness of love. So, we should try to find the right person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are disappointed in love, you can try the food of various places, and I think eating is also a very happy thing that will make you forget your troubles.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Relax and watch sweet TV series, and you will suddenly believe in love again, and then you will be eager to pursue your love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be disappointed, people will always have failures, treat love with an optimistic attitude, believe in yourself, true love will have, give yourself a little time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't fall in love, there are so many fun things in this world, why do you have to fall in love? You can get a dog to keep with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At this time, you have to relax, you can watch more sweet TV series about love, such as Korean dramas, you will want to fall in love after watching too much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really feel that you are disappointed in love, then I think it is the best choice for you to go to a welfare home to adopt a small child, and then the two of you can live together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then break up, I feel that I have been disappointed in love, and it proves that there is no love, and if there is no love, don't continue, and if you continue, there is no good.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As long as there is hope for life. This love disappoints you, and it doesn't mean that the world has abandoned you. Don't refuse to live, be kind to yourself!

    Since this love disappoints you, doesn't it prove that it doesn't belong to you? Since it doesn't belong to you, so it's not a lucky thing to see clearly, understand, and break free earlier, so why be sad? Love that doesn't bring happiness and joy is useless to keep, isn't it?

    Life is so long, you will always meet your own happiness. People always find the right one after encountering many mistakes. It's as if the marriage partner is not always the first love.

    This is a very normal thing. Get some sleep and wake up and tell yourself that it's another great day!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are disappointed in love, then you can have more contact with other people, slowly regain confidence, and you can get happiness in some other ways.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are disappointed in this love, then you should break up and travel, relax, soothe your emotions, and there will be better people waiting for you in the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't fall in love for a while, let yourself be quiet for a while, and think about what you really want and what your heart desires the most. It is also necessary to think carefully about what the objects of the previous relationships were, what are the similarities and differences, and the reasons for the failure of the previous relationships. My advice is to give yourself a vacation, find a place to relax, or keep yourself busy so that your focus can be diverted to something else.

    Everything goes naturally, and I believe that in the end, love will come quietly. I'm still young, and I've not experienced enough, if I feel numb, then rest and rest first, and I won't say that I can't live without love. Don't lose faith easily.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not your fault that you're disappointed in love, but it's hard to recover from being disappointed in love, and you can only keep being disappointed.

    Maybe whether it's because of a sad relationship or heard of some tragic love, we still have to keep a yearning for a beautiful love in our hearts, since we are full of disappointment, don't comfort yourself like this, protect yourself, who else can you desire to save yourself from pessimism, sometimes life is difficult enough, what is love.

    I made a decision in my life that may make me regret it for the rest of my life, when I didn't know what love was, I resolutely gave up a person who loved me very much, when I walked a journey with another person holding hands, I found the difference between liking and love, the feeling that I discarded no longer belonged to me, and the love debt I once owed to him prompted me not to believe in love in this life, not to believe in my love for others, and no longer to expect anyone to love me.

    Disappointment is because of some very small things, such as when you are angry and he can't see it, for example, when you are sick but he doesn't care much, and so on and so on are all reasons for your disappointment. Women are inherently nervous, and they come up with a bunch of messy things when they grasp a little thing.

    I once told my boyfriend that I like you very much, every time you do something that disappoints me, you will subtract some points, and when it is reduced to three points, that is when we break up, even if I like him at that time, I will leave him ruthlessly, because I think what is the use of a person who keeps disappointing me, and persists.

    Disappointment should not be a response to forgiveness. The grading criteria may be a bit ridiculous, but it's my way of convincing myself to be ruthless, otherwise I'll keep telling myself to give him another chance, maybe this will be the last time. Women still don't want to heal the scars and forget the pain, leave ruthlessly when it's time to leave, even if there is a lot of reluctance, it is something that should be considered after separation, even if the breakup makes you sad and sad, it is better than forgiving the person who disappointed you again and again.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If it is the former, then you need to adjust your mentality and don't use too high requirements to ask the other party, otherwise not only will you be disappointed, but the other party will also feel very tired. If the other party is not doing it properly, you can bring it up directly to him and ask him to correct it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You are disappointed in someone you love a lot. Why are you so disappointed in each other?

    Ask questions with a lukewarm attitude.

    His lukewarm attitude.

    What am I going to do?

    The questions are pretty much the same.

    Why did you put it down? Not happy with him? Or did he hurt you?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Love is not perfect, if you are not married, then give up, this is very simple. If you are already married, as long as the husband and wife respect each other, it is already good, don't look for any love in marriage! So judge according to your own situation.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are disappointed in the current love, then end it, don't dwell on it anymore, don't always think about the good things of the past, since it is wrong, learn to give up, so that you can get new happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then don't fall in love yet, it may be that you have been hurt emotionally during this period of time, and it is normal to be disappointed. After this period of time, you will crave love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    What you need to do is to adjust your mentality. Whatever you've been through, be a positive person. Man has only one life, and he should not punish himself for the faults of others. So be open-minded and broad-minded.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Tell your disappointment to the other party, don't feel embarrassed, it's not naïve at all, if you don't say it, you will be disappointed all the time, and you will eventually leave when you have saved enough. It is important that two people communicate, and if there is no improvement after communication, break up as soon as possible.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't be disappointed in all your love because you once had an unsatisfactory love. Go with the flow, accept her when love comes, maybe there will be unexpected surprises for you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, reflect on whether your expectations for love are too high, and lower it appropriately. Secondly, you should communicate with the other half and put forward your own ideas.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Communicate with each other first, explain what the reason is, two people work together to find a way to solve the problem, adjust their mentality, if you really can't stand it, then choose to break up, so it's good for each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First of all, you must know what you want, what kind of life, what kind of feelings, only by knowing these, can you make the right choice, not to regret it, but also to know how you should live a better life, so as not to lose confidence in everything, especially between lovers, feelings are an important topic for a woman's life, and knowing what she wants is the most important thing.

    After knowing what you want and what kind of life you want, you should also know why you suddenly lose confidence in your lover, whether it is your own problem or the other party's problem, find the specific reason to make a clear decision, if it is your own problem, then you have to reflect, if it is the other party's problem, then you have to think clearly about the choice. Only by finding the cause of the loss of confidence or the related event will you know what to do.

    Calm down, find a quiet place to think, it can be a quiet and ordinary place to live in the countryside, or you can go on a short trip to purify your mind, etc., in short, you can let yourself stay quietly, a place to think calmly, let yourself figure out, about life, about feelings, how to deal with things. Of course, it's best not to go to places that are too remote, because it's unsafe and it's not conducive to thinking.

    If you have a mistake or have doubts, you might as well find an opportunity to sit down and talk. People will change, every moment of every day is changing, two people together, the most important thing is synchronization, can be at the same frequency, in order to live together, get along the same. Therefore, when you have doubts and lose confidence in your lover, it is better to sit down and have a good chat and find out the reason.

    If the other party is busy and neglects himself and makes himself lose confidence, he or stop thinking nonsense, do a good job of himself, and make his life and work fulfilling, although love is very important, but life can not be just love, but also have more, so if the other party does not take care of himself and loses confidence, he might as well make his life and work full, and let himself be the focus of his life.

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