How men treat people who like them

Care, buy delicious food, clothes she likes, etc., and it will be good to her anyway.

For this kind of man, if you like him, you will make it clear to him. Many girls like to be reserved and stupidly wait for the boy to say ambiguous things first. But what do men really think:

I love the relationship of reciprocity. If she likes me, she should let me know. "Rational men are also emotional creatures, and they need no less love and recognition than you, and the more sensitive the mind, the more so.

In other words, the type of man you're looking for may never approach you, and the truly emotionally intelligent action should be:

Husband and wife are first of all a kind of harmony between the two parties in terms of thought and feelings, and a kind of mutual compensation in psychological activities, so that both parties can produce a warm and coordinated healthy psychology. Therefore, husbands and wives should be honest with each other, respect and love each other, and take care of each other, which will make the stool carrier more happy than giving gifts.

2. Communicate frequently Husbands and wives should often sit down to exchange opinions, communicate ideas, and pour out the joys and hardships in their hearts. Especially in times of adversity, what you need most is the comfort of your loved ones. A word of sympathy and an encouraging look will reduce the psychological pressure of the other party, enhance the confidence and strength to overcome difficulties, and truly see the truth in the midst of adversity.

3. Respect each other's personality traits A couple, even if they are childhood sweethearts, still have their own personality traits. Some husbands are active and have been wandering outside for many years, and they can't stay at home. And the wife is quiet and has a narrow social surface, and hopes that her husband will be at home with her all day long.

Every time the husband returns, the wife is unhappy, and sometimes she is a little petty, and if the husband can't stand it, there may be a quarrel. An empathetic wife or husband should respect the personality of the other person, do not impose her will on the other person, and reserve a certain amount of freedom for the other person to allow the other person to have their own social circle. In this way, marriage is not a kind of confinement, but not only to give full play to their individual characteristics, but also to be a warm home for mutual attachment.

4. Learn to be patient Husbands and wives must learn to be patient, Chekov said: "The most important thing in married life is patience." "When the other person loses his temper or sends a provocative signal, it is best to take a patient and avoid way, or put yourself in the position of understanding the cause to help relief, rather than being influenced by the other person's emotions and putting yourself in a bad emotional state.

5. Take the initiative to undertake housework After getting married, there are major matters that need to be negotiated together, but more often are the daily chores of firewood, rice, oil and salt. The equal interaction between husband and wife is manifested in the joint sharing of housework, and taking the initiative to undertake a part of housework, which is a concrete manifestation of the husband's love for his wife and the wife's consideration and prudence. If you need to be wide and rough and ask the other party to contribute, it is best to replace the commanding "you will do" with a friendly "help".

6. Influence the other party Use your own warmth to make the other party get probation. For example, on a rainy day, the husband takes the initiative to take an umbrella to meet his wife at the station; The husband reads or writes at night under the lamp, and the wife quietly brings a cup of hot tea and hot milk. This kind of practice of enhancing feelings often makes the other party resentful.

I think that if you like a man, you should learn to respect him, respect his normal social activities, don't restrict him with everything, learn to understand and tolerate him, and do what you like with him.

If you like a man, you definitely want to be with him for a long time, so you have to treat it sincerely. Show up immediately when he needs help, do what you can to help him, and find ways to comfort him when he's sad. And then the same with his family and friends.

The first point is to care about anything about this boy, and often do something for him, such as making him a love bento, and sometimes he can satisfy him with a sentence that he inadvertently proposes. The second is to communicate with him more, strengthen the relationship between each other, and so on.

As long as you are kind to him, care about him, give him enough respect and understanding, try to consider problems from his position as much as possible, and communicate more. Then a man would not refuse such a sensible girl.

If you like a man, you should contact him more and call him more often.

If you like a man, you have to pay your sincerity to him, and when the other party encounters difficulties, you can stay by his side as soon as possible, whether you are poor or rich, you can't be an obstacle to liking him, because the most important thing is sincerity.

Like a man should be good to him, do things for his sake, he is sick, accompany him, he is unhappy, coax him to be happy.

I will learn about his hobbies and specialties, try to cultivate them myself, and will have some common hobbies, so that he has some good feelings about himself, and then I will chat with him from time to time, not too active, but will find out whether he is interesting to himself.

Of course, I really care about him and care about him from the bottom of my heart. Of course, the premise is that he is the one who is worth your giving, otherwise it is yourself who will be hurt.

I will first make sure that he likes me too, if he is then I will treat him sincerely, I will prepare surprises for him on the holidays, I will cook for him myself, if he doesn't like me, then I will be happy for everyone.

Like a man, he will often pay attention to the circle of friends, will make accidental encounters, walk together on the way, make appointments to eat together, etc.