Do you care about your past, low self esteem, and swollenness?

Let the past pass, rather than dwell on your own past and let yourself live so miserable every day, is it worth it? Erase the past, it takes a little time to solve, open your heart, in fact, your past is nothing to others, it's just that you care too much about the eyes of others and cause your inferiority complex in your heart to become more and more serious, children, communicate more with your family, make more friends, in fact, you have a lot of shining points, but you haven't used your heart to experience, come out of the shadow of the past, the future is in your hands, come on, child!

You've grown, don't care about your past, everyone has his or her past, not everyone has smooth sailing, everyone has setbacks and frustrations, don't let negative emotions bother you for too long, you also have your own desires, you also want and desire to love, everyone is the same, but don't forget, if you want to get it, you have to give first, because, everyone selfishly thinks that only you should be loved, in fact, others should also be loved, so, if you want to make friends, first give sincerely, as for the past, Just let it pass, after all, what is dead doesn't have much effect on the present, unless you dwell on the past, tell yourself, Every day is a new beginning, you can go to other cities alone, live well, must set yourself up in such a sad and bad place to haunt you?Don't be so stupid, be kind to yourself, you should love yourself well.

Hello, you are aware of all the problems, you should self-regulate your own cognition, the past has long become history, in fact, it is not your own business, others may have forgotten it, but you yourself are in the middle of your own life. Even if some idlers remember it, what can they do? Be more sunny, be more confident, the successes and failures of the past will not replace the present, and will not have any impact on the future, as long as you believe in yourself.

I feel the contradictions and conflicts in your heart now, but I can also feel that you are very kind, so I believe that you can self-regulate, believe that you are the best, don't affect your overall because of temporary events, and bless you!

That's because you didn't come out of it at all.

You can think about it, if it were someone you knew, would you often care about his past and despise him?

I am the same, but low self-esteem is one thing, liking someone is another, if he doesn't like you, then there is no need to be inferior; If he likes you, since he doesn't care, what reason do you have to bother yourself?

Find a place where no one knows and start over.

Some people will have a little inferiority, they are ordinary people.

One word. You're too sensitive.

You have low self-esteem and are afraid that others will discriminate against you or look at you with condescending pity as you interact with them. There will be a problem, this is the normal reaction of a friend, everyone is scared, how many people are not willing to amputate, resulting in the inability to accept this can not hide the weakness, avoid the weakness protection, everyone is like this, just because you can't cover up your weakness so you feel inferior, low self-esteem is normal, don't refuse it. This is a normal feeling in your heart, there is no need to deliberately overcome it, avoid it, low self-esteem, low self-esteem is good, and then stop in low self-esteem, don't think too much!

That's the point.

<> past inferiority complex is a deep-seated feeling that you have learned from your past life. You don't have to feel inferior even if your conditions and abilities have improved now, but you haven't faced inferiority complex in the past, so inferiority complex has always been with you.

It's like when you were a kid I followed you, and he always told you that you weren't as good as you are now, and that inferiority complex was so real that you couldn't deny it. You compare "before" with the present. It's a concept of time, a process of self-growth, and you must be much stronger now than you used to be.

You may weigh a few pounds more than before. You're a little taller than you used to be, and you're going to have more strength. These are all needs for self-growth.

You should know that at the same time, you are growing, and so are others.

We have to accept ourselves. As much as we need to constantly improve ourselves, sometimes insisting on improving and changing ourselves is just not accepting our own performance. Since we don't accept ourselves now, we always want to change and improve ourselves.

But that doesn't mean we haven't made progress or pursued anything. Therefore, it is very important to change the mindset, both in terms of competence and external conditions. Second, we should raise our sense of values and qualifications, be less perfect, and know ourselves more.

When I was a child, my family was poor, and the houses I lived in were all old houses that would leak. When I was a child, I didn't even dare to let my classmates come to my house. I still remember a classmate who said that my house was very broken.

This sentence left a deep imprint on my heart.