Mother in law hospitalized son care or daughter in law care

Updated on parenting 2024-06-24
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It depends on whether the mother-in-law can move around on her own, if it is inconvenient to move around, there should be a daughter-in-law to take care of, because the mother-in-law wants to go to the toilet or take a bath, these are things that a woman should do, although the son can be taken care of, but in some places the daughter-in-law is careful.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It must be taken care of by the son, but if the son takes care of the unit, the daughter-in-law can only be responsible for the work, it is all a family, as long as it does not affect the earnings, anyone can take care of it, and the loss is also the loss of your family, as long as you arrange it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Personally, I think that both the son and the daughter-in-law should take care of the hospitalized mother-in-law, whether it is the son or the daughter-in-law, they have their own jobs, and at the same time they have to take care of their own children, so whoever has time for each other can take care of them, and they can't be pushed to one person to take care of the elderly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is not fixed, mother-in-law is also a mother, which has time and which care, but many times people are still selfish, mother-in-law used to treat me badly, I am reluctant to take care of it, if my mother-in-law is usually very good to me, I am also willing to take care of her, compare my heart to my heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Mother-in-law hospitalized, son and daughter-in-law can take turns to take care of it! You don't have to choose one person to take care of it, just take care of the elderly with a total of two people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, two people take turns to take care of it, after all, one person can't rely on it day and night, at least there must be someone who is responsible for delivering food.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a controversial issue for us, and the reason is very simple, that is, the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law badly, especially in the years when the daughter-in-law is pregnant and has a child, the mother-in-law has not come to help us, and we hold a grudge.

    But the mother-in-law is sick and hospitalized, and as a daughter-in-law, she should take care of her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law is our husband's mother, she is good to her mother-in-law, her husband is also happy, and the relationship between husband and wife is stronger. Although legally, a daughter-in-law has no obligation to support her mother-in-law, but we are married to a husband, and my mother-in-law is one of our family members, and we should treat our mother-in-law well.

    As a daughter-in-law, you shouldn't hold a grudge against your mother-in-law, even if your mother-in-law didn't help us and didn't give us money. Let's not go to our hearts, we have to be generous.

    If the mother-in-law is hospitalized, we can call the sister-in-law ** and let the sister-in-law take care of the mother-in-law。But we also have to go to see our mother-in-law often, respecting the old and loving the young is a virtue of the Chinese nation.

    We can't be sisters with our mother-in-law, but we also have to be good to our mother-in-law, after all, mother-in-law used to be a daughter-in-law, just like we do now.

    As mothers-in-law, we can't treat our daughters-in-law like daughters, but we have to help our daughters-in-law. My daughter-in-law married into our family, and she was still a single little girl, and she didn't have any bad intentions. We take good care of her, and she will repay us.

    It's like when we are sick and hospitalized, our daughter-in-law will take care of us as soon as possible, instead of not coming to see us. When we used to be daughters-in-law, we suffered a lot, and it is understandable that the times are different now, we have to keep up with the pace of the times, change our thinking, and become best friends with our daughters-in-law, instead of finding fault with our daughters-in-law everywhere.

    As mothers-in-law, we must not have a knife mouth and a tofu heart. Speaking and thinking about three points, we are actually helping our daughter-in-law again, not helping our daughter-in-law.

    Now that women are financially independent, it is not easy to make money to support their families, so we will help our daughters-in-law more within our ability.

    In fact, for a family to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the best candidate is the husband, and family harmony is happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When the mother-in-law is hospitalized, the daughter-in-law should take care of it, because it is all a family, and the daughter-in-law has the obligation to take care of the mother-in-law.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When the mother-in-law is hospitalized, the daughter-in-law should be in charge, although the law of our country does not stipulate whether the daughter-in-law has the obligation to take care of the sick mother-in-law, so this is not a statutory obligation, but from the moral level, the daughter-in-law should bear the responsibility of care, according to China's elderly security law, the elderly care is based on the home, and family members should respect, care and take care of the elderly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, the daughter-in-law should take care of it, because she is the husband's mother, and if you treat your mother-in-law better, then the husband treats your parents better, both mutually.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on how the relationship is, whether you care whether you take care of the children or not, these are very important, whether you are treated as a daughter, and it is time to ask why.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Who should serve the most? The elderly raise their children in the hope that they can be taken care of when they are old, and the children should take their own responsibilities and not make excuses. No matter which family it is, as long as there are elderly people who are sick, they should be taken care of as younger generations.

    The family works together to do their filial piety and take good care of the elderly, and the elderly can be discharged from the hospital quickly. But there are also old people who he compares and only likes his daughter. If you are picky about what your daughter-in-law does, such an old man will not be treated well by her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law will only be willing to give money and will not be willing to serve.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    At this time, of course, the daughter and son should serve the most, because the daughter and son are the most direct relatives of the mother-in-law, and they are also raised by the mother-in-law with hard work.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, daughters and sons, because this is their relatives, and daughters-in-law can take care of you, but it is not necessary.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sons and daughters are the ones who should serve the most, because the mother-in-law is the biological mother of both of them and should support her own mother.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The son and daughter-in-law should be allowed to serve the mother-in-law, so that they can be closer, because it is not convenient for the daughter to marry after all.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Naturally, the daughter should be served, after all, the daughter and her mother-in-law are the closest, and it is more convenient in many aspects.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The son should go the most, because the mother gave all her money to the son, and it cost a lot of money to raise the son.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should do this: do their essential work well, assume the responsibility of being a child, and at the same time fulfill their obligations; Use your spare time to gather them in a super to discuss the measures to be taken, arrange who will take care of your mother-in-law today, how to prepare the money for hospitalization, and try to make sure that no one has complaints. Only by doing this can we stabilize the situation at home as soon as possible, do our duty, and deal with everything without hesitation, so that my mother-in-law can get a better ** as soon as possible**.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Is the mother-in-law obliged to take care of her when she is sick? Is the father-in-law and mother-in-law obliged to take care of the son-in-law? The subject of this question should figure out what obligation is? What is responsibility?

    First of all, let's talk about this issue in accordance with laws and regulations. As a daughter-in-law and son-in-law, you have no responsibility or obligation to take care of and support your in-laws and parents-in-law! The inheritance law also has the property inheritance rights of in-laws and fathers-in-law, and the inheritance rights have nothing to do with daughters-in-law and sons-in-law!

    So the question is, do daughters-in-law and sons-in-law have the obligation to take care of their in-laws and fathers-in-law? Definitely not according to the law! But the daughter-in-law and the son of the in-laws form a family, and the son-in-law and the daughter-in-law of the father-in-law form a family, and they become a whole, and the income and property of a family are the two of them, so it is the responsibility of the son to support the adoptive parents!

    The same is the same as a daughter, the part of the money to support the parents must be taken out from the property of the husband and wife, as a daughter-in-law and son-in-law will definitely say that it is a loss, fortunately, the sons and daughters of our Chinese nation have a great sense of tolerance, he (she) never remembers these gains and losses, and they (she) take the initiative to assume the responsibilities and obligations as daughters-in-law and sons-in-law!

    It's all a family, why do you want to talk about this? But then again, if your daughter-in-law and son-in-law are not willing to take care of you, then please examine yourself first, how are you doing? Do you see them as family?

    If you don't treat them well, why force others to reciprocate! Comparing the heart to the heart, I think that whatever you plant will bear fruit!

    The question is that you feel obligated to take care of your mother-in-law. Then the son-in-law is obliged to take care of your mother. On the contrary, whoever gives birth to and raises whomever will take care of whom's mother, which is a human sentiment outside the law.

    The law is that the daughter-in-law should take care of the mother-in-law. The traditional virtue is that a daughter-in-law must take care of her mother-in-law, but today's situation has changed, women are strong, and women's power is powerful. It's just that only the framework outside the law solves it.

    The subject's question: I think that as a daughter-in-law and son-in-law, since they have formed a family, there is no need to worry about whether they have the obligation of each other's parents as a whole, the father-in-law and mother-in-law marry their daughters to you, and the in-laws raise their sons to their daughters-in-law, you should form a family and take care of the responsibilities of both parents, let alone whether you should be entangled or not! Are you right?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think that if your mother-in-law is very good to you and kind to you, you should not only take care of it, but also take care of it wholeheartedly, which is an example for future generations.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As a daughter-in-law, she should go to the hospital to take care of her mother-in-law, but if her mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law badly, her daughter-in-law can also not take care of her mother-in-law, which is completely obligatory for his son to take care of her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think so, because mother-in-law is also a mother, she is your husband's mother, if you feel sorry for or love your husband deeply, you should take care of your mother-in-law, don't let him worry, let him be distracted at work, you are good to your mother-in-law, and your mother-in-law will be good to you when she is discharged from the hospital, this is all two ways.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If there is no one around her to take care of her, I think you should go, after all, it is a family, and if she has someone around to take care of her, you will have time to visit her and bring her some fruit.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My mother-in-law is sick and hospitalized, and as a daughter-in-law you should go to the hospital to take care of her. If you do have a job that you can't leave, then you should also go to the hospital to care. Because this is the time when a person's character can be seen best.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You should go to the hospital to take care of it, as a younger mother-in-law is sick to take care of, this is filial piety. Both you and your husband need to go, and since you have married your mother-in-law is also your mother, you naturally have to take care of it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You have to take care of it, because you are married to his son and you are a family, so you should take on the responsibility of taking care of your mother-in-law.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course it should. Filial piety to your parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, so you should take the place of your husband and go to the hospital to take care of your mother-in-law.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, because your mother-in-law is also your mother, and when she is sick, you should also fulfill your duties and obligations.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, because you are married to someone whose son belongs to the family, as a junior, you should take care of the elders.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Look at how your mother-in-law usually treats you. If the evil mother-in-law usually treats you badly and doesn't help you a little, then there is no need to visit her, let alone take care of her... Chinese virtues teach us to learn to compare our hearts with our hearts and be grateful, instead of being stupid and being stupid and good people when others treat us badly.

    There's no need to understand???

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Legal Analysis: Both parties need to fulfill their maintenance obligations.

    Legal basis: Article 49 of the Constitution of the People's Republic of China Adult children have the obligation to support and support their parents.

    Article 11 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly: Persons who support the elderly shall fulfill their obligations of economic support, daily care and spiritual comfort for the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    According to Chinese laws and regulations and mainstream folk values, daughters-in-law do not have the obligation to take direct care of their mother-in-law. However, if the mother-in-law is sick and needs to be taken care of, the daughter-in-law can consider helping from the following aspects:

    Give moral support and care: The daughter-in-law can try her best to understand her mother-in-law's mood and give emotional support and care, so that her mother-in-law can feel the warmth and love of the family.

    Provide financial help: If the mother-in-law can afford it, the daughter-in-law can provide financial help to help the mother-in-law pay for medical bills or other necessities.

    Assist the mother-in-law in taking care of the mother-in-law: If the mother-in-law needs to take care of her, the daughter-in-law can consider assisting in the care and providing operational support. However, there is no legal definition for a daughter-in-law to take care of her mother-in-law, so it needs to be considered according to the actual situation.

    Respect the wishes of the mother-in-law: On the issue of taking care of the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law should respect the wishes and decisions of the mother-in-law, and cannot force the mother-in-law to accept care or other programs.

    To sum up, the daughter-in-law does not have the obligation to take care of her mother-in-law directly, but when the mother-in-law is sick and needs to be taken care of, you can consider providing help from the above aspects. At the same time, the mother-in-law also needs to respect the wishes and decisions of her daughter-in-law, and cannot force her daughter-in-law to take care of the Na clan and serve herself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Legal Analysis: Both parties need to fulfill their maintenance obligations.

    Legal basis: Constitution of the People's Republic of China Article 49 Adult children have the obligation to support and support their parents.

    Article 11 The supporter shall perform the obligation of economic support, daily care and spiritual comfort for the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly.

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