My mother in law had cancer, and my husband insisted on selling the house and borrowing money to tre

It is morally flawed, and some would consider this practice wrong, but it is legally permissible, and as long as your husband agrees to the divorce, making this choice can be reproached by others.

That's right, because from my point of view, if once we sell the house we don't have a place to live, then we don't know where to live.

I think it's really wrong, because in such a situation, we should face the problem together, and only then can we share weal and sorrow, and husband and wife should support each other.

If I had an incurable disease, I wouldn't let my children go bankrupt for me.

Cancer should not be cured. How do you cure it? Much richer than you. lost his wife and broke his soldiers. His wife was separated and his family went bankrupt. In the end, I lost both my personal fortune.

In this world, there are only poor diseases that are difficult to treat, and I can't blame my daughter-in-law.

Summary. Hello, I personally think that it is necessary, because treating your mother-in-law is your responsibility and obligation.

My husband went out to borrow money without my knowledge to treat my mother-in-law's cancer, if I get divorced, do I need to share this debt?

Hello, I personally think that it is necessary, because treating your mother-in-law is your responsibility and obligation.

Hello to his two sons, it is not possible to match in family life. 100% of the study, you mean his two sons, you should take half of the money, it should be like this in principle, but if your old husband is not such a caring person, he just takes it, and you have no choice, and I don't recommend that because of this incident, you will get into trouble to the point of divorce.

Hello, 100% fair, written wrong.

When something like this happens, as his wife, you should not choose to oppose it, on the contrary, you should choose to support him and approve of his approach. A man who has his own parents in his heart cannot live without his own family in his heart. A person who puts filial piety in his heart, he is definitely a person who can be trusted and trusted.

It is right to put filial piety first and put the elders first, although it may seem irresponsible to his existing family, but it is the most correct thing he can do as a son. It is true that for the current family, he also has a daughter, but for him personally, he only has the only mother. For a person who puts filial piety in his heart, you can't make him choose to give up his mother and only take care of his own family.

Although not to mention that when a person is very filial, he can bring a better tomorrow to the family. But if a person says that filial piety is very important in his eyes, then he must not treat his other relatives too badly. At the same time, parents are the biggest debt of their children in this life.

What you can do as a child is to give your parents a stable life in their old age when they become adults, and bring a belated happiness to their parents. In the same way, when they have a disease, they should not choose to give up easily, or even ignore it.

For a man who is so filial, family is absolutely important in his heart, and a man who regards his mother so much is equally important in his heart. A man who can make such a decision for the sake of his mother, he is definitely a man to rely on. Although his actions seem to be a bit desperate at this time, he is also doing this for his mother.

In the same way, even if he goes bankrupt to treat his mother, a person like this will definitely have a margin in his heart, and this margin is to ensure the basic life of his family.

While ensuring the basic life of his family, he is willing to give everything he has to save his mother. This was the greatest reward he could make as a son. At this time, as his wife, he should choose to understand instead of complaining.

He shouldn't even blame his mother for only seeing him, or even say that someone should have left when he's old and doesn't have to care. This will only make him feel cold, and it will only make him feel that you, the wife, do not understand him. Not even a qualified wife.

There is no money to earn anymore, but there is only one mother. For him, money is something outside of his body, and if he can exchange money for his mother, so that he, as a son, can spend a few more days with his mother, then the joy brought by such a result cannot be bought by money. On the other hand, if your husband can do so much for his mother, the mother or father who treats his wife the same way, although he may not be able to do it as he does in front of his father, it is definitely not too bad, let alone ignored.

My mother-in-law died of liver cancer, and she was very young at the time of her illness, just 62 years old. When I found out that my mother-in-law was sick, my husband cried, and he had the best relationship with his mother, and my husband couldn't imagine that my mother-in-law, who was exercising every day, would get this disease.

The mother-in-law was found during the physical examination, and the husband took the mother-in-law to check it from all the big hospitals in the city, he hoped that it was a misdiagnosis, but the explanation given by each authoritative institution was the same: the right liver mass (liver cancer), the husband did not give up with the mother-in-law's examination results to find experts in Beijing to continue the diagnosis, and the husband accepted the reality after the diagnosis of many authoritative experts.

I will also cure my mother's illness by smashing the pot and selling iron, this is my husband's promise when my mother-in-law started to treat!

We went to the best and most authoritative hospital in Beijing to operate on my mother-in-law, and at first my husband also hoped that the doctor could give my mother-in-law a liver transplant, and at that time we were ready to sell the house to my mother-in-law for treatment! But the doctor does not recommend, the doctor gives the husband a detailed description of the mother-in-law's **, the condition and the risks that will be faced, and the doctor recommends conservative ** according to the mother-in-law's current physical condition

1.Less pain for the patient.

2.The financial burden on the family is small.

3.The liver is a large organ of hematopoiesis, and generally this disease is to delay life, and the chance of cure is not great!

4.Mother-in-law's body, age, and family history (mother-in-law's genetic history) can only be accepted conservatively**.

Now back to your question, your husband wants to bankrupt your mother-in-law to treat her illness, which is irrational, but feelings cannot be measured by reason. As his wife, unless you leave him, you can only support him silently. However, to be honest, the medical expenses are so big now, and millions of them can be spent until they die.

So on this issue, others can't give any good advice, it depends on your own heart, what kind of decision to make. Qi is now willing to bankrupt his family and borrow money to treat his mother's illness, which can only show that he is a very kind person and a person of temperament, and you should be thankful.

This house is the wife's pre-marital house, and the son has no right to sell it, so he shouldn't even say this idea, how much ability he has to do how big things, and it's not good to calculate other people's property.