What should I do if I refuse to start if I am afraid of the end?

It's human nature to be afraid of being hurt, but I don't think you can give up eating because of choking, life is so short, it's better to have fun in time. If you value the outcome so much, then our final result is death, and according to your idea, it is better to die directly. Of course, life can't be like this, do what you want to do in your limited life, no matter what the result is, at least you won't regret it at the end.

Failure is the mother of success, if you are afraid of failure, you dare not take the first step, it will never be successful, but as long as you take that step, then even if you fail, you have accumulated a certain amount of experience, and the next time you take a step, you can have more experience to reach the other side of success.

With such thoughts, you need to reflect on yourself, in real life, don't reject all the beginnings because you are afraid of the end, because no one will know what you will face tomorrow, you must be confident in yourself, you must dare to try, so that your life will be better.

Afraid of the end and refusing to start, this is a typical manifestation of choking and abandoning food, this is actually a manifestation of selfishness, life is colorful, it is impossible to be smooth sailing, and it is not a coward who has never started, and he does not deserve to have better things, as for what to do, just die alone and grow old.

I used to have this mentality, when there was a very good boy in the class chasing me, but I always felt that I was not worthy of the other party and did not dare to agree. Later, I was moved by the other party's insistence and tried to accept the other party, and now we are married. So the advice is to give yourself a chance anyway, at least you once had, right?

This is a typical escape psychology, just one word: cowardice.

I wonder what is terrible, confess if you like, be brave, at most be rejected, there is still a chance when you are young, just continue to confess.

In addition, this question is said as if you can start if you want to start, the same self-confidence, with this confidence, and what are you afraid of the end, you can go to the end, step into the palace of marriage, and finally grow old together.

If you do it, there is hope, and if you don't do it, there is only one last word: stay where it is cool.

Don't be afraid, no one knows what the result will be before you start again, and there will be no follow-up until you are afraid of the beginning, be bold, don't be afraid, the worst is to be rejected, even friends are not made, but if you don't say it, you will regret it for a lifetime, be brave.

This kind of mentality still has to be adjusted, I used to be such a person, especially in love, after experiencing several failed relationships, I never dared to start a new relationship, afraid of repeating the mistakes of the past.

But after the persuasion of my friends, I also figured it out. If you keep refusing to start, you will always be alone, you will never find the right person, the previous failures are really disappointing, but it has also excluded some people who are not suitable for me, which is a good thing, love is not always looking for, has been screening the process?

So give yourself and others some more opportunities, believe again, and try.

When faced with other people's requests, be sure to do what you can.