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Actually, I think the better relationship between the two of us is to be good friends, don't you?
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I think it's better for us to be good friends, and I still like to be single.
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Consider each other's feelings, always consider each other's feelings when they are together in a tactful tone, think more about each other when they break up, try to use a way acceptable to the other party, and try to cause as little harm to the other party as possible. The wording and tone of attitude at the time of breakup are very important for the impact of the relationship between the two after the breakup, if it is said on the mobile phone WeChat, it should be noted that the other party cannot see your expression at this time, and cannot hear your tone, so try to use some soft words when typing and speaking, and do not force it.
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Finally, send him (her) a message: We are not suitable, so let's break up, and hope to continue to be friends in the future.
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You're a good person, but we're not suitable, you deserve better", so to speak, the average person will understand.
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You can wait and say that we may have all reached a finish point, and instead of letting both sides calm down, we should go our separate ways.
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The person you and you want to break up with must have experienced a hot love and finally a cold one, and is slowly breaking up, at this time, it is okay to directly say that the personalities are incompatible.
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It's a simple thing, break up and break up, what is chic or not. This kind of thing seems very simple to me. I never dragged my feet when I broke up with her. Contact as little as possible after a breakup.
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If we can't say it in person or in **, we can try to use letters, which is more tactful, and it is estimated that the other party will be easier to accept.
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You can borrow: This love should be a long-term stay, if you don't have the heart, I will leave. This poem is more euphemistic, literary.
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How to be subtle in breaking up, it will be painful if you don't love, and love is a stab! If you can still love, cherish it, if you don't love, be honest! Treating it sincerely is respecting the feelings of the past!
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Find a suitable reason. Generally, work or study will be used as an excuse, and if there is a better excuse, of course, it is the best, and the damage must be minimized.
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Breaking up and being chic can only show that you don't love anymore. Since I don't love it, it's chic no matter how I say it. If you find that the other party doesn't love you anymore and want to take the initiative to break up and retain a little dignity, then you can come with the most ugly sound, and you don't need to be polite to people who don't love you.
The most annoying thing is to play a good card in the breakup, obviously not in love, but also to pretend to take into account the other party's feelings, entanglement, words can not be said clearly, leaving the other party with illusions. What is actually very good to you, but we are not suitable for, just don't love it. If you can tell him the real reason, such as you are in love with someone else.
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If two people really can't continue, then break up completely, otherwise the next thing is quarrels, fights and all kinds of distrust, from love to hate, from lovers to enemies, why do you want to do this, break up in a chic way to have a better mentality, whoever leaves can live, fate is over. Don't contact each other after letting go, try to avoid each other, because after all, love is not to say that you can do it immediately, devote yourself to work and study, don't think about it, use another way to forget and dilute each other, socialize with friends more, do something meaningful, such as exercising, running, swimming, fitness, climbing, etc., from time to time to drink two glasses with three or five friends, or go to find another person who belongs to you, if there is fate, don't think about the past, don't be entangled, although you are not a lover, you can't become an enemy! All right.
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First let the other person slowly accept the fact of the breakup, and then you can distance yourself from the other person and say the breakup by sending a message.
First, there should be a buffer process to let the other party slowly accept the fact of the breakup.
If you break up with the other party without any warning, it is easy to hurt the other party a lot and will give the other party a heavy blow. Especially for girls, it is difficult for them to come out of a relationship, because they take this relationship very seriously and can't accept this fact at all, and some people may even do some radical behaviors to hurt themselves.
Second, distance yourself from each other.
If you want to break up and can't bear to break up with the other person, then you can choose to distance yourself from the other person to achieve a breakup. Because they don't know how to talk to each other about breaking up, they can slowly distance themselves from each other, because if two people don't contact each other for a long time, it will affect the relationship between them. Since you can't say it, then use this method to let the other party slowly adapt to this state.
Third, say the breakup in a message.
In love, not that we give in return, love is mutual, if in love, one party blindly gives, and the other party blindly asks, then this kind of love is not long-lasting, so when we break up, we can inform each other by sending a message, because some people are difficult to say, so this way of sending a message is also a good choice, and this is also conducive to a head-on conflict between two people.
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Thank you for the invitation to apologize + reason + thank you + blessing.
For example: I'm sorry, I thought about it for a long time. There is no fit between us. Thank you for your company during this time. Hope you find someone you like.
The ellipsis part is free to play, and not to say that I hope to find a better one, and the blessing is sincere.
It is to directly propose to the girl to break up.
Explain to the girl the specific reason for the breakup, or the personality is incompatible or the three views are incompatible, etc.
Pay attention to three points when breaking up directly:
First, pay attention to the timing: try to choose a time when the girl is not too busy with work or is emotionally stable;
The second is to pay attention to the occasion: propose to break up when it is more convenient for the girl or when one person is present;
The third is to pay attention to the tone of speech: when proposing to break up, you must be calm and gentle.
This method is generally used for girls who have a more cheerful personality and belong to the extroverted type.
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Try to say that you are not, and give the other party a certain step, so that the breakup will be faster and smoother. Neither one who has ever loved each other wants to hurt each other, even when they break up. So when a boy wants to break up, how can he bring it up tactfully so that it won't hurt the other party?
What is the most acceptable reason to break up. Don't bring up old accounts; When you break up, you will mention old accounts, and even talk at length about your partner's shortcomings.
This is very hurtful, maybe this can break up quickly, but this will be a very big blow to the other party's self-esteem, it is not recommended that you use this method, try to find your own shortcomings in the breakup, and don't go to the other party. Sometimes it's better to say it in person: Maybe many friends will think that it will be better to break up online, but sometimes it may be simpler to break up in person, save trouble, and the harm will be less.
If you know friends on both sides, say hello in advance: When dating, we often know friends on both sides, if her friends have a good relationship with you, you can say hello to them in advance, let them comfort him more, to come out of a relationship, or need someone to accompany you, friendship is sometimes so effective.
Don't hurt each other when you break up, let him know how to let go, which is also a kind of fulfillment. In my opinion, since they are all stages of preparing to break up, it is not the point to be tactful or not, after all, I really gave my feelings, and it must be sad to propose a breakup, so how can I be tactful. Being tactful will only make the other person feel that you are hypocritical, and on the one hand, saying that you are being tactful is actually going to break up.
Why bother? It's better to be generous and frank to open up to the other party and make it clear, leave a good image for yourself, and respect this relationship.
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There are 2 methods worth learning from.
1. Respect each other and yourself.
Respecting oneself allows oneself to leave with dignity, and respecting the other person is also one of the ways to break up tactfully. Whether before or after a breakup, don't denigrate the other person, and you shouldn't be too humble.
In the process of breaking up, many people will use cold violence, which is very harmful to the other party, far more harmful than if you directly tell her the answer, cold violence is one of the most selfish and irresponsible ways.
As the active breakup party, we should inform the other party of the reasons why the relationship between the two cannot continue, and as the passive breakup party, we should not continue to beg and retain, because all separations are well thought out.
2. Make a decisive decision and don't linger.
The most feared thing about breaking up is hesitation, which can be a psychological blow for both people. The role of language is very important for two people, and the key to how to be tactful and decent lies in the communication and exchange between the two.
Breaking up is afraid that a person will hesitate, give the other party expectations, and give her disappointment, this double blow will make a person collapse. Especially the more intense the love once became, then this hatred will come to my heart.
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The smallest harm is that you directly say that you break up, don't give him the illusion that he has a chance to get back together, and the sooner you say it, the less it will hurt him, and if you don't love him, don't give him fantasies.
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Breaking up itself is an embarrassing thing, if there is no hope of getting back together, it depends on how far you have a relationship, if you have a relationship for a short time, reduce the number of contacts, and when she finds that there is a problem, she will pick out that you are not suitable, etc.; If you have been dating for more than a year, don't delay other people's time, ask her out directly and tell her the reason for your breakup, don't leave her hope of getting back together, after all, long pain is better than short pain. In fact, whether she is tactful or not, she will be sad, you judge what to do according to your feelings.
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If he likes you very much, he will be sad no matter how he breaks up, but if you really can't be with him, breaking up is the fairest thing for him, I am a straight person, so according to my personal opinion, you should be decisive, the so-called long pain is better than short pain. If you don't like it, you don't like it, there is no reason, he is good to you, you said that there is affection between us, but this feeling is friendship, it is family affection, but it does not belong to love, you just say I don't want to deceive you and I don't want to deceive myself, I can only be the audience next to you, not the woman behind you. In fact, many boys like to go straight, because sometimes they may have a glimmer of hope because of your tactfulness, so it is not comfortable to hang on to you, and he is also uncomfortable.
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And she said; Let's be friends.
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