Some people fade as they walk, and they slowly disperse

I'm not good at taking the initiative, I don't want to take the initiative, I'm more afraid of losing the people around me, every time I force myself to take the initiative to chat on QQ, and I hope that they can take the initiative to chat with me, chat and don't like to talk for a long time, I love to live in groups, but sometimes I also love to be alone, I love to be lively, I also love to be quiet, take the initiative for a long time, I am also tired....

People always say: If a person doesn't take the initiative to look for you, it means that the relationship may be weak, and he doesn't take you seriously, so he doesn't look for me, and I don't look for him....

People will always put the fault on another person, will not find the reason from themselves, if everyone thinks so, is there no longer an active person, you think that I don't take the initiative even if you don't take the initiative, you are also lazy to take the initiative, maybe the other party also thinks so?

If you take the initiative, I will take the initiative, rather than relying on another person to take the initiative, and it will be tiring to take the initiative for a long time.

In fact, there is a saying that I still believe - we haven't been in touch for a long time, and our relationship has faded, although we are still friends....I remember those good playmates in junior high school, I haven't been in touch for a long, long time, and the relationship has faded, and even I was deleted by the other party's QQ friends inexplicably, and I lost contact, and some, the chat is not so presumptuous anymore, there is a restriction....

I always push myself to take the initiative and take the initiative to maintain our relationship, but most of them, that is, send early morning good night and no longer gossip together....

I think the best relationship is that we don't care who takes the initiative, because we are all interactions, I send you a message, I don't blame you if you don't reply to me, because we have a kind of trust in each other, I know that you are busy, I know that you may have something, or you haven't seen the message, I will reply immediately when I see your message, you will tell me interesting things around you, I will tell you the gossip around you, happy things to share with you, sad things to talk to each other, she still dislikes you so much, you still dislike her so much, even if you are separated, We meet as before, unrestrained, and still very presumptuous in front of you....

I hope that my friends are not your purse strings, not your spare tire, not your playmates...It's a confidant, she understands you, you understand her, sad to give you shoulders, happy to share with you, thank you for those former friends, I hope there are fewer fake friends in the world, I hope everyone can meet a confidant, even if you are not good, annoying, there will still be such a person who understands you....

Well! There's a song that sings like this. Fall in love with true love, and forget about love in the rivers and lakes! Some things are downplayed, and there are naturally fewer worries.

This is life, and no one is with whom for a lifetime.

Relax. Sooner or later, the time to go will go. Sooner or later, a whim will be forgotten.

When I opened the window, the clear air rushed in, and there was a vast expanse outside, and the outline of the tree was vaguely visible. On the surface of the river, the wind is fluttering, silently, leading the leaves to bury rough cultivation.

Take a deep breath, breath straight up to the altar, and your mood becomes clear. How long has it been since you've been like this, to calm down and look at the scenery around you? I walked with my head buried for too long, and when I stopped in ignorance, I felt dazed and tired.

Since when did the people and things around us become confused, like the scene in the fog? I am busy every day, and now I think about it, but I don't know what the result of my busy work is. Whether it's work or life, it's like a train with no end, once you get on the platform, you can't find your destination.

Stop in front of the mirror and look at yourself numb. The eyes, the eyeballs were so wooden that they looked like rusty locks turning hard. I never realized at this moment that I was living like a walking dead.

Ignorant and unconscious, living a similar day, those living people, what they once thought were important, seemed to disappear in the wind.

Once, I also loved to make trouble, love to jump, and love to play. I still remember in college, with classmates and friends, I could sing in KTV in a group of people, and when everyone was so tired that I couldn't sing, I was still in good spirits, holding the microphone alone and singing out-of-tune songs. Until 6 o'clock the next morning, my classmates barely bothered their eyelids and went back to the dormitory to catch up on sleep, and I was still very excited to swipe my phone.

When I was in November last year, I went to Liling to visit my classmates, and when I passed by Zhuzhou, I couldn't help but go to Fangte, and the stool brother played for a whole day, making up for the regret that I had not gone to the window of the world in Changsha for many years.

When I was studying, I didn't want to eat the cheapest meals because I was shy of money, but there were many places I really didn't set foot in, such as high-end restaurants and clothing stores, large shopping malls, attractions that require entrance fees, and so on. When I was working, I was entangled in various things every day, and I suddenly found that there were too few people who could accompany me. House, isn't it at a point in time, no one has a goal or an idea with you!

Sowan was the only one who could stay at home with his mobile phone.

When you need it, you don't have friends! Because when I didn't need it, I didn't think about deepening the relationship. If you don't invite more people to take a remote trail that you have just stepped on, the path will slowly become abandoned.

When we have dreams, rush to pack our bags, and go into the distance, we should also stop and take a look on the road to enjoy the scenery around us. Every journey in life will tell us different meanings. If you go too fast and go too far, you will gradually forget your original heart.

After walking for too long, stop and take a look, okay?