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1. When you are in love, you haven't really known each other, and when you are together, the distance between the two is gone, and you can see each other's advantages and disadvantages more clearly.

2. When two people are in love, they are looking forward to understanding each other, hoping that the other party is as they imagined, when the two eliminate the distance between each other, they will find that it is not actually what they imagined, and when both people think so, they will quarrel.

Suggestion: Either break up, or reduce your expectations for the relationship, or you can do both at the same time, or at the same time to a slight extent, such as separating some distance and adjusting your mentality.

Maybe when you are in love, you see the advantages of the other party, and the other party will show you the best side, and after being together, some of the other party's habits are gradually revealed, which you can't tolerate, so it's easy to quarrel.

Because there are more things to face together, and they understand each other better, so each other's shortcomings are exposed, and they need to communicate together, explain things clearly, don't hold it in their hearts, and they also need to understand each other more, so that they can be together well, and you want to be happy.

Falling in love is a process quantity, not qualitative, look at the following indicators how much you have done:

1.Create opportunities to interact intellectually and emotionally with each other.

2.Cherish the giving and acceptance of each other, there are contacts between them, not a complete giver, nor a complete recipient.

3.In the face of conflicts and inconsistencies, communicate openly and reach an agreement.

4.Engage with the other person in a way that you can and that the other person will like.

5.Treat each other with respect and maintain courtesy.

6.Calmly express your feelings and thoughts to the other person.

7.Express your negative emotions in a way that doesn't hurt the other person and is honest.

8.Appreciate each other's interests and discover each other's strengths.

9.On the premise of not wronging yourself too much, care for and maintain each other.

10.They think of each other as the most important people in their lives, but they are not unreasonably extremely possessive, nor are they reluctant to comply.

I'm sure if you take this with your girlfriend, the probability of a quarrel will make you feel quite low.

Stupid, you don't talk when you feel like you're going to be noisy, she likes to say what she likes, and it's okay if she says it, you're uncomfortable with men, you don't remember anything when you sleep. There is no need to quarrel over small things, and there is no need to quarrel about big things.

Quarrels are frequent, normal.

All the measurements, the measurements, the mental enlightenment of the masters... No matter what you use, at the end you suddenly wake up: "Oh, so the reality is like this...

It is likely that it is difficult for two people to consider problems from the other's point of view, and they can't control their emotions when they encounter things, so they are prone to tantrums and often quarrel.

It may be because there are many contradictions in life, and two people have different views, and there are contradictions when they have different views on the same thing.

Although two people love each other very much together, not just any two people will have the same personality, just have a heart that loves each other, and factors such as personality are also irresistible.

Is it okay for couples to always quarrel with each other, and what is a "hate iron does not become steel" type of quarrel? In fact, in a sense, this is not a quarrel, but a reprimand and criticism of the party who is always in the strong position in the relationship to the party who is always in the weak position, while the other party is more reluctant to swallow his anger and bear it silently, and only in rare cases he erupts and resists. Similar forms of quarrel are most likely to occur in sibling and sibling relationships, where one partner habitually plays the role of a "controlling parent" while the other party always plays the role of a "submissive child".

"Heartless, no lungs" is the second mode of quarrel we often encounter. From the perspective of TA interaction analysis mentality, both parties to the quarrel are in the state of "free children". The typical feature of this week's quarrel pattern is that it comes and goes in a hurry, and the two people often quarrel and can't get along because of some particularly trivial things, but within a few minutes after the quarrel, the two people "laugh and enmity", and even after the happy quarrel, the two people have forgotten what exactly ...... reason for the quarrel just nowThen, the two of them continued to play happily and went to ......

What kind of quarrel pattern is the "Cold War of Great Powers"? In fact, the most manifested is that the two of them ignore each other and sulk together. When two people are in this quarrel mode, in fact, it is the energy of the "obedient child" in the body that takes over, and each of them has established a "invulnerable" turtle shell, and shrinks their heads tightly.

Unless one of them finally bows down and confesses his sin, and has to be comforted in every possible way, the other party is willing to forgive for the time being, and look at the performance later. Although there is no quarrel at this time, the mood of the dark clouds will still hang over the heads ......of the two people for a long time

It should be a lack of security, and I feel safe when I stay together, and if I don't see each other, I will worry about each other, think about each other, and be easy to think crankily, so it causes the phenomenon of quarrels.

Because the two of you want to be together and don't want to be separated, it's good to be together, and if you're separated, you quarrel, because neither of you wants the other person to leave you, so when the two of you don't want to be together, you feel uncomfortable, so you quarrel.

When two people are together, if they truly love each other, and can understand each other, tolerate, and think more about each other. If you can make progress together, then this is happy, which is also a more loving state, and the relationship must be managed well and you must communicate more together.

Two people need to run together, tolerate and understand each other, and they will be happy if they go on like this.

It only means that you are not looking for the right person, or that he is not looking for the right person. This kind of thing is true. That's the point.

Hehe, yes temper. Two people must truly love each other and tolerate each other. Even if he is stingy and he picks the door, if you can tolerate her, you will think that she is thrifty.

Life is like this, if you can't tolerate each other, then change someone.

1 The two oak bright groups are together, and after spending the love period, there will be many small shortcomings that were previously ignored, and Xi Shi in the eyes of the lover also has imperfections. During this period, it is natural that there will be many contradictions and many practical problems. The living habits, hobbies, and circle of friends of two people will be affected, and it is normal to have some quarrels in the run-in period.

2. Quarrels are actually a way to get to know each other better.

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, and even if it is, it cannot be without quarrels. As long as in the quarrel, the two sides can understand each other and understand each other at a deeper level. Because often when we are arguing, we may show a side that we are not aware of.

3. If after being together, there are constant quarrels, and there is no feeling of love between two people, then it is likely that you are not a suitable pair.

In many cases, the real understanding and interaction begins after we have been together. Only when you really get along will you know if your personalities can get along.

4. Too much stress in life can also cause tension in your relationship. If it is always unsatisfactory when you are working, Liang Cheng is angry outside, and it is inevitable that you will be affected by this negative energy when you are dating.