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Anonymous users2024-02-11When chatting online, many netizens are very confused and don't know what kind of topics to talk about. In fact, when we chat, the skills of speaking are only a small aspect, the important thing is to talk about the content, that is, the content and materials of the chat, which is very important, and the other aspect is the psychological factor, lack of confidence in yourself, fear of failure, and timidity.
Many netizens have encountered such a situation, and after asking each other's name, address, and age, they don't know what to say. Knowledge comes from the accumulation of daily life, and the material for conversation also comes from the accumulation of life. Eloquence is by no means just based on two pieces of mouth, but a manifestation of comprehensive ability.
A person who is good at speaking must have a keen sense of observation and a deep understanding of things, so that he can hit the nail on the head and accurately reflect the key points of things; Speak in an orderly manner, know how to analyze, judge, reason, and think closely and delicately; Another point is to have fluent and rigorous expression skills, rich vocabulary, and knowledge.
Eloquence is not something that can be learned casually, strictly speaking, eloquence is an art, a way of expressing thoughts.
Whether it is chatting with friends or talking with leaders, netizens should pay attention to skills and grasp the topic. Around the topic, express your different opinions to others, as long as the method is correct, even if your own opinions are not used, it will cause others to pay attention to you, but you need to be careful not to be too sharp and cause unnecessary trouble.
Here are some conversation skills for netizens' reference:
Frank and straightforward, modest and cautious.
Don't talk for too long, but I should give others a chance to speak.
Don't talk loudly or shout in public places.
Speak just right, don't exaggerate.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Maybe the topic between you is not attractive enough, you don't grasp the other person's interest, or maybe you don't pay more attention to the other person's ideas when talking to people, it is recommended that you try to think from the other person's point of view when communicating with people, and sometimes, listening is more useful than talking.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Mindset Confidence and don't close yourself off too much.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Because there was no common language, she felt bored.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Category: Annoyance.
Problem description Silver Crack Socks:
I'm not a good talker, and I'm also very introverted, so when I talk to people, I'm basically a listener and say a few words once in a while. I don't think that's good, and I want to turn it around. But I don't know what to do?
Analysis: When chatting with friends, you have to find a topic with a common language, and if you have a topic, you won't be so bored and sleepy. Unless you're talking about something boring or a topic that others don't dare to be interested in, then the other party will naturally be like this.
If you have a common hobby and a common language, it won't happen, it's just that the more you talk, the more excited you get.
That's the case with my friend, but I've never seen this happen as you said, and I hope you find something wrong and correct it as soon as possible, otherwise, you may lose your friend.
People communicate with each other, and if you don't have a topic, will you still have fun? Will your friendship go further?
The next time I see you, I hope you and your friends don't have such a situation happening, and don't let me down, okay?
I think you'll promise me, I'm sincere.
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Just look for a topic. Generally speaking, when talking about topics related to the other person's career, the other party is generally good at and interested. For example, if the other party is a college student, talk about some campus topics; The other party is a soldier, so let's talk about some military life; The other party is a professional person, so let's talk about some workplace topics......However, it should be noted that if you are not very familiar with the relevant topics, you must position yourself as a well-behaved seeker and listener, rather than boasting.
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When you chat with others, you always can't talk about it, which means that your emotional intelligence is not high enough, you don't know what others like to talk about, and you don't know what to avoid during the chat, so this kind of consequence will be caused, so you need to strengthen the cultivation of emotional intelligence and know how to talk to others about some favorite topics.