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Anonymous users2024-02-12What the bear child did offended the neighbors on the first floor, and the way the parents dealt with it was a correct example for the bear parents.
Upstairs a family of bear children, one day from the windowsill threw out a large bottle of ink, this bottle of ink is really not wasted, from the ** to see, downstairs every family, drying outside the clothes have suffered, splashed spots, upstairs also sprayed a lot, smashed to the ground downstairs, is also a big mark of ink.
The father of the bear child screamed: The family apologizes and has to find a cleaner, what kind of thing is this!
Then I went downstairs, apologized to the family, took pictures, and found a cleaner to deal with it.
The mother of the bear child did not avoid the problem, took the child, apologized door-to-door, and took the neighbor's "hit" clothes home to wash by hand, and if it was not clean, she bought a new one to compensate others.
Papa Bear also took matters into his own hands and made a "Spider-Man", hanging on the outer building to clean up the splashed exterior wall. And let the bear child stand in the sun and watch.
It's not that you don't let the child wipe it, it's that the child really can't do this job. ”
However, "we as parents must make him realize the mistake and the seriousness of the matter. ”
The parents' handling methods and actions have won everyone's understanding and praise.
This kind of treatment is far more effective than beating up, or just losing money.
1. If you make a mistake, you must apologize and bear the consequences.
Because it is a child, then the parents have the responsibility of poor supervision, and the parents must also bear the corresponding responsibility for the failure to do the education in place. The approach of this pair of parents is not to evade or find reasons to excuse them, and they must bear the consequences of the burden.
2. The natural consequences of the child's burden that he can afford.
You can't be Spider-Man, but you can be under the sun, accompany your dad, and watch how hard your dad cleans the exterior wall. I followed my mother to apologize to the neighbors, and the clothes I got back were washed by hand, and I believe that I would inevitably help them on the side.
3. A "casual" and "fun" ink-throwing action is exchanged for a "serious, careful and responsible" remedy.
Parents can make a list of the cost of this matter, tell their children how much energy the whole family has paid for it, how much it costs, and how much it costs.
People make mistakes, and children's self-control is not yet mature, even more so, but parents can't shirk responsibility just because "he's a child", children will always grow up, and always use children as excuses, and parents' unprincipled will only harm the child.
Child, your growth is a grind, and it is a grind for your parents, let's go steady, okay?
Of course, the parents' example and words and deeds must have a full educational effect on the little ones.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11I don't think this is right, because it is the child who makes a mistake, and the punishment should be cleaned up by the child. If the father blindly takes the child to do it, the child will not learn the lesson, and he will not know that he has done wrong.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10That's right, it's impossible to let your child climb the wall and clean it up by himself! However, before the father cleans up the mess for the child, he should tell the child that it is wrong to do so, and he must stop it in time.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09I think it's the right thing to do, because the father's words and deeds teach the child that he needs to be responsible for doing something wrong.
There are two bear children in the family, and the two of them are either fighting over things and shouting non-stop, or they are working together to do all kinds of sabotage, and I will let them face the wall for an hour, or kneel on the small bench for 20 minutes.
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There are a lot of bear children, I think it's hard to say the most bear, such as Gao Yanzong, who peed on Emperor Wenxuan's stomach when he was a child, which is not enough bears; When Cao Cao was a child, he set off cannons in other people's cars and urinated in other people's caves, which was also bearish. The word bear child is not easy to say, because it is the nature of children to be naughty.
My sister's daughter doesn't look like a girl at all, she just fights outside and smokes like a boy every day.
In the face of this situation, we should first make the child aware of the wrongness of this behavior, and then change the child's character, change the way of educating the child, and strengthen the management of the child, which is more conducive to the improvement of the child.