What does it mean that my boyfriend has been a soldier outside for two years and has not been contac

Updated on psychology 2024-06-11
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Dating or something, there have been a lot of flash marriages and divorces in recent years, and I really can't rely on a promise to explain anything. My friend was a soldier, as far as he ......He ...... in the armyVery boring = = drill drill = = eyes full of men = =. Well, if a man disappears, in fact, he just doesn't have the courage to tell you directly that he doesn't love you, don't wait, or think it's better to be a spare tire than his parents.

    If the man takes the initiative to disappear, then let it go, so you are at least beautiful, and he will recall the regret that he didn't get after many years.

    As for whether he is really important or not, when your life is full of new possibilities, this relationship is just an embellishment of memory.

    In addition, if a soldier is not promoted during the service period, there is really no hope, so it is not interesting to say that a soldier with no background at home is not interesting, and this is the current situation in society.

    So from an economic and practical point of view, the landlord still tries to package himself and find a better one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your current annoyance is that he doesn't make his statement clear, right? If you contact him, you should ask him to make it clear: do you want to continue dating or quit your family?

    There has to be an answer, and if you know it, you're dead, and there's no one pestering anyone, right? If he still doesn't make it clear, if you tell him that you will go to the army and ask him face to face to see if he is willing or not, it will definitely not be appropriate for him to deal with these things in the army, and if something happens that will affect the future, I believe he will reply to you soon.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, I used to be like this, waiting for a man to wait for several years, but after coming back, I found that everything had changed after a while, and he didn't want to face your problem to show that he was weak-hearted, as said upstairs, men want to have a spare tire, and when everything is lost, there is a girl waiting for her, such a person is really shameful, it is recommended that you cut through the mess quickly, and regret it later, and, looking at your statement, he is not so dedicated, and you do not have a deep emotional foundation, it is better to dissolve the marriage, Everyone is free.

    Two-legged men are all over the streets, and you are sure to meet someone who really suits you and loves you

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Retire from this family business as soon as possible Such a boy is not worth your sadness, and he will suffer when he comes back from being a soldier.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you must retreat, you can wait for him to come back and then retreat, otherwise it will seem that you are not doing well.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    For more than a year, he thought about your words, and it was impossible for him not to call you, and you yourself knew it very well.

    When the judgment continues, it is chaotic.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Looks like he doesn't love you anymore.

    You should leave your relatives as soon as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What should or shouldn't be, the benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wise.

    What you have to think about now is not what you should or shouldn't, but what you have to pay for.

    At present, what you have to pay is at least two years of waiting for your topic.

    Time is not a weapon to test love. Of course, if you wait for him for two years, it's not a matter of testing. But the current state is about whether your emotional foundation is anti-stress or not.

    Three months is enough time for you to reach the period of love, which is usually the kind of indestructible period. For example, when your significant other half is there, it will give you great courage and security. We care about each other and see each other as a source of happiness.

    If he is chasing you, he will care more about your feelings, all romantic holidays and ...... such as your birthday

    Then in the case of indestructibility, you probably won't be bothered with this problem. Since you asked, there are probably two possibilities, one is that you are more rational and kind. I won't talk about the other one.

    Since you may be on the rational side, start with the actual situation. Two years of youth, is he worth your wait, wait for him for two years, he will bring you a lifetime of happiness, and everyone will be happy. So whether he can do it or not, please think about it.

    Because it's not a game, it's okay to sl. Secondly, if you choose to wait, you also have to consider whether the love between you can withstand all kinds of tests. Maybe there will be something you don't expect......

    Well, there's a lot of variety, maybe it's really a variety. If you are fearless, he is worth the two years you have to wait, then please be fearless, two years may be long, two years may not be long, but you think it is worth it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Wait, wouldn't it be good to be a military wife quietly, and time can also test what the relationship between the two is

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The key is your boyfriend's person, careerism, whether it is good for you, if the above conditions are met, it is recommended, etc.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After finishing high school and going to be a soldier, the key is what can he do when he comes back? If the family conditions are good, it is worth waiting.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You've recognized him for your boyfriend, and they're together again, so I don't think there should be this problem, why do you ask it again, it seems that to some extent you are not very satisfied with your boyfriend or very dissatisfied, I wonder if it will be caused by the difference in academic qualifications. If you or your family cares about this matter very much, the chances of you being together are not very high, after all, it is very common for college graduates to be admitted to graduate school or something, if you don't have these considerations, just wait for two years, then of course you have to wait, it is really not easy to meet someone who loves you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think we should wait, a person who comes out of the army will be higher than others in terms of quality and consciousness. You may not be able to meet such a situation in society. Besides, how can some family members who have been in the army for more than ten years and cannot join the army get by? There are gains and losses, and the focus is on yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I must wait for him to be a soldier, as long as I have a girlfriend, I will not change my mind, I can use my life to ensure that the love of a soldier is not easy to come by, I will not give up on him easily, I must believe him, my girlfriend gave up on me because I can't wait for me, you don't know that when I know that the news that he gave up on me is my heart-rending pain, no matter how hard and tired the training is, I haven't been able to do it, but I cried at that moment, and I have never talked about it since. So, since you love him too, just wait for him and the tiger. Why don't you fight for the people you love?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to be far from your college life and his life as a soldier, whether there is an emotional foundation, and besides, two years have changed too much, too many variables, you can only go with the flow and follow fate! You are not sure what will happen in a year or two, only by seizing the learning opportunities in front of you, improving your abilities, and laying a good foundation is the top priority! Think about it later!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You are not very old, one is a soldier and the other is in school, and there are still big variables in the future, get along and see, let it be.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It depends on the feelings between you, as well as your subjective will

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you still love him, and he won't let you down, then wait, you will always see each other, even if it is only for one day, it will be worth it.

    But if the relationship between you fades, then chase it back. There's really no way, so you two can talk about it.

    I wish you all happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's up to you, it's worth waiting for deep feelings, not deep, don't want to, there's no need to wait.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Look at the individual, if you want to love him for the past two years, it is worth a lifetime.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on whether he treats you well or not, but it's better for you to choose.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you can't wait for two years, it means that you don't love him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not easy to be a military wife, you have to endure loneliness and hardship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you love each other, you will wait, and if you don't like it so much, you will let go.

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