How do you become grumpy? How do you make yourself temperamental and characterful?

It's very simple, don't always try to accommodate anyone, everyone will encounter unpleasant things, it is impossible to maintain a good temper all the time, and it is necessary to break out when it is time to break out.

It is not necessarily a good thing to make yourself a tempered thing, everyone knows that honest people are easy to be bullied by others, in other words, people without temper are easy to be bullied.

So don't keep a temperless attitude all the time, of course, having no temper also has the advantage of having no temper, because you have a good mentality, and you will never feel unhappy.

In fact, it is just to suppress the temper in the bottom of the heart, I don't want to vent it, and it may not be a good thing to keep it in the bottom of my heart for a long time, so the best way is to be the most authentic self.

For example, if we are scolded, we have to return it, especially when we can't find a reason, if it is a person who has a good game with two people, don't take it too seriously, it may be that he is joking. <>

If you are unfamiliar with it, if she treats you like this, you must show your attitude.

Face is worth a few dollars, sometimes the heart is not happy, find a venting object to vent, it will be much better, don't wronged yourself, happy others.

Do everything for your own sake, your own interests are the most fundamental, I have seen a lot, I have met a lot of people, enthusiastically fed the dog.

I have a temper, but if others don't mess with me, I won't mess with others, that's my principle, I'm very sensible, I don't lose my temper with someone who treats me well, but if I treat someone badly, then don't blame me.

If you see it through, you will understand that people's hearts are separated from their stomachs. If you have a temper, you must vent it, I think so, don't wronged yourself!

This question surprised me a little, and I was a little shocked in my heart. The first reaction was, are you a person without a temper? Then how mature and stable you should be, smooth sailing!

In general, most people are troubled by not knowing how to suppress their bad temper and control their ups and downs. And very few are almost no one who will wonder how to have a temper! Speaking of temper, what is the so-called temper in your heart?

In my opinion, people with a temper get angry because they are unhappy and unhappy, such as yelling, throwing things, swearing, irritating, turning their heads and leaving, howling and crying, I think these are all different expressions that tempered people reflect. And for today's stressful society, the outburst of temper has become more and more irrepressible. If you want to talk about having a temper, you don't need to learn it, and I think people seem to be born with a temper.

It's rare for me to meet someone who can't bear it and doesn't lose his temper, but on the contrary, I always meet all kinds of people who have a temper and lose their temper.

So, I'm wondering, what kind of temperamental person do you want to become? What kind of temper do you want? When you encounter grievances, unfairness, and some things that you can't bear in your heart, don't you vent and lose your temper?

It's not easy to become a temperant, shout when you're upset, and cry when you're sad. If it's too cheesy, use your facial expressions and sharp language to let the other person know that you have a temper.

We often meet leaders in the workplace, and we may judge them with a temper. For example, this leader has a really good temper and never gets angry. Or this leader has too much temper, and he shouts and loses his temper whenever something happens.

Therefore, having a temper is not necessarily negative, and when the temper is manifested at the right time, it will also show a person's demeanor and charm! If you want to be tempered, you have to say no to others loudly at the right time!

This is a kind of cowardice, not daring to be yourself, what you think in your heart is inconsistent with what you do, in fact, you know what to do in your heart, but you don't dare to do it, or you don't want to offend others. If it's yours, you have to fight for it, whether it's interests or self-esteem, as long as you feel right, it's worth it, you feel that you should be like this, do your best, and only in this way can you really get the respect of others.

It's enough to be yourself, and the so-called temperament is immature behavior, and it doesn't mean that you can tolerate anything, but you have to use the right way to tell others what you don't like.

Du Yuesheng said that the lowest people are incapable and have a big temper.

It's okay to let yourself have a character, but it's not necessarily a good thing to let yourself have a temper. Temper and character are not equal.

Judging by your question, you should be a very easy-going person. So over time, people in your circle of friends will make fun of you for your easy-going old jokes that make you unhappy. But your personality determines that you will not get angry.

If you want to make yourself have a character, it's actually very simple, it's just a matter of your mentality, and then in the future, you must at least do it, if your friends ask you to do something, either agree or refuse. Don't drag it out in any way. And don't change your mind by nagging your friends there again.

Your world, you are the master. I want to have a character, I hope you can do this simple thing well first...