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It's your way of thinking that's wrong. This in itself is a false proposition. Love and reality are a whole in themselves. Love detached from reality is ethereal, and the reality detached from love is a worldly world without emotion.
If you are pursuing true marriage and love, you have to face up to reality. If you're the kind of person who goes for feelings, you don't have to think about it that much. Just be happy.
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This kind of question is a lot of people who will struggle with it, but in fact there is no answer to this kind of question, even if many people give you advice, you should follow your inner thoughts. Love is indeed very small in the face of reality, since you already know this, you should work hard to defeat reality, so that your love does not have to accept the test of reality.
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That's dividing people, sometimes people just use this as an excuse, if it's because of some real problems, then what did you do before? He is a target
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Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...
Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...
At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...
When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.
If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.
The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.
It's not wrong to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person
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Because everyone's material life is essential, not to mention that in this hypocritical, realistic society, material life is the main body, as long as there is money in a society where there is everything, there is very little real love, unless there are no economic troubles on both sides, this cruel reality may not be exposed, I am also a student who has not yet come out of the society and do not know too much, I hope it can help you...
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This problem is a problem that many women in today's society are troubled by, and if a woman can still have enviable love after entering the palace of marriage, this is undoubtedly the success of this woman. However, in the marriages I have learned, there are many people who marry for the sake of marriage, not for love, and this kind of person is often defeated by life, or by reality. <>
Let's not talk about the high-level aspect of marriage, now it's just about falling in love, and many girls will also take into account many practical problems. However, adolescent boys and girls are certainly not affected by this trouble. The love in college can be said to be very pure, and both men and women choose to be together because they like this person, and they don't think about his family's financial situation.
The relationship at that time was very simple, love is love, and not love is not love. <>
Before we really entered society, we were not polished by worldly accidents, we are still angular young people who dare to love and hate. But when we graduate from school, our friends and classmates have their own life plans, and maybe some of them are separated, and we will never see each other again in this life. There are also many sweet couples who choose to break up during graduation season, and they may not be in love, but they can't love.
After graduation, some people choose to go to graduate school, some people choose to work, and both men and women may not develop in the same city, so how many couples can survive a long-distance relationship? So in reality, love is very fragile in front of it. <>
After graduation, it is a one-man life, and when you are tired of working alone in a city, you will also have the idea of falling in love, but at this time, you have to consider many factors when you fall in love. Often the older a woman is, the more she thinks about it when she falls in love, for example, many people ask the man to have a house and a car, which is indeed a very realistic thing. When a woman is no longer young, she does not have the years to accompany you to develop from poverty.
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Everyone's attitude towards love is different, and some people can put love above all else, so they will not give in in to the cruel reality. But under the huge oppression of reality, this is only a minority, and many more people will choose to succumb to reality and bow to reality.
Anyone should know how difficult the adult world really is. Life, work, material, family, money, interpersonal relationships, etc., everything needs to be faced, solved, and conquered. And if you are not careful, you will not be able to deal with it well, and if there is only one place that goes wrong, then the peaceful life may be broken immediately.
It is said that the collapse of adults is only in a moment, and this is very real. And so that we have no pressure to survive, and falling in love is simply because of love. And when we become adults, we face not only love, but also huge pressure from reality, which is the so-called facing reality.
Under the pressure of great reality, two people may quarrel over all kinds of little things in life. As an example, have you ever seen someone who has been in a relationship for almost 10 years and finally broke up because of reality? 10 years, what is the concept must be known to everyone, this is almost 1 8 in our lives.
After such a long period of love, it will eventually lose to reality, so reality is very cruel in the face of love.
So how fragile is love in the face of reality?
Life is nothing more than firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, all things come together, and then two people snuggle up to each other and survive together. Although it seems simple, in fact, there will still be many difficulties, whether it is in terms of housing and transportation, or in terms of food. And as people get older, they think more and more, so the oppression of reality will become more and more.
But even so, we can't lose faith in love. Although the reality is cruel, we must also manage love with our hearts and strive to have our own happiness.
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Adults often have multiple choice questions about love and bread to choose, if it is a hungry love, then how can they have the energy to maintain it, therefore, they must have food and clothing to have the foundation of love.
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Love can't be measured by money, love is very fragile, love is very unworthy of testing in the face of reality, so love is very fragile.
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Love is very cruel in the face of reality, firewood, rice, oil and salt are all obstacles on the road to love, and love is very fragile in front of money.
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Love is inseparable from the foundation of reality, and it will also ruthlessly hit feelings, and under the effect of interests, money and status, love is easy to betray.
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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.
There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.
They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.
If you find.
If there are such people around you, please cherish .......
Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.
the world. on, each.
Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.
If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.
Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.
The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.
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In fact, I think it's just one step away, but it's also far away.
It's easy to like someone, but it's hard to love someone.
Like someone and hope that he is always there for you when you need him; To love someone and to want to be there for him when he needs ...
To like someone is not necessarily to love him; But the premise of loving someone is that you must like him.
It's easy to turn like into love, but it's hard to say like after you've loved.
Because like is forgiving; Love, on the other hand, is selfish.
Like is a relaxed and indifferent state of mind. But love is too heavy.
Once love is spoken, it becomes a vow, a promise.
Hold the hand of the son, grow old with it", how many ups and downs should be contained in just eight words!
When you stand in front of someone you love, your heart beats faster;
But when you stand in front of someone you like, you only feel happy;
When you make eye contact with the person you love, you will be shy;
But when you make eye contact with someone you like, you will only smile;
When you have a conversation with someone you love, you find it difficult to speak;
When the person you love cries, you will cry with her;
But when the person you like cries, you will skillfully comfort her;
When you don't want to love someone. Close your eyes and hold back your tears.
But when you don't want to like someone anymore. You just need to cover your ears.
In the same theme, someone also replied: "Like is a faint love, and love is a deep like." ”
But love is different.
Love. You can only love one.
And to love.
Love is a seesaw, and two people must be together to enjoy sweetness and happiness.
Like a person, you will be happy when you are together.
If you love someone, when you are together, you will be inexplicably lost.
Like someone, you don't think about your future.
Love someone, and you always look forward to tomorrow together.
Like someone, it's always fun when you're together.
Love someone, and you will often shed tears.
Like someone, when you haven't seen each other for a long time, you will suddenly think of her.
Love someone, when you haven't seen each other for a long time, you will think of her every day.
Like someone, when you think of her, you will smile slightly.
Love someone, when you think of her, you will be in a daze with the sky.
Like someone, you will think that she has a child, and you will definitely love it.
Love someone, and one day, you suddenly wonder: what will our children be like in the future.
To like someone is to want everyone to be happy.
Loving someone hopes that she will be happier.
Like someone, you have to just today.
To love someone, what you expect is forever.
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Yes, love is a romantic love between the two lovers. Reality, on the other hand, is made up of a myriad of brutal facts.
This love is gone, there will be another love, but you can't help but survive in a reality.
True love exists, she goes out to work, it will forget you is impossible, if she will not love you as much as before, it is very likely, of course, if your love can stand the test of a separation, then, I think that is true love. Because true love is great and has to withstand ups and downs. Also, you don't have to be so annoyed, if you get a satisfactory result from this test, I think you will feel very happy, and if you don't get a satisfactory result, you should find your own happiness at one time. >>>More
Love is the most precious thing in life, money is nothing, as long as you love him, he also loves you, you will work hard for your own future. When the time comes, you will have what you want, but if you choose money or someone you don't love, it will be a pain for both of you, or even more. Don't take money too seriously, the most beautiful thing in the world is love, he can't exchange anything for it, only with sincerity, can you get the love that really belongs to you.
Because love is the spiritual pillar, and money is the material foundation. Because of life and reality, love will slowly change color and become pale and powerless under the ravages of life. But believe in yourself, don't expect too much, learn to give up some, become realistic, everything, with the passage of time, will be ......indifferentIn the face of reality, love without bread has a shelf life. >>>More
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I think that since it is true love, it must be detached from reality, and if whoever can give you bread you will marry, then is it necessary to fall in love? Can a marriage without love be happy? No, only two people who love each other can get married and be happy, I don't think you should be too worldly, otherwise, even if your material life is very full and surplus in the future, and your spiritual life will be very tired.