Subconsciously, I feel that love is not important and does not believe that love can last long

Hello.. I think this should not be your subconscious true thoughts, you can say that you don't believe in love or anything, it means that you can realize it, it exists in your consciousness and not subconsciously.

You say that you think that men are unreliable, is it because some people have hurt you or are hurting you, and the relationship cannot last long, which means that you have worked hard to maintain the relationship but ultimately failed, and you feel that love is not important, what do you say in order to protect yourself? If it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter if you have it or not, and it can't hurt you anymore, can it? This is a good indication that in your subconscious ...

Love is not unimportant, on the contrary, it has a great impact on you, you are not like what you say, do not believe, but desire, hope to have a long-term relationship? Is it because in reality, you don't get enough warmth and support?

You're just looking at some of the people in the present with the experience of past failures.

If there is such an underlying state of mind, it must be removed, because if you are so aware, the things you are worried about will come true sooner or later.

Like me, but I'm a man, and I think women are even more unreliable, and the relationship doesn't last long, it's just that the freshness is gone. It's actually pretty good. At least happier than those who love all day long dead and alive, because I'm never moved, never hurt.

It's because you're not confident in yourself, but it's easy to believe in a love As long as you have the confidence to believe in a love, you will be happy

I suggest you read Freud's book, um.

There is love for a long time, but it's a pity that you haven't touched it, believe in yourself, I believe you will have it.

You may have had a setback. As long as you work hard and have a certain financial ability, it doesn't matter if you get married or not. The most important thing is to be happy.

Love is just a noun, and what makes it meaningful and valuable is artificial.

When I'm older, I don't feel that way.

You're just feeling, and you'll know when you really have your own love.

It turns out that this is indeed the case. But we still expect that

I believe.

I believe in love, and I believe in myself.

I used to have someone ruined the front half of my body, and now I only sigh when I think about it. Reality is reality, some people should become memories in the end, after all, they can only become memories, even if you really love him, a few years later, in the face of this memory, you still only have a sigh. It's been almost ten years, I can't say I still love her, but I never regret that I ruined my future because I loved her when I was young, and I have my own family now, and it's business as usual, but if you come and ask me if I really loved her back then, I'll tell you for sure, yes, if you ask me if I still love her, I'll say maybe.

Love is only spiritual, and if I am married, it does not mean that I will no longer love someone in the past, and I still love someone in the past, it does not mean that I am unfaithful to my current family, in fact, I love my current wife deeply. Who is a bad person, there are no bad people, only inappropriate people, human nature is selfish, even the person who loves you deeply cannot completely consider you in all aspects, there are factors in all aspects, all because of reality, cruel reality. Whether you want love is not up to you, when you really fall in love with someone, it really doesn't need to ask yourself at all, whether you need it or not, you will love that person like crazy, but you have to know that any feelings will gradually fade, so after you get married, there is no longer only love, in the face of many factors in reality, there are also human instincts, the feelings between husband and wife will evolve into the love of husband and wife, what is the love of husband and wife, it is difficult to explain, this kind of thing, I can't say it, and I can't say it well, I guess it can only be understood after you get married, especially after you have children, it feels subtle.

So I advise you not to ask for trouble, a little thing to assert that you don't believe in love, whether you believe it or not, you can't say it yourself, maybe one day you will fall in love with someone again, then you will feel that love is by your side, don't say that you won't fall in love with anyone in the future, that's lying to yourself, you ask yourself carefully, maybe you can't ask any answer, only on that day you will know. I was only in my early 20s, cherish it, when I crossed the age of 30, I found that the most worthwhile thing before I was 30 years old was to dare to love and hate, and I was willing to gamble and lose without regrets. Now that I think about it, the most regrettable thing is that at that time, many things I asserted in one sentence, and I didn't cherish what I should cherish, and those things were the things I regretted the most.

After reading it, I would like to tell you some outsider's opinion. If you look closely, you will understand something.

First of all, the problem between the two of you is because of the long distance, you are suffering from a long distance relationship, he is a man who promises you to come to your city, and he is under a lot of pressure. Later, because he couldn't resist reality, his heart was on the verge of collapse, so you don't have to doubt his feelings for you at that time, he really loves you.

People can't test their feelings to live, vigorous love is not happy, real happiness is plain and bland, and looks together.

When the environment you live in, the environment in which you work, and the outlook on life and values are set, you will be happy when you meet someone who is in tune with you.

That's why true happiness is about meeting the right person at the right time.

The two of you may be suitable, but you didn't meet at the right time, so you shouldn't question that there is no real love in this world.

Cherish her so much for you! What about you. What do you have!

When you find someone else and think of him again, you will regret it.

Only know the woman who asks for it.

You made him feel worthless, what a big deal.

When he is working hard, you don't believe in love no matter how old you are, and blindly put pressure on him, pressure. but you want him to be good to your son.

Again, what kind of thing are you! Do you have anything good to do with him, and what do you do for him?

Long laugh? Laugh at your mother!

And also! Lao Tzu is not anonymous! Just scold you stupid!

Falling in love is a feeling, and when this feeling is no longer there, I am still forcing myself, which is called responsibility! Breaking up is a kind of courage! When this courage is no longer there, I am still encouraging myself, this is called tragedy! -

A life is incomplete without experiencing love, and love is not profound without experiencing pain. Love enriches life, and pain sublimates love.

That's what suits your situation.

Oh, love! It's so hard for you to be swollen!

I don't believe in love, in fact, because the other party can't give you a certain feeling and can't give you a sense of security. You're afraid that if you accept it, you'll be hurt again. I don't believe in love, it's a kind of subconscious self-protection...

Hey, since ancient times, there has been a lot of love and empty hatred, and this hatred is endless.

The road is long, and the love begins to be sweet and dull, and life after marriage is dull with a little surprise.

Look at the opening point, people have a long way to go....

Family reasons play a very important reason, since you were a child, the family gives you the impression that your parents quarreled, which made you reject the family when you were a child, I believe that you don't believe in love when you grow up, and you reject love, you will definitely feel inexplicable, why do you feel this way, it is because the family gave you the feeling of disharmony when you were a child, resulting in you now growing up subconsciously still rejecting love, subconscious things are like a film, restricting your heart in disguise, so that you don't believe in love, And this kind of restriction is still a restriction that you don't know the reason, you can feel that layer of things that can't be described in words, or try to let go of the jealousy in your heart, try it, the family is not all like you saw your parents when you were a child, there are also harmonious, don't be discouraged, come on (

After reading it, I was relieved that the landlord had not adopted it; In fact, your problem is very simple, you didn't meet the right person at the right time; Your him may be waiting for you somewhere in the future.

You lack someone who can impress you.

Because I met my needs.

Is this the most satisfying for yourself?

She has been patiently guarding and paying, and she will always be moved.

It's called speaking with action.

It's not that I don't believe it, but I don't have feelings for you, IMHO,

1 All are not necessarily, green vegetables and radishes have their own love, love is not marriage, there may be people who like your type, but they have the ability and good conditions are created by themselves, and it is also necessary.

No, don't have so many distractions in love, as long as you meet someone you like, just chase it bravely, and at the same time improve yourself in your career and ability, and strive to create a better material foundation.

Not necessarily, everyone has the right to fall in love, it has nothing to do with whether the family conditions are good or not, people who like you will not care about your family, love is free, don't care about those things.

If you really don't want to talk about it, you won't be upset, and if a crush is to be terminated, as long as you don't think about it, it's over, and you don't need to break up or something like that. Now the question is whether you want to talk about it or not, you are afraid of being hurt and afraid of this and that, the truth is that no one can escape the love that has happened, your love for people has already begun, and now it is nothing more than not wanting to face it - but you still have to face it in the end.

Why.

It's in nature to love people.

It's no wonder that you don't bother against it.

The key to the problem is to find out why you don't believe in love, and you don't want to fall in love.

It's a very contradictory question, if you really don't believe in love and don't want to love, then tell yourself with your own truth, because you don't believe in love from the bottom of your heart, you always have a reason to tell yourself to forget him, right?

I didn't believe in love in my freshman year?! What a beautiful thing it should be to be in love at your age. You may have some psychological blockages, but it's okay, it'll be fine as soon as the time passes.

Besides, do people know who you are? Also, college life can be very beautiful. Have fun

If you love him, then you should be bold to love, not avoid him, if you fail, it's okay, at least your choice is right.

Don't want to fall in love, then how can you fall in love with him? This shows that you subconsciously want to fall in love, don't make excuses for yourself, if you want to don't, don't. Hurry up and confess, if you don't agree, you say don't want to fall in love.

It couldn't be simpler, it depends on whether you have the courage to run to the boy and shout: "You will get away from me in the future, I don't want to see you!! The balance of the world has fallen

If you forget about him, you can try to focus on studying, put your mind on studying, go out with your friends in the dormitory to climb the mountain, participate in activities, and forget it as time passes.

Deliberately avoiding it is giving yourself psychological hints, be calm, liking someone and loving someone are two different things.

There's nothing to say about the crush, only use time to dilute everything, I understand that you don't want to fall in love, I've tried in a situation like yours, but I really can't control myself, and after a while, I forgot about that person,. You don't have to avoid him, be generous, tell yourself in your heart that he is just a classmate, a stranger, and then find his shortcomings, or confess directly, whether he accepts it or not, maybe if you confess that your liking for him will fade and you can't mention liking.

Say it, so that you don't have regrets later. Because you're still studying, it's best not to fall in love, and if you do, you have to be measured and don't give too much, because no one can say what will happen in the future.

Can't hide, can't forget, then why hide, you transfer schools, you can't see him, but you still can't forget him, so have a square mentality, don't deliberately do anything, see him bravely say hello to him, everything is fate.

There are some things that I would rather regret if I did something wrong than miss it. There are always things to experience in life so that there will be no shocks, take advantage of your youth, go with your heart once, otherwise in the face of feelings in the future, you will find that there will be more and more concerns.

If you don't believe in love, how can you be moved? You're just afraid of getting hurt and don't want to admit it, but it's nothing, don't you think it's boring not to fall in love in college?

You like him so much, this is your love, you yourself are doing so well, what reason is there not to believe in love, go with your heart.

Love is very sacred, if you like him, you should take the initiative to say to him, so that the other party may be less likely to refuse, and be satisfied with the praise.

Just keep your mind right and don't care.

I would like to send you a word: a pure thought, lotus flowers bloom everywhere. Emotions are very complex issues, and you have to deal with them slowly.