Boyfriend or Mom and Dad, which one should I choose?

Some problems are not multiple-choice questions, and they cannot be solved by choosing A and B.

Because this is a multiple-choice question. You said it, don't be sad because you love your parents, and don't give up on this boy because you like this boy. Then don't give up.

Nothing is absolute, when your parents object to your relationship with that boy, they don't know the boy yet, the reason why you like him is because you know him, you know more about him than your parents, why bother so cowardly prevarication, I think it's better for your parents to understand his strengths than prevarication, because your parents blindly see his shortcomings and don't understand his advantages.

What you can't let go, don't let go reluctantly, maybe it's your happiness, you have to grasp it well. Things are man-made, people are alive, thoughts can be changed, and you need to work hard. Because your parents want you to be happy, too.

This problem is estimated that many people will encounter, in fact, parents also want you to live a better life in the future, they are very realistic, you have not yet been exposed to the society's attitude towards love is also very idealistic, I think you can not talk about marriage after all, just graduated, first put the work of 2 people in the future and the family Zhang said. Education does not mean ability, if he is very good, even if the education is not high, he will be able to make a great difference, now this social ability is more important than academic qualifications! I hope you are happy, and I hope your whole family is happy!!

I think this problem all depends on your performance, after all, he is the person who wants to live with you for a lifetime, if you really care so much about this relationship, you should put aside these distractions, what educational gaps, family conditions gaps, don't even think about it, these are not problems, if the two sides really love each other, glory and wealth are a lifetime, coarse tea and light rice are also a lifetime, the important thing is who lives this life with you, if you can't put aside the vanity, then it's better to take advantage of the short, and then it will only hurt each other, I recommend you to watch " "Who Calls the Shots of My Youth" hopes that you can find what you really want in your heart.

Summary. If the single round is important, it must be the mother who is important.

Which one is more important, boyfriend or mom.

If the single round is important, it must be the mother who is important.

If your boyfriend is gone, you can change it. But mom has only one.

But it also depends on what is going on and who is right or wrong.

Because he just graduated from college, and then he came directly to me The two of us have been together, but there is no good job in this city, he is also more upset, now my mother has found me a good job and wants me to go to her, so that we can both work hard, he just changed cities, but he is very uncomfortable when he is separated from me, and he has been crying, I am thinking now that I am very happy if we continue to be in one place, but we will not have good work progress, but he is very uncomfortable if I don't give a piece, I am afraid that he will not be able to think about itI don't know what to do anymore.

He gave me a lot, alas.

That's it for now. Let him go to your city for development later.

He loves you so much, for sure.

Falling in love is just that, working together. Fight together.

Summary. Hello, happy with your question. At this time, we can chat with our boyfriend and mother first, and when we are chatting, we are talking:

By the way, my dad said to start with your dad's opinion. In fact, sometimes we don't have to say it directly, and when his mother mentions this topic, it's okay to say it with the family's opinion.

How to tell your boyfriend's mom what his dad thinks of her boyfriend's family.

Hello, happy with your question. At this time, we can chat with our boyfriend and mom first, and when we are chatting happily, we are saying: By the way, my dad said to start with this, tell your dad what he thinks.

In fact, sometimes we don't have to say it directly, and when his mother mentions this topic, it's okay to say it with the family's opinion.

What did you decipher? That's what I said when I asked.

I'm sorry, but can you elaborate a little bit about whether your dad is happy or dissatisfied with their family's opinion.

That is to say, we women went to the man's house, and we didn't say anything, and we didn't have a greeting gift, because it was the first time we met, which made my dad feel that their family didn't value our family very much. In addition, my father didn't like the family of the two brothers very much, and their family only has one house now, so the parents and the family are not very satisfied, and think that their daughter has a better choice.

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Wait a minute, I'm sorry to organize the language.

Actually, I think if I've decided that I want to be with my boyfriend. Let's not tell his mom directly what our family thinks. At this time, we can ask our boyfriend ourselves first.

The first time they met, there was no meeting gift, was it because his mother had any ideas, or was it the custom of his side.

Don't take the initiative to talk to his mother when you talk to him, if his mother takes the initiative to ask about your parents' attitude, we can reply that my father is more fond of me, so I am very concerned about whether I will be wronged or something in the future, I am afraid that you will not like me very much.

That is to say, we women went to the man's house, and we didn't say anything, and we didn't have a greeting gift, because it was the first time we met, which made my dad feel that their family didn't value our family very much. In addition, my father didn't like the family of the two brothers very much, and their family only has one house now, so the parents and the family are not very satisfied, and think that their daughter has a better choice.

Well, but sometimes we can't say it explicitly. The first time we went to their house, they didn't have a greeting gift, we can first ask our boyfriend if his mother is dissatisfied, and directly tell my boyfriend that his father is very dissatisfied. Let him go and talk to his mom about coordinating.

When we were chatting with his mother, we could be a little tougher and say that our family wanted us to find a family where we could live independently and avoid conflicts.

Summary. Good evening, dear, I'm honored to answer for you, tell your boyfriend's mother your father's opinion of your boyfriend, you can just say it euphemistically, generally speaking, mainly say your father's good side of the opinion, the bad side of the time for the time being, so as not to boyfriend mother careless, if the boyfriend's mother likes herself, then you can communicate more smoothly.

How to tell your boyfriend's mom what his dad thinks of her boyfriend's family.

Hello. Good evening, dear, I'm honored to answer for you, tell your boyfriend's mother your father's opinion of your boyfriend, you can just say it euphemistically, generally speaking, mainly say your father's good side of the opinion, the bad side of the time for the time being, so as not to boyfriend mother careless, if the boyfriend's mother likes herself, then you can communicate more smoothly.

My situation is like this, that is, I get along with my object, but I went back to my hometown, and the man has been chatting with him, and his parents have often chatted with me, but they have not called my parents, and my father thinks that their family does not respect us, so he disagrees with our affairs.

You can discuss and communicate with your boyfriend about this matter, and let him give a ** to his parents.

You encourage him more, maybe he is a little shy and afraid of your parents.

Dear, do you have any questions, you can continue to talk.

Summary. Dad's opinion of your boyfriend's home mostly depends on your position and attitude, and you can boast about the merits of your boyfriend's home in front of Dad. It is recommended to communicate with your boyfriend first, first tell your boyfriend about his father's impression of his family, and let the boyfriend convey it to his mother, so that it can be more conflicting and embarrassing.

Dad's opinion of your boyfriend's home mostly depends on your position and attitude, and you can boast about the merits of your boyfriend's home in front of Dad. It is recommended to communicate with your boyfriend first, first tell your boyfriend about his father's impression of his family, and let the boyfriend convey it to his mother, so that it can be more conflicting and embarrassing.

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Okay, my boyfriend also said to apologize.

Is that good?

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It's hard to change your father's opinion of your boyfriend's family, and your boyfriend also apologized to show that he also cares about you and your family.

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It's really hard to change, because it's the first time we met, it's such a bad impression.

The impression of meeting for the first time is important, but it is not immutable. You can boast to your dad about the strengths of your boyfriend and his family, and let them have a few more contacts, and maybe your dad's opinion will change.

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But my dad didn't like that they had two sons, and then only one house, and in general there was nothing to be satisfied with.

They have two sons in the family, this can't be changed, there is only one house, this also means that the parents' ability is limited, and they can only give me such conditions, then it depends on your boyfriend's ability, if he is very hard-working, you can communicate with your father and praise his own advantages, you can work hard together to have a better future. If he is more content with the status quo and has nothing to do, then you should choose carefully, Dad is a person who has come over and loves you, his opinion on your boyfriend's family is out of concern about your future, and you have to listen to Dad's opinion and understand Dad's concern and love for you.

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The other person's parents know that before going to your boyfriend's house for dinner, let your boyfriend's parents know that you are in a relationship with their child. Preferably, your partner can also give assists, praise you in front of his parents, and describe you as a good and motivated young man.

Understand the preferences of the other parent's through your boyfriend Understand the preferences, work, personality, etc. of the other parent's through your boyfriend, so that you will not be embarrassed when you meet officially.

Intimate gifts The first gift does not need to be too expensive, but it should be intimate and thoughtful, and let the other party's parents see their intentions.

Meeting etiquette In the face of boyfriend's parents, they should be generous and decent, polite, and not humble or arrogant boyfriend parents.

Dress appropriately. People rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles, there are no ugly women, only lazy women, go to the man to see his parents must dress up well, of course, you must not wear heavy makeup, dress too revealing, this will make you appear more frivolous, and you can't wear too dirty, which will make people look down on you, try to keep a ladylike style!

2. Bring some gifts. Gifts don't have to be too expensive, because with too expensive gifts, some parents will think that you are a loser and not suitable for life, or think that you are upside down to please, but not good, bring some fruit nutrition and the like, you can also prepare according to their hobbies, can show your heart.

3. Be generous. Don't look too shy and restrained at the dinner table, squirming and squeaking, which will make people think that you are a good bully. Be calm and confident, and what others ask, just say it.

You ask outsiders about this, who will know, it's better to ask your boyfriend directly, don't complicate things.