I don t know if I love her or not, but she proposes to get engaged

I'm also a girl, and if I put myself in his shoes, I'll be shaken and fall in love with another person? I won't, I know what a good feeling is, what a liking is, what love is, it's too selfish to take a momentary good feeling as a liking, and you will only get nothing, landlord? How much do you love, try to forget, in the end, you will only be hurt, I hate the feeling of heartache I hate.

It feels like you don't have to work harder, you can see that you are shaking, even if you are like this, then you don't have to insist anymore, after all, you have worked hard, it is enough Try to forget, I support you

True happiness is earned by yourself, others can take away the charity at any time, the castle that a woman builds when she loves you, and when she doesn't love you, it is a ruin pressed on you, do you know it.

Choose the right one, don't be afraid of choosing the wrong one, you are not big, as long as you know how to be self-reliant, this kind of mistake is insignificant Looking at China, there are at least 100 million young women of school-age Don't let yourself suffer anymore

I'm tired, I wish you happiness!

She is not worth giving up anything like this!!

It's normal for you to break up and feel very uncomfortable seeing her with another guy. People are like this, once yours but now not yours, you feel as if your things have been robbed by someone else. Try to relax and get in touch with other girls, and you'll find that she's just that!!

She broke up with that person and committed suicide, which shows that she loves that person more than you!! Why are you still with her? You yourself now have a stable job, and the conditions are good, so there are many good girls waiting for you!!

People, sometimes you have to be hard-hearted, you are too soft-hearted!! Be sure to refuse her! In this way, you can start a new life, and I believe that your life will be full of sunshine in the future!!

If you choose someone you are not sure that you love her, and you feel that she does not love you, don't you think this is the beginning of a tragedy?

At this time, you need to think calmly and ask yourself rationally, marriage is really not child's play.

Brother, I am a living example If you agree, you will definitely regret it Believe me The most important thing is not that there is a problem with your material foundation, but the real problem is your feelings, the bondage of feelings is the most tiring thing in a person's life, you think about it yourself, don't be blind, be cautious, don't make a mistake and hate it for eternity.

I don't think it's a very reliable feeling.

First of all, she has a bit of a character problem, belongs to the kind that has not yet formed a more mature emotional concept, otherwise she will not give up her family, and she will ask you to give up your studies, which is irresponsible for both parties.

Secondly, there is no reason for your feelings to at least say the past, which even feels strange to yourself, you have no way of knowing why you want to be with her, let alone why she is looking for you after the breakup, maybe looking for temporary emotional support, maybe you are impulsively looking for a catharsis If you just communicate with him better, then just stand in the position of a friend and comfort her, there is no need to obediently comply with her various requests, this is irrational, even if you are really together in the future, it may not bring you happiness.

Let go, enough youth has been delayed. Hate is easier to let go than love.

It should be a shallow love, brother, I advise you, never delay your studies and career because of love, especially if you are not yet an adult, when you mature, you will understand a lot!

She will do that because of the affection of love, find an opportunity to talk about it, and it will be okay to communicate.

Alas, so you have to be careful about marriage.

Take a look at the following aspects:

1. He will contact you often.

He may not say goodnight to you every night before bedtime, but he will certainly keep in touch with you relatively frequently, and even if he is busy during the day, he can't help but take the time to text you at lunch. If he often hasn't heard from him for days on end, you two probably don't have a chance.

2. He will always care about you.

If a guy likes you, he will want to know every aspect of you and don't want to miss any detail of your life. Therefore, he will take the initiative to care about whether you are doing well today and will remember to cheer you on before you take the test or interview.

3. He will be interested in what you like.

In order to enter your world, he will accompany you to the concert where he is not very cold, and he will accompany you to visit the dull art museum, because he likes to see the smile on your face and feel your happiness at the same time.

4. He will introduce you to friends and family.

A guy who likes you will find a way to come into your world, and at the same time want you to come into his life. He will take the initiative to introduce family and friends to you, and will often take you to group activities, hoping that you will fit into their circle.

5. He will respect your time.

He will ask you in advance when you are free to bury you, and he will show up at the meeting place on time on the day of the appointment, which is a sign of respect for you. If he always thinks of you at the last minute, you probably think he doesn't pay enough attention to you.

Landlord, the most common thing that husband and wife can always walk together is to rely on the bond that the two eventually become relatives, and if she says that, she may not have feelings for you. Unless you can encounter something big, you can be shocked and moved by her. If you live a normal life, remember:

Plain is true. Relying on each other's kinship relationship alone can also allow you to rely on each other. People's emotional outlook will gradually fade away.

True love is: you just have to see her happy and happy, you are very satisfied, not with her.

Wanting to be with her is just a selfish love, and you belong to this kind of selfish love for her, because even though you know that she doesn't like you, you still insist on being with her.

She just thinks that you are a trustworthy person, so she is with you, and after a long time, it will become family!

If you want a love of your own, you might as well give up on her, who knows if there will be a girl in the back who you like her and she likes you!

In married life, it is also a pity not to be liked by your lover!

Maybe she has something unspeakable, or maybe she wants you to find something better. If what she says is true, then give it up. If a marriage has no feelings and feelings, it is doomed to fail. Even if you get married, you won't go down together.

That's how I came over, thinking back to the time before I got married, I should still choose to love my own love, buddy is a little selfish for my love.

Fruit friends ask for help.

I've known my partner on a blind date for four months, and the recent situation is that I don't pay attention to her when we don't see each other, and it feels normal when we meet.

I just like the feeling of falling in love with my girlfriend, I was quite happy when I talked about getting married at the beginning, and we got engaged in a month, but now I can't be happy at all when I think about getting engaged and getting married, I feel anxious, and I don't want to talk to her anymore.

Why? Ask the gods to tell me.

Fruit friends support. 1. This is the anxiety that precedes a major change in normality. You want to get married, but you are afraid of the changes and uncertainties after marriage. If you choose to terminate your contract now, you will be just as unhappy and anxious.

If you choose to be patient, the part of your resistance to marriage will also haunt you, both before and after marriage. Only when the obstacles in your heart are removed, will you be truly safe.

2. I don't think you really love her, maybe it's just that you feel more comfortable when you're with her, and changing someone may also make you feel more comfortable. Do you have the same standards in mind as she does in reality? What is there about her that you can't live without?

Are there any complementary aspects of your together? Ask yourself more and you'll see clearly.

3. You are afraid of changing your current free and easy lifestyle, you are afraid of taking on more responsibilities, you are afraid that your relationship will give you too many shackles, you are afraid of too many things, but you don't have the courage to get along with your girlfriend in a new way.

4. Do the right thing at the right time, and suddenly wake up when you are ready to do it, and forget to see if you are the right person. A lyric comes to mind: "We are all in a hurry, forgetting the way out." ”

5. Don't be in a hurry to get married, marriage is a lifelong thing, get along well for a while, see if it is suitable for each other, and then make plans, a hasty marriage will bury hidden dangers for future life!

Fruit end. **Internet.

Some people say that everyone has to go through this stage, and as long as they get through it, their future married life will be bright. I don't think that's the case, feelings should follow your heart.

In the past, Xu Wei and I were colleagues in the company, and he fell in love with me at first sight and pursued me passionately. He is very attentive to me, picking me up and dropping me off and from work every day, ** text messages constantly. Originally, I didn't want to settle down so quickly, but our parents found out about our relationship, and they began to urge us to get married as soon as possible.

So, under the witness of our two families, we held an engagement ceremony and said that we would hold the wedding this year.

But in the past few months, I have clearly felt that our relationship has encountered obstacles, and we often quarrel over small things. For example, what color to use for curtains in a new house; what style to choose for the closet in the kitchen; What brand to buy for air conditioner and so on. I found that I was very different from his orientation, I was not satisfied with what he liked, and I was not satisfied with what he was satisfied with.

In order to distract myself, I started playing online games, transferring all the frustrations that I couldn't vent in reality to the games. I met Raleigh in the game, he always helped me in the game, and we added each other's QQ and became friends.

Raleigh and I became friends who talked about everything, and I told him all my grievances and complaints, and he was like a confidant brother to solve my problems. Under his persuasion, I gradually let go of the worries in my heart and reconciled with Xu Wei again.

I thought that after these things, Xu Wei and I would get married smoothly. I don't know when Xu Wei was hot and cold to me, I didn't seem to be so anxious anymore, and I seemed to be used to this state. I was hurt in reality and sought Raleigh's comfort online.

I knew that this was wrong, and while I was entangled with Xu Wei, I was looking forward to Raleigh's overtures. Compared with Xu Wei, Raleigh's family background is not good, but he has a gentle temper and a calm personality; The job is precarious, but he has a firm goal and knows what to do and when. Maybe Raleigh is the one I should love and the best person for me.

So before I thought it through, I decided not to get married in a hurry. Regardless of my family's incomprehension, I launched a wedding date with Xu Wei, and my feelings still have to be decided by myself.