It s hard to forget a girl s first love

As long as you grind your heart harder, you can forget.

Personally, I think it is more difficult for boys to forget their first love, don't look at the boys' usual grin, and they always know how to cherish it more when they lose their feelings.

Women and men who miss their first love more, I believe that many people have first love, first love is very beautiful, and this relationship may always be remembered in their hearts, no matter what the final result is, people who have experienced first love, will remember the first love time, in my personal opinion, whether it is a man or a woman, in fact, it is generally difficult to forget the first love in the heart, because the first love is very sacred, inviolable, especially men, don't look at the feeling of not caring about anything, in fact, the heart is still more delicate, especially for feelings can not be ignored.

When most men find their first girlfriend, they are relatively young, such as when they go to college, they will talk about their first love, that is, their first love, at that time, everyone's feelings are hazy, because they really love each other and are willing to combine with each other, and they are also quite uncomfortable after breaking up, of course, there are many reasons for breaking up, and most of them are because of practical reasons.

Under normal circumstances, men will miss each other more, even after marriage, they may sometimes think of each other, because what they can't get is always in turmoil, and this sentence describes men better.

In fact, in a relationship, it is not said that boys are more difficult to forget or girls are more difficult to forget. It should be said that people who are more emotional and give more people will find it more difficult for them to forget this relationship.

First of all, the attitude towards a relationship depends on a person's personality. Some people have a big personality, and some people have a more delicate personality, so he pays great attention to this relationship, and then it will be difficult to get out of it in the subsequent process.

The second also depends on the amount of time that the two people in the relationship spend together. If two people are together for more than a long time, it will be difficult to get out of this relationship, especially after a few years of unforgettable love, then this relationship will not be forgotten.

Third, it depends on who gives more in the relationship. Because it is difficult to achieve a complete balance in the relationship, generally speaking, there will be a party who pays more feelings or experiences to take care of the other party's mood and grow up with the other party.

In the end, it also depends on the factors of the two people's families, or who gets in touch with the next relationship faster. If the family can relieve the pressure of such a relationship, or if he quickly finds a substitute for the next relationship and enters the next relationship, then it can also promote him to come out of the previous relationship.

Therefore, whether you can get out of the previous relationship depends on the surrounding environment and your attitude towards this relationship. So these combined factors depend on whether you can come out of it, or if you can get a lot of pain.

Actually, I think this question. It varies from person to person. Whether it is a boy or a girl, according to his own situation, he will have different ideas. Generally, women are more memorable for their first love, because women are more sensitive and emotional.

The answer is definitely that boys are more memorable in their first love.

In fact, due to the difference in the way of thinking between men and women, it leads to: men are amorous and infatuated; Women are infatuated and heartless.

Most of our general impression of men is that they are easily distracted. It seems that it is easy for them to see one and love the other, especially for the opposite sex with good looks and figures. The boy falls into empathy.

That's because boys are in an immature stage, and their thinking is easily disturbed by other factors. So when you see something you like, you will be inclined.

That's why we often hear men say: Although I have been in a lot of relationships, I am wholeheartedly in every relationship.

In fact, for first love, it is the first time that a man comes into contact with ignorant feelings. This is a relatively large touch on men's emotional experience.

So men are amorous and infatuated.

Women's way of thinking is more emotional. I care more about how I feel at the moment.

When a female friend is in love, she may enjoy the happiness of the time very much, and there will be an extremely painful stage ......... after the breakup

But after a long time, if a woman has a new boyfriend or starts a family, they care about what they are experiencing now, and they don't think about their first love or the situation at that time. There will even be some women who will be disgusted and reject their first love.

From this point of view, women are actually more inclined to be infatuated and ruthless. When you love, you love vigorously, and when you don't love, you let go completely. (Actually, I appreciate the free and easy love of female friends, unlike boys who pretend to be calm and deceive themselves.) ）

Therefore, men are amorous and infatuated, and women are infatuated and heartless.

For first love, it is often more difficult for boys to forget.

Kiss hello boy.

Boys should be more forgettable, first love in the hearts of boys can be described as sacrosanct, maybe things have changed, the heart is still thinking about the first love of her, speaking of first love, many men have tears in their eyes, first love in their hearts is never get the pain, speaking of forgetting, then those women make men unforgettable? What do those women look like?

In the modern world, both men and women are disgusted by such abusive behavior, and on the contrary, everyone yearns for loyal love. Women who are very serious about love, who swear to defend the woman they love, even if they break up in the future, they will still want to find such a woman as their lifelong partner.

Lolita-style women should be said that there is no one who will not like it, they are like a kind of holy light appreciated by both the elegant and the vulgar, quietly taking away men's pride and trampling on men's self-esteem to worthless. Despite this, modern men's pursuit of such women has risen to an extreme.

Maybe many people's first love happened in their teenage years, and the woman at that time should be the cutest. A savage woman may not be liked by many people, then you are wrong On the contrary, such a girl can arouse the boy's desire to conquer more, so such a girl boy also likes it very much.

No matter what our attitude is towards the first love, but at least there is one thing we understand very well, that is, the first love brings us a lot of beauty and reluctance, the beauty is that the pure emotions at that time are not mixed with any material, and we are reluctant to be young and frivolous and do not know how to cherish, and we can only lament for the first love.

As the saying goes, "The hardest thing for a man to forget is his last woman, and the hardest thing for a woman to forget is often her first man." ”

There are many such examples in real life, and it is often men who like the new and hate the old, and most of them are women. It's not that men have bad character, but it's related to men's adventurous nature.

Women are more cautious and strict in the choice of spouses and the examination room, and once they are in love, they will be deeper and more unforgettable.

In contrast, men's physiology allows men to spread their genes widely without having to be focused on one.

As the saying goes, life is only as it first sees, and I believe that many people like this sentence very much. I think it's harder for girls to forget their first love, after all, most girls are more emotional, and many things are difficult to let go, and first love is very beautiful. First, there are too many firsts in first love.

In first love, there is the first time to hold hands and hug, there is the first jerky kiss, and even the first intimate contact. Many times women remember their first love, in fact, because they remember the young and simple self, and remember every first time they have delivered. Even though the heart has forgotten, the feeling of the body is still remembered.

No one can forget the shyness when he handed over his hand to the boy for the first time, the feeling of being overpowered, and the shyness of the deer bumping, which is different from the feeling of later generations and even his own husband.

Second, there is a beautiful simplicity in the first love.

Love in marriage is always accompanied by trivial things like firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, which has nothing to do with whether the husband loves or does not love his wife. From quarreling enemies to glue-like partners, they can't escape the pots and pans in life. After getting married, the couple patted the child's back to put the baby to sleep, and then the two discussed the child's milk powder diaper preschool.

But the love of the first love is different, two people can talk, can get carried away, and can even wander the world, women can rely on the arms of lovers without scruples to be coquettish, when she has slept in a bed with the latecomer, but can not forget the simple afternoon snuggled in the arms of lovers.

Third, most of the first loves are gone.

People come and go, bustling, and I can't find a few pairs of men and women who can go all the way from their first love to the cave room. The reason is that no one can completely defeat the person who chooses to leave in love, especially when he is the first to knock on the door of the girl's heart, but he is also the first to leave. In the end, the people in the past disappeared into time, and before they had time to fulfill the vow of the mountain alliance and the sea, they turned around and had gradually drifted away, leaving only that unforgettable memory.

Fourth, most of the first loves are very handsome.

A woman may find a mediocre-looking man to marry, but a woman will not choose a very ugly person to be her first love. After all, even a little girl can't escape this law. The first love was carefully selected by the young and innocent self, who would ride colorful auspicious clouds or ride a pumpkin cart to greet his Prince Charming.

Imagine such a man who meets her various requirements, which woman will easily forget. So even if a woman has fallen in love with the man she married, and has moved from youth to maturity, she will still think of the former Prince Charming from time to time, although that person may also have a big belly and greasy. May all lovers in the world be able to marry in the end.

If girls compare with boys, it is still difficult for girls to forget their first love, because girls are generally the ones who attach great importance to feelings, so it is normal to be difficult to forget.

There is no way to compare this, because it is difficult for both men and women to forget their first love.

First love is wonderful for everyone. Memories are sometimes the most beautiful way to get out, and it can be said that everyone will have a first love, and it is difficult to forget the first love. You can keep the relationship to it, think about it when you're bored, and maybe feel the joy of it.

In everyone's heart, there will be a person who can't let go, even if you have broken up, even if this love has become a thing of the past, but his heart is always thinking about you.

In fact, the more you love someone, the more you can't let go, and if you really love, you will leave traces, and how can this person be easily removed from your heart?

How many times, he forced himself to forget you, he told himself that it was impossible for you, but he still couldn't convince himself to come out, when he saw you, he would still be very excited, and when he was idle, he would still think about you all the time, he knew that you were already deep in your heart.

In fact, if a man has truly loved you, then it is really difficult to give up, and when he can't let go of you, there will often be these manifestations, don't understand.

1. He will check your activity often.

Even if you've broken up, he'll still look through your circle of friends as usual to see what you've done lately, and want to know how you're doing, as if that's the only way he'll have peace of mind.

Maybe when he sees that you have a new life, he will feel a little lost in his heart, but what scares him more is that he doesn't know your news, so for him, being able to see your dynamics from time to time is his happiest moment.

Second, he will want to contact you.

One of the most important manifestations of not being able to let go of it must be that he can't help but want to contact you, the moment he thinks about you, the moment he learns about you, he wants to talk to you again as before, and wants to know more about you.

Each time, he opened the dialog box and wrote a lot of things to you, but when it came to sending, he still hesitated, he didn't know if such an interruption was appropriate, he didn't know if you would pay attention to him?

In fact, men and women are the same, when they love deeply, they can't quickly get out of the past relationship, even if you know clearly in your heart that it's over, but emotionally you just can't get over it.

Especially when he looks at your dialog box, he can't help but contact you, can't help but chat with you, he fantasizes that he is still the same as you used to be, but everything is different, you can't go back to the past.

If he can't let go of you, he won't be able to resist the urge to contact you, even if it's just casual talking, that's fine.

3. He will be very happy when he sees you.

When a man can't let go of a person, he can't help but check your dynamics, find a way to contact you, and be very happy when he sees you.

Maybe he will feel that he is so infatuated that he will move you one day, but he forgets that since he chose to break up, there must be irreconcilable contradictions, and it is possible to break up again if he starts over.

Now that you've broken up, let's try to let go, stop thinking about her all the time, stop being nostalgic for the past, and let each other go is the best way.