I m 17 years old, I always like to take people s things for myself, what should I do?

This is a bad problem and needs to be changed immediately. No matter how much you like other people's things, you can't take them for yourself. This is a selfish act. You have to get rid of this bad problem right away. If you make a mistake, you must correct it, and you are a good child.

You should solve this urine situation from your inner thoughts, you have to know that you don't take anything that is not your own, if you take it, you will bear certain consequences. Because you are earning money, if the other party is more serious with you, then you will be punished by the law.

You all know that you are wrong, this is not good, slowly change it, strive to be an upright person, don't do this kind of thing in the future, this will not be good for yourself in the future.

It's your own psychological problem. It may have something to do with the living habits of the environment you lived in since childhood. When you realize that this behavior is very wrong, you force yourself not to do it.

Whether you can get the approval of others or not, it is a kind of growth. Even his parents have their own outlook on life, maybe he is a very kind and family-oriented person, and he is forced to intercept the grain.

You have to look at this, well, psychologically, the doctor can rectify your position, other people's private belongings, Xing Wei.

Now that you know that you like to be greedy for cheap, you should work hard to get rid of it, first of all, you must have an ideology, and you must always warn yourself not to take things that are not your own. As long as you can hold back and not stretch out your hand, you will not have this idea to take possession, and over time you will naturally break this habit.

This habit is not good, in order to get along better, it is recommended to ask others, after all, it is someone else's thing.

Of course not, people are possessive, and those who say they have no desires and no desires are just because they are not capable enough.

If there was no possessiveness, what would this society become? Everyone has no intention of working, eating and waiting for death, how can human civilization progress! How to break through existing scientific knowledge!

Possessiveness is a decisive condition for human progress. Of course, people are different from others, and some people don't care about some material conditions, which is also a kind of character!

Most importantly, be happy with yourself!

It depends on the extent. Everyone will be a little possessive, but if you can't do what you can't get beyond your ability, then you will be very tormented by yourself. Everyone will want to possess, but they will control it rationally, because they know that they can't get it.

Is it for nothing? If so, that person is likely to have ADHD, only this kind of disease can be like this, if not for no reason, it is likely that that person likes you, if that person is the same sex as you, it is probably playing with you!

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

If you don't have this bad habit at home, you need to call it to confirm with the child, let him take the initiative to confess to Zheng Feng, and then take him back to compensate, so that he understands that other people's things can't be taken, and Ji Mao will be strictly disciplined in the future.

The teacher said that children often have the habit of taking other people's things at school, I think we can educate children when we go home, don't take other people's things, what children lack, we can be full of children, I believe that children will slowly be good and early.

Ask the child tactfully, after all, this matter may be a misunderstanding, and it may be true. Or just summarize the teacher's words and ask her to see how she reacts.

The teacher said that your child is often rotten at school and has developed a habit of taking other people's things, then you must go home and educate the child well, you can buy him whatever he likes, and achieve his satisfaction and tell him that no matter how good other people's Tuanling things are, don't take them from his children's education.

If the teacher tells the parents that their children often have the habit of taking classmates' things casually, their parents should correct the child in time, and this wrong behavior is harshly criticized by Fanqin, and let him realize that this is not right.

I think the teacher will tell you about this problem, then you should ask your child if he has behaved in this way, and then don't hurt him for anything. Just ask him, and then get an answer, if he does have a quarrel to do this kind of thing, then you should educate him about the mascot, because after all, children are relatively young, and many of his things may follow instinct and need to be educated.

1. Definition of shopping sensitive period. The shopping sensitive period refers to the child's childhood (7 to 11 years old), due to the further enhancement of independence and cognitive ability, knowing that money can buy (exchange) things, so they are happy to do it, as long as they have pocket money, they will go to the store to buy their favorite snacks or small toys. But for many children, they never think about how they earn their money, so they don't cherish it and be thrifty.

When you buy more often, you will develop a bad habit of subconsciously spending money indiscriminately. When some children have shopping needs but do not have money, they will think in a crooked way, such as stealing their favorite items or money. 2. Children still have a vague concept of money, and only know that money can be exchanged.

Although the first grade of primary school has taught the knowledge of meta angle in math class, for young children, they do not have a real concept of money. The vast majority of children only know that their parents will give them pocket money, and their grandparents or grandparents will give them pocket money. With the current family economic conditions, it is absolutely not a problem to give ten or eight yuan at a time, or even more.

It is precisely because it is too easy for children to get money, but they don't know how to cherish it, and they don't think that it is not easy for their parents to earn money, and they are limited to shouting that they know that they can buy (exchange) things if they have money. 3. Without proper education and guidance, children lack correct judgment on the consequences of stealing other people's things. In the case consultation of some primary school students stealing from classmates, I found that there is a pattern, that is, when parents find that their children are stealing other people's things, most of them are the feedback from the teachers or classmates' parents, and at this time, the children have already had the experience of stealing other people's things many times.

Although parents are very angry, and even try to correct their children's bad habits with severe punishment, in the absence of correct education and guidance, they will beat and scold, blame and punish are ineffective, because the child lacks correct judgment of the consequences of his actions. Second, in the face of children stealing other people's things, it is necessary to correctly guide children to learn to distinguish and rebuild cognition. 1. Parents should guide their children to recognize the ownership of items and distinguish yours, mine, and his.

When educating and guiding children who often steal from classmates, I usually help them distinguish the ownership of items and distinguish between yours, mine, and his. For example, I asked a second-grade boy, "Excuse me, is this beautiful eraser in my hand yours or mine?"

The child said, "It's mine." In fact, this child knew that the eraser did not belong to him, but he could not distinguish between mine and his, because from the communication with his mother, I learned that from early childhood, until the child was found to have developed the habit of stealing other people's things, the child was never taught to recognize the right of belonging to me, you and others.

2. Let children know that stealing from private is a process of moral deterioration and wrong behavior. Another example is the case of this little boy, I asked him, "Do you know that you can't just take other people's things when they don't allow them?"

Child: "If I like it, I'll take it, anyway, if he doesn't have it, his mother will buy it for him."

You can tell your child: what do you need, the pants are bought by your mother, your mother buys a new one, you like the most, and the other children have already used it by Hu Yan! We want the best!

If your child really has this habit of being found by the teacher, you should thank the teacher, but you also let the teacher bored and educate the little sister, after all, the child is still afraid of the teacher, and you must pay attention to the education of the brother when you go home, this is not a good habit.

Teacher, what should I do if my child often takes other people's things at school, and the teacher says that your child often takes other people's things at school? Or is there such a thing? Vices must be stopped.

Disturb Na let so reprieve and go home. It is necessary to educate in school, to educate in school, and to let teachers give more guidance and discipline.

When the children come home, we can tell the children that they can't just take the things of the same students in school. If you like it very much, you can tell your parents that we will buy it for you, but we must not take other people's things, and it is wrong to touch other people's things.

What should I do if the teacher says that my child often takes other people's things at school? Well, since the teacher told your child to have such a habit, then you should be a parent. It is not good to enlighten children and persuade them to educate children.

The teacher said that children often take other people's things, that is, stealing needles when they are young, and they must let him know the seriousness and cannot ignore them.

What can I do, you take care of it at home, take care of it at home, and take it subconsciously while the small board is coming, or it is not big.

Go home and educate well, but don't be too fierce in your words, today's children are very fragile and ......

I'm most afraid of this kind of person, and I can only consider myself unlucky before I meet this kind of person. Later, I learned to be obedient, and the next time they do it again, I will learn to treat others the way they do. How she usurped my things, I can learn how to take more of her things next time.

When I was in high school, I lived in a dormitory, and seven or eight of my female classmates lived in the same dormitory. Because my family lives in the county seat, it is relatively close to the school, and my aunt was very kind to me at that time, buying me everything.

I remember when I first entered the school and entered the first year of high school, my two aunts personally sent me to school. Buy this and that, then help me make my bed, hang up mosquito nets, and help me clean up.

The girls in my dormitory were very envious of me, and they all thought that my family was quite rich. Because of their preconceived notions, my things were taken up as if they weren't mine.

I remember that at that time, my aunt bought me a hairpin with a drill, and that hairpin was bought for me by my aunt in Jiujiang, more than 40 yuan. It was already very expensive for the time.

That hairpin is plaid with drills, which is particularly beautiful. I didn't use it much because I didn't have my hair for a while, and then a friend in my dorm room said to borrow it from me.

I gave it to her without saying a word. Then there is a wood, people are clamped on my head every day, I am embarrassed to ask for it, I can only assume that I don't know. The sauce hairpin became someone else's.

Later, my aunt asked me, and I was embarrassed to say, so she bought me another hairpin.

Actually, I don't really care about some ordinary things, they take it if they take it! It doesn't matter anyway, but it's a gift from my aunt, and I still mind a little bit in my heart.

Sometimes, when people ask me what to take, I will be very enthusiastic to use it for others. I asked them if they wanted it, and they said they would give it back to me. My heart is broken!

When you meet this kind of person, you have to learn to be obedient once you have been in the lime. The next time people do this, they will directly refuse her request, and euphemistically express that they also need to use it, and they can't borrow it for the time being.

Actually, I think it's important to communicate at this point. Is there definitely some friction between people, this is normal, then the key is how we can remove these frictions, and what kind of methods to use, this is a question.

There are also no people perfect, that is to say, a person will have some shortcomings more or less, but we have to tolerate the shortcomings of others more often, we can't deny a person because of some shortcomings of others, and then don't continue to associate with him, it depends on what kind of shortcomings. If it is natural for him to take your things for himself, then we have to see whether he has done too much, whether his attitude is very bad, and we must also find appropriate ways to solve the problem.

That person naturally takes your things for himself, I believe that many people can't bear this breath, and I don't think there is any need to endure it, because some people may be more timid, or less angry, so they think that he will do it like this, let him do it, no, you are harming him like this, you think there is nothing, but others will hate that person more and more, so not only for you, but also for him, you have to take care of this matter. You have to see if he does this with a heart, and some people do it unintentionally, and if so, then you can tell him that this thing is yours, not his. And you don't have to say too much else, he must be very uncomfortable in his heart now, if you don't say anything at this time, then he is grateful to you in his heart.

But if he is intentional, then you have to fight with him to take back what belongs to you, otherwise others will really think that you are really so easy to bully.