I m nervous about getting along with people I don t know well, how can I open up?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Very common problem Not a peer There are not many topics in the first place Plus your personality It's easy to cause a sense of alienation Don't care too much about these yourself When you're with people who are younger than you, you know all their topics and have experienced them If you can talk together, talk and play together Don't be afraid of naivety, as long as you can get along As for in front of people who are much older than you, just say if you're interested, if you're not interested, you don't have to mingle with them, be a little confident, say whatever you want, don't have any worries, you are yourself Don't care too much about anything else, don't worry too much about what you say, don't worry too much about what other people think.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Communication between people is essential.

    Didn't you never know each other with those classmates before?

    Why not now?

    In fact, it is very easy to communicate with people.

    Usually talk to people.

    And you think, it's actually good to talk to other people.

    People say. Rely on your parents at home.

    Go out with friends.

    For yourself. You should also open your heart to others.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I thought to myself: it could just be some of my old friends, I haven't been in touch for a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The attitude of others towards you is often a reflection of your own attitude towards others; If you have these realizations, it means that you are maturing, and you don't need others to save you, only you can save yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's already in the past, so why not forget about it.

    du, because he was not a friend because of the affairs of the world.

    DAO betrayed, you may be early now.

    It's not what it used to be.

    Now you should also know what friends you can make friends with, what friends should only be on the surface, first understand people and then there will be no fault in the relationship, don't blindly resist it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, the knot in his heart still needs to be opened by himself, and most people don't completely trust each other when they get along with each other, hehe, but.

    Is it necessary to lock yourself in because of this? My rule of life is that if I want to tell the truth, I will tell the truth, if I want to tell a lie, how comfortable to say, anyway, if you dig into the heart and lungs with others, others will also believe in a 3 percent, and you can believe in a 3 percent for every truth, so why make yourself uncomfortable? True and false, false and true, that's the truth.

    You have your own understanding of what others say to you, and people are animals with a purpose

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can tell you responsibly that you are a good girl. Convinced that he is a good person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Things that have little to do with oneself are followed by the public system.

    Don't tell anyone unrelated about your plans, unless it's someone you trust or someone who has a suitor [someone who can fix you is usually someone who knows what you want].

    Yuan Lang had such a line in the soldier assault:

    Compared to Category B, we don't have any special status, and that's crucial. You have to be willing to hide and tuck, willingly, without merit and consummation, without a step to the heavens.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to talk to someone you trust, or see a psychiatrist, I have the same experience as you, the difference is that I am a man.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, girls like confident boys, and girls will also discuss how that boy is, in fact, as long as you are bold to try, you will find a lot of unexpected gains in the process of trying. Secondly, don't live so tired, not so many people pay attention to you, although this may not be true, but it is true, so that you will relax yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you want to open your heart, you have to learn to go with the flow, and going with the flow is not to deliberately talk to girls. When a girl talks to you, you imagine that she is your sister, and she doesn't care if you say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing. If you want to talk to a girl, you have to be with your sister without any scruples, in fact, no one cares what you do wrong, you keep treating her own relatives, and she will naturally be close to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, you have to learn to be confident. Confident people are very attractive, I have experienced it myself! No one is inferior to anyone.

    It's just your psychological effect. For girls, you have to know how to advance and retreat, and care more, but don't indulge her too much, otherwise she will think that you have no personality and are dispensable. Maybe you're not the most important one in her life, so be the most special one!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's a must to be true to girls Cheeky too, yes, must be humorous, will tell some small jokes, not bad jokes, you two have to care more about her after you become a text, send a message to say hello, etc., because girls are afraid of loneliness You just said that family conditions Family conditions are not a problem When you learn well in a technical school, you will earn a lot of money after graduation What kind of girls don't have It is more realistic for girls nowadays It is not excluded that true love is the kind of object I am like this She said that I have not yet participated in the formal work It is impossible to figure you out What I am in college now I am a sophomore We got there half a month ago, and she said that after I graduated, we saved up to buy a house.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't think about it, it's thick-skinned ......Hehe......

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're not confident! The first thing to do is to develop your self-confidence! Do more of what you love and try to do it well!

    And if you have to be assertive, do what you think you think! If you are wrong, you will not make mistakes in the future! People grow in failure!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The age of innocence!! It's the time when the two little ones don't guess, as long as they don't talk to others. It's not a good idea!

    First of all, you should be sincere to others!! There are no other shortcuts!

    You yourself are so restrained, can you still expect a woman to be unrestrained?

    ..See for yourself!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello: I can't explain this question in a few words, I suggest you go to the American movie "Love Consultant", the answer is in the movie.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's actually very simple, she will accept you because I know your business. Believe me.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't be so suspicious, learn to believe and trust each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Warm external environment, willing premise, suitable for each other's way.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't be confident enough, be bold, as long as you remember, it doesn't matter what others think of me, I am me, you care too much about how others see you, don't think like this, walking on the street, my actions are me, if you like it, look at it twice, don't look at it if you don't like it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Strange girls dating。。。

    It's too irresponsible for feelings

    I really don't know what you think

    I like someone, I don't think that's the case

    Think about what you're going to do

    If you're a man, you should do what a man should do

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I often think that I am a scoundrel, who am I afraid of? Go your own way and let others do the talking. You can do this to strangers. The money thinks and does this. It will be fine after a long time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehe, get in touch with unfamiliar girls more and this phenomenon will disappear. I guess you are still too much of a person, afraid of creating a bad direct impression on others. Actually, it doesn't matter, just take it easy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not a male model, what are you afraid of, just make a pose, don't be nervous, just go to see your girlfriend like a normal friend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Not generous, but so am I.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Do you know Su Shi?

    As long as you have profound knowledge and have a broad intellectual vision, are you still afraid of having no friends?

    The most important thing is your heart, make friends with your heart, and others will definitely treat you sincerely.

    Don't ask what is the meaning of living, in fact, there is no meaning in living, meaning is defined by yourself, and you feel that there is no meaning in life now, it is because you are still in an ignorant stage of life.

    You will mature, you will have friends, you will have meaning in life, and the key is how you approach your life.

    If you lack self-confidence, give yourself self-confidence. If you don't have friends, then take the initiative to make friends, who rules that you don't have confidence? Who rules you don't have friends?

    It's not good that you don't have friends just wishful thinking on your own.

    As long as you have confidence, profound knowledge, and can talk to others, are you afraid that you will not be able to make friends?

    Life can be very helpless sometimes, but if you think about it like this, you won't be helpless

    Work hard, you can, the key is to give yourself confidence.

    When someone else stuffs money into their own pockets, you have to stuff knowledge into your own head.

    Communication requires the backbone of knowledge.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Read some social books, see how to find topics, follow the news, and try to talk to people.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you realize it, then you should have more contact with others, and exercise often in crowded places.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Get out and touch more, and it's okay to take your time.

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