Can you help me convince my husband? Everyone, help me, what the hell does my husband think?

Why do men have the same stinky problem Hehe This is all used to women Really, if you don't do anything, don't wash the dishes, don't clean up the house, don't do the laundry, you often can't get off the Internet, the child crying, you can't see it, you can't hear it, see what he reflects Of course, this must also be done in moderation Men are spoiled children to slowly soften Ah Women get off work and know that they rush home to do laundry, cook, and take care of the children Why don't you go to get together with friends to talk and drink tea Aren't there still men at home In fact, women sometimes take care of too many things So a man doesn't know what he has to do, and over time he becomes lazy and doesn't do anything.

A woman with a maternal nature is more able to maintain the stability of a family. Hopefully, you can take a good look at yourself and see if there is anything you need to improve before dealing with this problem. After that, this motherhood does not mean that she can tolerate her man's betrayal, or even watch him betray step by step.

Personally, I would advise you to have a good talk with your husband when you are calm in your heart, emotionally stable, and level-headed. It doesn't matter if he denies, doesn't care, or vehemently refutes during the conversation. You should speak your mind carefully and clearly, so that he realizes the seriousness of your view of this problem.

I don't think he's a stupid man, and if you divorce, the law will definitely award your son to you, and he'll only get a temporary freedom or a little bit of the short-lived pleasure that other women bring him. He lost more and heavier than he gained. There are many other things involved, and he may not be able to have a happy family and a lovely son for most of his life.

When he realizes the seriousness of the problem and the consequences, I think he will think about his actions! If that doesn't work, and he continues like this, then God doesn't have the tolerance either!

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Was he like that when he first got married? If so, you don't have to bother to change him, that's his nature, and he can't change it.

If not, then you are too capable, spoil him, start with the small things, treat him like a child, let him do one thing and say a bunch of nice things. Hehe, gentleness is the most effective.

The pattern of the beginning of a marriage will always be left for later.

If you want to change him, this is a big project, and dealing with a husband is not as simple as dealing with a child.

Moreover, what kind of person cannot change the surface of the nature, and it is difficult to change the nature of the country.

Convince Educate, huh, make him a great candlelit dinner, and then tell him what you think.

Of course, your husband is you going to communicate, and if you really can't talk about it, then go 2 ways.

Either leave him and tell him to think about it, or change his mind.

Or you also try to do nothing, play with him, and tell him that he was there before while he directs you.

After you don't have to do housework, watch how he behaves if he really treats you as a person.

Hmph: Take care of him.

Find an appropriate time for him to try to take the child's happiness: for example, occasionally go on a business trip or go to a foreign country, let him experience it, take his time, never rush, a person's character and habits are usually not formed overnight, so it is not an overnight thing to change, let him weigh you first, and then talk to him, if you are right to talk about it, you must not bring emotions, otherwise it is easy to recover!

In fact, everyone has his strengths and weaknesses, you don't just see his shortcomings! Even husband and wife can't change each other into what you want them to be, otherwise you won't have the personality of this person, and then you won't like him even more.

I'll coax him to my words!

And men have to learn to be spoiled!

No matter if he ignores him, he won't be able to stand it in a few days, the more you chase him and tell him to change, the more he won't listen, he will also think you are annoying, you calm down for a few days, and snub him for a few days.

This husband is cute, since the child has been taught by you, then ask him to accompany the child Wanbei, and ask him to do housework? It's hard to find a husband who does housework now, so give up.

You have a clear division of labor, you are used to him!

You have to talk to him well, don't quarrel, don't use a blameful tone, it's easy to mess up!

Marriage is for two people, change him into your ideal husband, then how to solve his ideal wife? Think about it...

If you try to give him one last chance and leave him if he doesn't change!

When he needs her husband's help, he ignores him, and when he encounters this situation, he can take three ways to deal with it: clearly setting out the requirements, clarifying the division of tasks between each other, and taking measures to make the husband take on the responsibilities that he should bear

First, when you need your husband's help and he ignores him, you can make a clear request to him. When you need your husband's help and he ignores him, you can ask him to do things by making clear requests. There is no doubt that both husband and wife share responsibilities and obligations in family life, so when the husband ignores his demands, he can make clear requests to them, and the husband must respond, and he is duty-bound.

Second, husbands and wives should clearly divide their tasks with each other, and each of them should take on their own tasks. If you need your husband's help and he ignores it, you can solve this problem by clarifying the division of tasks between the husband and wife. Couples can clearly divide the tasks of family life and then take on what they are supposed to do, so that they can avoid the problem of asking their husband for help and ignoring him.

What is up to him to do, he must do.

Third, take steps to make the husband take his share of responsibility. As a husband, he bears the corresponding responsibility in the family, which cannot be shirked and cannot be avoided. Therefore, when you need your husband's help and he ignores him, she can take steps to urge him to take responsibility for it, so that the difficulties he is facing can be properly resolved, and the husband will no longer ignore him, but will take the initiative to do what he should do, and the family life will be more harmonious.

Personal opinion! I don't think it's because of the pressure that I ran, he helped the woman repay a lot of loans, which shows that she still has a certain financial ability. In addition, you also said that the woman has three children, and you only have two, so he and the woman should be more stressed.

And you said that he told you that he felt that the woman understood him, that is, he had to make you unable to understand him in some things, so that he felt that it was more difficult and annoying to communicate with you, and even felt a little pressured to face you, so that it was perfunctory.

In addition, you just mentioned that the two of them have been together for more than a month, so this period is the period of passionate love, think back to when you fell in love with him, was this the case. At this time, people tend to be more emotional than rational and more emotional.

When you encounter such a thing, it hurts, but don't want to live. Being strong is the only way out, although it's hard to do. If you feel like you can't hold on, look at your child, that's your hope, your focus.

When the pain has been held back for a long time, find a suitable place to cry! After the tears flow, it cannot be said that there is no pain, but it will be reduced a lot!

Of course, I wish you more heartily to get through this difficult time. For your seven-month-old child ... Take care!

I think this man is just evading responsibility, he is a coward, the main thing you need to do now is to find a way to repay the money first, and the business of the two of you will wait for him to come back, you have to be strong, you have to believe that there is no one in this world, the earth is still turning, and it is mainly on yourself.

Your husband just doesn't like you anymore and doesn't have feelings for you.

What's the use of calling the police Everything in your house is the public property of you and your husband, and your husband is really not a thing, and you are stupid.

Be strong, there is nothing that can't be passed, and you can't live without him?

Your heart is painful and tangled, and he treats you like an old mother who doesn't have to pay. But you have endured him for so long, it is definitely not a matter of one or two days that he doesn't give you money, and you didn't put the first piece of love well when you first got married. I think your husband still has something you can't give up, otherwise you wouldn't have children.

And your husband's salary has gone up**, if you can't control the family's finances, then you can't control your husband. If you really can't get by, you will leave, and if your husband does not leave, the court will also give you a way. As long as you want to leave.

Nothing is inseparable. Is your personality more cowardly, you have to try to change your husband if you want to not be miserable.

This kind of man really wants to be scolded. We women are also human beings, a big man who doesn't support his family and doesn't care about his family, he still asks you for money to gamble, talk to relatives and friends, knock on the side, and talk about your husband. Then you can do work for your husband through the Women's Federation.

Your husband treats you as a mother, and if you have the ability to leave him, leave him. Long pain is better than short pain, if you don't take the first step, can you see the beauty of tomorrow?