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1. Self-sacrificing married life is not worth it.

Many friends around me talk about love, but they just don't talk about marriage, and ask when they are ready to get married: If you get married, you won't be casual, go home from work, do laundry and cook, take care of the children and turn yourself into an old woman, forget it. I am not happy at work, and I am becoming more and more cautious about changing jobs.

If you want to travel, you need to have a large family, and you also need to consider that your child does not have time for classes. When they come home from work, they are no longer lying on the sofa watching TV, eating what they like to eat, cooking with housework, guiding children, and coaxing children to sleep occupy all their leisure time at night. In the face of endless loss of freedom and self-indulgence after getting married, many people choose not to get married.

2. I dare not ask for a married life without an economic foundation.

People** has conducted a survey on China's divorce rate and marriage rate, showing that for four consecutive years, the marriage rate has been declining, and for 15 years, China's divorce rate has continued to increase. But many people don't want to get married, they don't have money. Some people have calculated an account, completed a marriage, held a wedding, bought a house, and took out a car loan; In the future, we will have children's milk powder money, early education nursery classes, and cram schools; Coupled with living expenses, at least 20,000 yuan per month, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 is the key, if the elderly can not help take care of the children, but also to find a nanny, then 30,000 yuan per month.

For most people, that's a lot of pressure. The huge amount of house**, hard work, and heavy work pressure make more young people afraid of marriage, not because they don't want to get married, but because it is too expensive to get married.

3. Those who are not right are not easily compromised.

In "Wonderful Sayings", Professor Xue said such a paragraph: If two people in the world are the only ones in each other's lives, they are not easy to meet in this life, and today our urban population, the world's 7 billion, imagine that there are 7 billion black beans, in a jar, there are two red beans, put them in, stir and stir, will they meet? In a short life, generally not, which are the stories, the stories are the ones that everyone has made a lifelong service commitment, in fact, it is just that the people around us who seem to feel similar to the time has been carefully selected.

Since it is difficult to meet the person who really understands you, most people only choose the one that happens at the time they want to get married.

In today's society, there are more and more people who are reluctant to get married. Feelings are becoming more and more important in marriage, and we look forward to love for eternity, but love always flows. Introverts are often more difficult to get out of their singles.

I think the main reason is because of the high pressure of life, the high cost of raising children, and the relatively low salary.

Take my son as an example, he was admitted to 985 University at the age of eighteen, studied hard in school, and felt that he was still young and did not engage in a partner. At the age of twenty-two, he was admitted to 985 University as a graduate student, studying hard, during which he liked a female classmate, but he already had a boyfriend, and his son couldn't look down on anything else. Graduated at the age of twenty-five, entered a large state-owned enterprise group research institute, half a year later, the son felt that he still needed to improve his education, so he resigned and entered a 985 university to study for a doctorate, now twenty-seven years old, there are three years to graduate with a doctorate, every day is busy with scientific research and writing, there is no time and opportunity to engage in objects, it seems that before the age of thirty, not to say marriage, it is difficult to find a partner.

It's not that I don't want to, but I can't afford it!

Know. People may not have a strong desire to get married, and the conditions required for marriage are not met.

Because now more and more people feel that they can live well alone, and it will be very troublesome to get married early, and their quality of life will decline for their own relief, so they are reluctant to get married.

Because young people are especially afraid of trouble, and life is very stressful now.

The main reason why many young people have been single is that they are still struggling and trying to find a way to complete the primitive capital accumulation. Because the cost of marriage is too high. Single days are comfortable.

Many people feel that they don't want to get married, and they may also feel that if they get married, they will definitely be pushed by their parents to have children. But they don't want to take on the responsibilities of parenthood so early at the moment, so they keep dragging their feet.

Because they feel that being single is also very good, special freedom, and getting married will have a lot of trouble, and the economic pressure will become very great, especially not free, so they will choose not to get married.

Mainly because the cost of marriage is too high, the economic pressure is relatively high, the single life is more comfortable, and the more yearning for freedom does not want to be constrained.

Most young people feel that they will face a lot of contradictions after getting married, and they will also take responsibility, and the cost of marriage is too high, and it is more comfortable to live a single life, and they don't want to get married and have children.

Today's young people are generally more interested in the development of their own personality, and they don't want to be tied down. So they don't particularly want to get married, because we know very well that after getting married, many things will be restricted, which is a very painful thing for young people, so they are not very willing to get married.

I have never met the right person, and now young people are under great pressure, and there are often some bad behaviors on the Internet, so they will be reluctant to get married because they are afraid of marriage.

Because the cost of living is so high now, young people are under a lot of pressure every day, and they don't have time to open up their social circles, and they don't want to communicate with others or get married.

Because there is too much pressure in society now, and at this time, you will face a lot of pressure to get married, and you have to have children.

In real life, there are more and more people who are reluctant to get married, and there are several reasons.

The first reason. The economy is under pressure. Many girls looking for a partner require a house, a car, and a deposit. So for the general population. It is not easy to meet these conditions.

The second reason. At present, there is an imbalance between men and women, and there are more men than women. It's hard to find a daughter-in-law. It's even harder to find someone to marry right for.

The third reason. Live alone, there is nothing to worry about. That's why it's called a single aristocrat. There is a lot of pressure to get married. Getting married and having children is the biggest stress.

The fourth reason. I like to live a free and easy life alone. I don't want to serve others. I don't want others to serve me. I like to live my own way.

The fifth reason. It's also a very practical reason. High pressure at work. Some people are under pressure to pay off their mortgages and car loans. Incapable of facing marriage. These are the reasons why there are more and more people in society who do not get married.

Because people are very stressed nowadays. And after getting married. There is a lot of responsibility. So more and more people don't want to get married.

As far as I know, it's not that many people don't want to get married anymore, they just haven't met the right person. Nowadays, there are more and more people in society who do not get married, and I think that this is actually a minority, and the most people will get married and have children when they reach the age of marriage. The reason why some people are not married is that they have not met a suitable marriage partner.

Because after getting married, you must choose a person who is suitable for you, and this marriage partner is very important, you must choose well, if you don't choose well, you will be unhappy for the rest of your life. Therefore, many people are very picky in choosing a marriage partner, and they will not choose to get married if they are not satisfied with themselves. Another reason is that many young people are very playful, they don't want to be dragged down by family marriage too early, and they want to be free to play enough before getting married.

Then there are some people who are really busy with their careers and have no time to fall in love, so they delay the best time to get married. So in real life. There are not many people who don't want to get married.

It's just that I didn't meet the right person in the right place.

It is not difficult for us to find that now it seems that more and more young people do not want to get married very much, for them, it seems that marriage has become a burden, there is nothing particularly good, but a slow burden, because once you get married, it means that you have to bear a little more family responsibility, and it is completely impossible to shirk, in this case, many people will choose not to get married, in order to escape this problem.

However, in fact, some people don't want to get married, not only because they don't want to take on family responsibilities, but some people feel as if they will be more free to live alone, and they don't have to deliberately please their other half or the other party's family, and it is good to live happily alone. It is not difficult for us to find that in fact, among those who do not want to get married, there are some girls or boys who are not hopeful about marriage because they have been hurt in their original families. The shadow of domestic violence as a child may make them lose confidence in love and marriage, and they will feel that if they get married or fall in love, it may be a reflection of their parents, so they often do not want to get married.

Now boys and girls are more independent, have their own strong side, will not be aggrieved, will not be financially improvised, so it is difficult for another person to integrate into life, it is not as happy as themselves, and more people will choose not to get married.

Hello, among the post-90s and post-00s, there are indeed many people who choose not to marry and have children. However, this does not mean that this will become mainstream. ......The reason why I say this is because marriage and childbirth are always the mainstream choices of young people, late marriage and late childbearing do not mean that there is no marriage and infertility, and real life will prompt young people to make the choice of marriage and children.

1. The concept of getting married and having children has always been the mainstream view in the minds of young people.

Although there are many young people who choose not to marry and have children, this does not mean that this is the mainstream choice of the post-95s and post-00s. ......In fact, among the post-95s and post-00s young people, the vast majority still choose to get married and have children, which is their mainstream choice. ......It's just that the behavior of those young people who choose not to marry and have children is too conspicuous, so it will give people the illusion that most young people choose not to marry and have children.

2. The young people born in the 95s and 00s choose to marry and have children later, which does not mean that they will not marry and have children.

For the post-95s and post-00s, most of them did choose to marry later and have ......children laterThis makes it true that there are not many young people born in the post-95s and post-00s who get married and have children. ......But we have to be clear that late marriage and late childbearing are by no means the same as not marrying and having children. Those post-95s and post-00s who choose to marry later and have children later will eventually get married and have children, which is the mainstream choice of most people.

Those who really choose not to marry and have children are always in the minority.

3. Real life will prompt the post-95s and post-00s to make the choice of getting married and having children.

Among the post-95s and post-00s, there are indeed some people who have the idea of not marrying and having children at the beginning. ......But with the gradual enrichment of life and experience, these people's minds will change. ......Under the influence of their families, relatives and friends, and the people around them, these post-95s and post-00s will gradually realize the necessity of getting married and having children, as well as the many benefits they bring to themselves, thus prompting them to change their minds and want to get married and have children instead.

It is precisely because of this reason that unmarried and infertile will never be the idea of post-95 and post-00 young people, and the vast majority of them will still choose to get married and have children.

Now single young people will find it difficult to enter a close relationship, they can live well alone, they should start a business first and then start a family, in order to give each other a better life, there is no need to get married too early, will fall into a lot of contradictions, these are single young people to observe the current misunderstandings; The main reason why they don't want to get married is that they feel that being single will be better off, and they are afraid that they will be subjected to domestic violence after marriage, and they will face many things after marriage, such as conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, having children, raising children, buying a house and other problems.

The misunderstanding of these young people is to get married for the sake of marriage, ignoring the importance of love, they will not take the initiative to find fate, but wait for fate to fall, and take the success of a man's career as an important criterion for choosing a mate; The main reason why these young people don't want to get married is that these young people are very afraid of marriage.

They feel that it is very good to be single, special freedom, unrestrained, no one cares, they can do whatever they want, so they have to be single all the time, the reason why they don't want to get married is that they feel that the pressure will be very great after getting married, they will lose their freedom, and they will make themselves very troublesome, so they don't want to get married.