Times are constantly advancing, why are fewer and fewer people willing to get married?

I think it's because everyone is under all kinds of pressure, and they don't have the energy and time to fall in love, let alone a family, and they are under a lot of pressure, and if they get married, the pressure will be even greater, and I prefer to be single in comparison.

There are fewer and fewer people who are willing to get married, because people no longer believe in love, and now that the social and economic pressure is so great, many young people can only take care of themselves and can't manage marriage at all.

Because there will be many problems after getting married, and even falling in love will cause many problems, so people who have experienced these things feel the beauty of single life, so they are reluctant to get married.

Because of the high cost of living now, it is difficult for most young people to support themselves, let alone raise children. Many are also only children, and marriage means that two people have to support four elderly people. It's too much pressure.

With the continuous progress of the times, science and technology are changing people's lives, people's thoughts are also changing, there are more and more people advocating freedom, traveling around the world alone, living alone, there are more and more people who have such a will, and now there are many unmarried people in society.

Because people nowadays have very high requirements for their other half, and there is a lot of pressure to get married, there are fewer and fewer people getting married.

Because both men and women now have the ability to earn money independently, under the premise of financial freedom, many people are unwilling to accept the constraints of marriage.

If you could eat and drink freely in the store, would you want to pay for a treat?

Young people's concept of marriage is weaker, so there are fewer people who get married, because they are afraid that they will not find happiness when they get married. So fewer and fewer people are getting married.

One of the main reasons why young Chinese are increasingly choosing to hold weddings with respect is the high cost of traditional wedding ceremonies. In Chinese culture, weddings are grand and elaborate ceremonies that require a lot of financial resources, which is a huge financial burden for many families. For young couples who are just starting out in their careers, they may not have enough savings to save early, and the prospect of spending a fortune on a wedding can be daunting.

As a result, many people choose to forgo weddings or opt for simpler, more affordable alternatives.

Another factor contributing to this trend is the shift in attitudes towards marriage and family. In the past, marriage was seen as a necessity in life, and everyone was expected to get married and start a family. However, as more and more young people pursue higher educational and career opportunities, the idea of postponing or even abandoning marriage is becoming more acceptable.

In addition, changes in gender roles and expectations are also at play. In the past, women were expected to put marriage and family first, but nowadays, more and more women are prioritizing their career and personal achievements. This has led to a shift in attitudes towards marriage, which many young people see as an option rather than a necessity.

The rise of online dating and socializing has also had an impact on marriage attitudes. With more and more young people dating online, there is less social pressure to get married and start a family. Dating and socializing make it easier for people to meet potential partners, but they also make it easier for people to stay single and pursue other interests.

As a result, many young people choose to focus on personal growth and development rather than getting married and starting a family.

This trend has had many implications for Chinese society. First of all, it means that the traditional wedding industry may take a hit. For a large number of people who work in wedding planning, wedding photography, wedding venue rentals, and other related industries, this can lead to job losses and financial losses.

Second, this trend could exacerbate the problem of an aging Chinese population, leading to a decline in fertility. Finally, it can exacerbate social divisions and feelings of isolation, leaving many people feeling less connected to society.

However, there are many potential solutions to these challenges. First, young people can be encouraged to marry and start families through policy and financial support. For example, tax breaks, loan guarantees, and other financial incentives can be offered to help young couples ease their financial burden.

Education and awareness campaigns can also be used to encourage young people to value marriage and family, as well as the meaning of traditional weddings.

Another solution is to promote more open discussions about changes in attitudes about marriage and family. By creating a safe space for young people to talk about their hopes and concerns, we can help reduce social pressure and promote a more inclusive and understanding society. There is also a need to promote gender equality and address the underlying social factors that lead to gender imbalance and discrimination against women.

Economic pressuresWith the development of society, the cost of living such as housing prices, education, and medical care is getting higher and higher, and many young people find it difficult to afford the financial pressure required to get married. Some people even postpone marriage or give up marriage due to financial problems.

Personal pursuits: Many young people pay more attention to personal pursuits, including career, education, travel, hobbies, etc., which can better meet their needs than getting married and having children.

Marriage concept: With the change in social and family values, many young people have a new understanding of the value and meaning of marriage. They don't think it's necessary to get married, and they have higher expectations for marriage and stricter requirements for their partners.

Social waysWith the diversification of social methods, many people choose to meet friends on social networks, rather than through traditional blind dates, introductions, etc. This may make it more difficult for young people to get married.

Consumption concept: Many young people have a unique view of the concept of consumption, and they pay more attention to the quality of life and consumption experience. In this case, they may be more inclined to wait for better time and conditions in Dusty Rock Mountain than to rush into getting married.

In general, there are many reasons why young people are getting married less and less, mainly due to social, economic, family, marriage and other factors.

From a sociological point of view, young people's behaviors such as "breaking off their relatives" and being unwilling to follow their share of money are caused by the changes in family relations in the process of modern urbanization and the changes in the values of the contemporary young generation. For a long time, traditional Chinese culture has strictly emphasized "filial piety", that is, respect for parents and elders, and through responsibilities and obligations to express respect and gratitude to the family. However, in contemporary society, as personal interests are increasingly concerned, younger generations are more inclined to choose their lifestyles based on their own interests and needs, rather than relying solely on traditional customs and rules.

If this trend continues, it may lead to the disappearance or change of some traditional cultures and practices, such as family respect, cohesion between relatives may be reduced, and family history and memories may be forgotten or abandoned. At the same time, if the money is regarded as a mutual guarantee of marriage and financial support, young people who refuse to pay money will be more convenient and rational to look at the lives of two people, rather than just economic problems, and the nature of the wedding will also change. Some traditional cultures and customs that are contrary to young people's lifestyles, psychological expectations and values may be eliminated under such influences.

However, there are certainly both positive and negative aspects to the changes in today's society, and there may be some positive effects as well. For example, in a new culture that emphasizes the right of individual choice, equality and freedom, young people are more likely to become independent thinkers and try to stand on their own feet without feudalism and family constraints, and their chosen relationships (including family and friendship) are based on mutual affection, interests and mutual benefit, and they feel valued by each other. Therefore, this cultural shift may present an opportunity to establish a cultural phenomenon of individual independence, self-identity, and internal autonomy and authentic communication, which can lead to a greater sense of well-being, equality, and security.

In recent years, with the changes in society and the change of people's concepts, more and more young people are no longer willing to hold traditional weddings, but choose simple and personalized wedding methods, and some people even do not hold weddings at all. There are several main reasons for the emergence of this phenomenon.

First of all, the cost of the wedding is too high. Traditional weddings require a lot of time and money, including venue rental, wedding photography, wedding cars, floats, banquet drinks, etc., which are a big burden for many young people and difficult to bear. With the development of society, people's requirements for weddings are getting higher and higher, resulting in rising wedding costs, which discourages many young people.

Second, young people's perception of wedding traces or dust has changed. With the progress of society and the opening of ideas, young people's views and values on marriage are also constantly changing. They pay more attention to the quality and stability of the marriage itself than to the grandeur of the wedding.

They believe that a wedding is just a ceremony, and that true happiness requires mutual understanding and support from both husband and wife.

Again, young people are more focused on individuality and freedom. Modern society emphasizes individuality and freedom, and young people are more inclined to design their own way and form of wedding, so that the wedding is more in line with their own personality and needs. They believe that weddings should be a sense of ceremony, not a luxury and waste, and should be the way they like, not the traditional way.

Finally, the influence of social** is also an important factor. The rise of social networking has made it easier for people to get in touch with different wedding forms and styles, and it has also made people more aware of the various details and processes of weddings. At the same time, social networking also makes people more susceptible to evaluation and comments from others, which makes many people worry about whether their wedding can be recognized and appreciated by others.

To sum up, young people are reluctant to hold traditional weddings, mainly due to many factors such as the high cost of weddings, changes in their perception of marriage, the focus on individuality and freedom, and the influence of social **. As for this phenomenon, we should look at it rationally, respect the choices of others, and do not have to interfere and evaluate too much.

This is not the first time that the number of first marriages in China has been**. In 2020, the number of first marriages in China was 10,000, a 36-year low. The captain expects that when 2022 is over, we will probably be able to draw a new conclusion when we look back on the year from 2023:

The number of first marriages in China has further declined, hitting a new low in 38 years.

Young people are getting married less and less, and this is the general trend, not a short-term phenomenon. This phenomenon will continue for many more years, and we will not be surprised that we will slowly get used to it soon. This is not only a problem of few marriages, but also a problem of spike socks that are rarely in love.

According to data released by China's Ministry of Civil Affairs in 2018, China's single population exceeds 100 million.

This single population includes both the elderly who have lost their lives and the young people who have been singles. In addition to the orphaned elderly, the total number of single young people has exceeded 100 million. In other words, it is not only difficult for young people nowadays to get married, but also difficult to fall in love.

There are many reasons for this, and the captain would like to briefly talk about a few points.

First, modern young people's outlook on marriage and love has changed. Since ancient times, China has had a traditional view of marriage and love: "Men should get married, and women should marry."

However, since the beginning of the 21st century, this concept has been greatly impacted. Especially the post-90s and post-95s, most people don't care about this set at all. Parents are broken, and daughters often respond:

Don't listen or don't listen, Wang Ba recites the scriptures.

Under the dual factors of declining new births and the imbalance in the ratio of men and women, the number of first marriages in China will continue to decline in the future, which is difficult to reverse.

Marriage and love are also in line with the natural selection of natural selection, and some people are told to walk and walk, and they will disperse, and if they are scattered, they may never be able to chase them back.

Meeting among 1.4 billion people is already a providence in the dark.

When lovers come together, it's called: "Providence is hard to disobey." ”

Hello, I don't think it will become mainstream, but there may be this trend.

The trend of thought of not marrying and having children is only popular among a small number of people in the pseudo-middle class (people who live quite nourishing but do not actually hold any means of production in their hands belong to the pseudo-middle class, not to mention how many suites you have, study the land state ownership system, as long as it is still a housing certificate in your hands, as long as you don't have any real estate or industry anywhere, you are a great proletariat).

This group of people will grow in size, but it will be difficult to form a mainstream belief in the foreseeable short-term future.

Many people talk about the declining birthrate, which means that the child population is less than the population over 65 years old, and this has indeed appeared, and the birth rate has been declining year after year, is it because the per capita middle class is emancipated? Obviously not, because the only children of family planning have reached the marriageable age, and the base of the generation itself is small, and the fertility rate is predictable.

Let's talk about some examples from my side

I have seen a 15-year-old rural brother in Guizhou who already has a son and a daughter under his knees, not twins, the eldest is two years old, and the younger one has just been born, he belongs to the bottom of the 1.4 billion people.

My ancestral hometown is a mountain village in Sichuan, which can not be regarded as a mountain village, why imitate it, in fact, there are dozens of families living on a slope of a big mountain, because half of the village is surnamed X, so that place is called Banpo X. At present, among the dozens of families in my hometown, people who are about 20 years old have already given birth to one or two dolls at home and then go to work in other places, accounting for eighty percent, and the remaining two percent are successful in their studies outside and settled down.

Hope mine is helpful to you.