Why are more and more people not wanting to get married?

Not wanting to get married isn't necessarily abnormal. There are many reasons why you don't want to get married, and some young people don't want to get married because they are too young, so they don't want to be bound by marriage. These people will also have the idea of wanting to get married after they mature, and these people may also choose to get married, each stage has the idea of each stage, and if they don't want to get married now, it doesn't mean that they don't want to get married in this life.

In today's society, marriage is no longer an inevitable choice. More and more people have their own subjective consciousness, understand what they want, get married or not to get married is just a way of life, understand that marriage is not the final choice and does not have to spend a lifetime with a person. Everyone will have different choices, and no one should stand on the moral high ground to judge anyone.

Some people like the freedom of being single, they have been single for a long time and are used to being alone, and suddenly a person intrudes into your life and will feel uneasy, especially when they have to sacrifice their time and preferences to please another person, they feel irritable and impatient, and they feel that they are no longer as chic as before, so they choose not to get married because they don't want to be bound by marriage. As for some people, he longs for the warmth of home and the company of his confidants, so it can only be said that the pursuit between people is different.

I still believe that there is love, and I also believe that after the water is completed, they will get married and stay together for a lifetime. Some people don't get married because they haven't met the person who made him want to get married. Marriage is a big deal, everyone has to think about whether to marry that person, whether that person is suitable for you and can be with you for a lifetime.

Although this sentence sounds cliché and seems to be a bit false, "it is better to lack than to excess" and "love is not enough" is indeed something that everyone should consider. Once you meet the right person, it is only a matter of time before you get married, and this kind of person pursues the self-principle of not compromised, preferring a high-quality single rather than a low-quality marriage.

Moreover, there are some people who do not get married, because their own conditions are limited, they have been picked by others, and they have no right to take the initiative to choose, so it is not that he does not want to get married, but his own strength does not allow it. I don't know very well why the current society will form a kind of abnormal atmosphere if you don't get married, in the face of you reaching the age of marriage and childbirth, your family will urge you, friends will urge you, and even strangers will ask you when they talk to you, whether you have a family or not, so when you reach the age of marriage, men and women who are still not married are still under great pressure.

In recent years, fewer and fewer people are getting married, and more and more people don't want to get married, which has caused a lasting confusion for many people. Why do so many people not want to get married now? This article will analyze why more and more people do not want to get married now from the perspective of financial pressure, changes in attitudes, social changes and many other aspects.

First of all, the financial pressure is an important reason now. Because marriage involves the economic responsibilities of both parties, due to the price of goods and economic instability, the responsibility of marriage gradually increases, sometimes even beyond the limit of one party's adaptation, therefore, people lose confidence in marriage.

Secondly, the change in attitudes also affects the increasing number of people who do not want to get married. With the emancipation of the concept of marriage, people gradually realized that the family is not only composed of fathers, mothers and children on all sides, and marriage is no longer a monopoly of life.

In addition, social changes have also affected the increasing number of people who do not want to get married. The development of society has led to more and more choices, and those who are interested can easily have higher academic qualifications and be more competitive than before, while the latter can reach their full potential and do not have to rely on marriage to live freely, resulting in more and more people choosing not to get married.

Finally, there are some subjective factors that influence the increasing number of people who do not want to get married. In modern life, many people are socially independent and self-actualizing, and they do not want to bind themselves to marriage, but prefer to live a free and easy single life. In addition, the accelerated pace of modern life has also made some people unable to take care of their families and children, and therefore lose confidence in getting married.

In conclusion, the current increase in the number of people who do not want to get married is the result of a combination of many factors, and as single people, we must cherish the free choice of each person and respect each way of life.

I think people who don't want to get married, they do have some problems in their hearts, and this kind of people are also called marriage phobia. Marriage phobia is a kind of mental illness, there are many ** of this mental illness, some people are more afraid of marriage because they have been seriously hurt emotionally, and they don't believe that marriage will bring them happiness, so even if they have a love partner, they have never wanted to get married. In fact, there is another kind of people who do not want to get married, they do not have any psychological problems, but they lack a sense of responsibility, so they do not want to get married, and they are afraid that marriage will restrict their freedom.

We see more and more young people nowadays, they are not in a relationship and do not want to get married. But in fact, for many people, they know that as young people, they should be the most hopeful and eager to have love, after all, for young people, they all want to be able to be with the person they like.

Especially with the people they like, they will get along more happily and happily, which will eventually allow them to have a happier and better love. But we see that there are a lot of young people nowadays, who don't fall in love and don't want to get married. So some people wonder why many young people don't fall in love and don't want to get married.

First of all, because there are a lot of girls now, they are very realistic, especially in love, they will put forward a lot of high requirements for boys, they require boys to have a good job and a good family, only when boys can meet or meet the requirements and conditions of girls. In this way, girls are willing to be with boys, and the two of them are in the process of getting along together. Girls also ask boys to care and love her wholeheartedly, if boys can't do this, then girls absolutely don't want to be with boys, so we see a lot of boys want to be with girls, but because they can't meet or can't meet the requirements of girls, so they can only choose to be single.

Of course, we also see that there are some young people who don't fall in love and don't get married because they are not that good yet. Therefore, they hope that they can devote more time and energy to work hard to improve themselves, and only when they are more excellent, so that they can have a beautiful love.

So we see that there are a lot of young people right now. They are not in love, nor are they married. But in fact, young people, they know that love is much happier and more beautiful. So we hope that as young people, they should still be more active and hardworking.

Because only when they are more active and hard-working, so that they can find a more suitable person for themselves, and only in this way will they be able to get along with others better, and finally let them have a happier and better love.

Because it's too much pressure to get married now. If you want to get married, the bride price house is the basic configuration. And now the house prices are high in the clouds. Instead of being a house slave all your life and working to pay off the mortgage all your life, it is better not to get married and not buy a house.

Today's young people feel that marriage is a kind of bondage, and if they don't get married, they can live a good life alone, and they are very free, there is no burden, and they don't have to worry about family trivialities.

In today's society, more and more young people do not see marriage as a must-do, especially those who work in big cities. They focus more on their careers and achievements, so the purpose of dating also changes. There are many reasons that lead these young people who don't want to get married to fall in love, specifically including:

1. Some young people fall in love in search of spiritual comfort. For those young people who work in big cities and don't want to get married, many of them want to fall in love just to find spiritual solace. Although living alone is comfortable, it is inevitable that they will feel lonely, and this feeling will have a great impact on these young people.

In order to find spiritual comfort, they will choose to fall in love.

2. There are also some young people who fall in love in order to find a partner to communicate with. Many young people who don't want to get married but fall in love do so for the purpose of finding a partner. These young people usually lack a person to communicate with, they have nowhere to talk to their hearts, and they urgently need a communication partner to accompany them, so they will choose to fall in love.

3. For some young people, falling in love is more about finding emotional resonance and care. Life in big cities is fast-paced, people are estranged, and it is difficult to build deep relationships with new acquaintances and contacts. Therefore, finding a partner who understands you and shares the moments of life with you is important for young people's quality of life and mental health.

Falling in love is an emotional treat for young people. Falling in love with Sisson is able to bring warmth, care and emotional fulfillment. Even young people who don't want to get married will not give up the opportunity to feel love.

First and foremost, being in a relationship can bring emotional fulfillment and support. Young people working in big cities are often faced with intense competition, pressure and loneliness. In such an environment, love can become their emotional sustenance and support, which can bring a sense of happiness, belonging and security.

Secondly, falling in love can increase your social circle and expand your network. Young people working in big cities have a relatively narrow social circle, because they often come here from other places, and without relatives and old friends, it is difficult to meet more people. Falling in love allows them to expand their network and develop their workplace and interpersonal relationships through each other's circle of friends and social occasions.

In addition, falling in love can also lead to personal growth, increased self-awareness and improved emotional intelligence. In a relationship, both parties need to communicate, compromise, be considerate, tolerant and trusting and other emotional abilities, which can allow young people to gradually mature and grow, improve self-awareness and emotional intelligence, and lay a better foundation for their future life.

In general, young people who don't want to get married fall in love for more than multiple purposes, such as satisfying emotional needs, increasing social circles and connections, and improving personal growth and emotional intelligence. Of course, this doesn't mean they won't get married and start a family, it's just that it's not their first choice at the moment.

The first point: more and more people who are unwilling to get married According to last year's data report, there are more than 200 million unmarried people in China's marriageable population, and more and more people are unwilling to get married, not only in cities, but also among rural youth. This is also the reason why the number of marriages has been declining year after year.

At the same time, their social needs have changed from reality to the Internet, and various online jokes have made marriage and love values and parenting concepts more marketable for singles, which has led to young people not having so much demand for marriage.

The second point is that in terms of economy, most of the men who want to get married in rural society are mainly because of the strong sense of rural family and the need of the older generation to start a family and inherit the family lineage. But I have to say that it is not a matter of marriage that can be married if you want to get married, and now rural marriage has entered the involution from the beginning of the blind date, and the car, house, and bride price are all prerequisites, and it is naturally difficult for young men with a weak family background to get married.

In addition, work, education, personality, and appearance are also the requirements of many women, so that a group of men have been brushed down, so that many men with poor economy, average appearance, low education, and poor work basically have no possibility of marriage.

Of course, the most fundamental reason for this situation is the excessive and serious patriarchal mentality in the past. This has led to an imbalance in the ratio of men to women.

There are many reasons why modern young people are reluctant to get married, such as work pressure, housing pressure, life pressure, loan pressure, and support for the elderly.

With the development of the economy, although the standard of living is much higher, modern young people are facing unprecedented pressure, they dare not fall in love, and even their own survival is a problem, let alone dare to think about starting a family. If you have money, no one wants to be single, which is caused by many pressures. In the past, the carriage and horses were very slow, the mail was very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime.

However, modern love comes and goes quickly!

The kinder party paid money and time, but in the end ended up with "no people and money", the risk cost of marriage has increased, and it has been consumed to the fullest. Modern young people really don't dare to get married casually, unless they are really very rich and have always had the ability to support their families, otherwise they just raised their husbands (daughters-in-law) for others, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses, there are too many people who are spare tires!

Even if a person finds a second marriage, it is raising children for others, not biological children, no matter what, people will still find their biological parents when they grow up. In the past, marriages were very simple, a cow, a sheep, or even a dustpan of soybeans or a sack of red and ruined potatoes. Today's love, the three major pieces (house, car, ticket) are all indispensable.

In the past, it was all about feelings, but now it's all about silver. If you have less silver, you don't dare to get married, and if you have more silver, you will have confidence, which can be described as "drought and waterlogging".

Young people, without capital, really dare not step into marriage, just like some girls say: "Your little silver is not as expensive as my box of cosmetics!" ”

Although the young boy has a smile on his face, only he knows the pain and pain in his heart. Others are persuading you to get married, but in fact they can't help.

Take marriage as an example, a house costs millions, a car costs hundreds of thousands, and a gift money costs hundreds of thousands. As for how long the marriage will last after marriage, it is unknown. Modern young people turn their faces faster than books, no matter how much you pay, the other party will send you a sentence "We are not suitable, break up!"

No matter how much you have paid before, no matter how much you have worked hard, for a person who is about to leave, people don't care about you at all. Once one party finds the next home, it will immediately turn your face to you, and it is very ruthless, this is the reality.