How can I see the true character of my mother in law based on her performance during pregnancy?

The ten months of pregnancy can be said to be the most difficult ten months for a woman, and in China, usually a woman's mother-in-law will take care of her daughter-in-law during pregnancy, and this is the most obvious sincerity.

At this time, a good mother-in-law will be very good to her daughter-in-law, not to let her daughter-in-law suffer, make nutritious meals, and help her daughter-in-law talk when she has conflicts with her son.

And when the daughter-in-law is unwell, she will also be very anxious. But if it is a perfunctory mother-in-law, then she will feel that her daughter-in-law is very hypocritical, and at this time she is still better to her son than to her daughter-in-law, which of course makes her feel very wronged.

When pregnant, if the mother-in-law is not particularly good to herself, and she is not particularly concerned, when this situation occurs, it means that the mother-in-law's character is not particularly good, and it is better for such a mother-in-law to choose to leave her, and it is better to choose to live alone.

Of course, if the mother-in-law always tries to make her favorite food for herself when she is pregnant, especially when she is not feeling well, they will also accompany herself, such a mother-in-law is very good, and the daughter-in-law must be heart-to-heart, and she must take care of them more in life, and take care of them with her heart.

If the pregnant mother-in-law can take care of it and provide some help and suggestions from the perspective of the pregnant mother instead of blindly instilling some outdated ideas of motherhood, it means that the mother-in-law is still very good.

In fact, character can not only be seen during pregnancy, but also should be understood in ordinary times.

If you want to know whether your mother-in-law has a patriarchal mentality, it is better to reveal the news that the baby is a female treasure to your mother-in-law, and see if your mother-in-law has changed her treatment of you.

The first point is to look at the mother-in-law, is the attitude towards you a 180-degree turn, and suddenly becomes very indifferent, the second point is to look at the mother-in-law, is the food cooked for you very sweet, is there any crooked thoughts in the food, and the third point is to look at the mother-in-law, when you don't bring you children and children, is it particularly serious.

1.Can the housework at home be shared with 2Will you prepare clothes for the baby who has no birth3Will you care about your diet and whether there are taboos4Pregnancy check-ups will accompany concerns.

When you are pregnant, you will ask for warmth and be considerate. At this time, a good mother-in-law can understand your pain, and will cook for you and cook some light meals, instead of saying that her daughter-in-law is too squeamish like some mothers-in-law, and then talk about her own suffering back then, and secretly sarcastically say that her daughter-in-law can't endure hardship.

A good mother-in-law understands the hardships of being a first-time mother and offers the best of her ability to help.

Some old people, before you give birth, will often say this, you hurry up to give birth, I will help you bring it after giving birth, but after giving birth, you will not help at all, although some mothers-in-law will not say some beautiful words on their lips.

But when you really need help, he will take the initiative to help, such as helping to hold the child, helping to wash diapers, coaxing the child, some mothers-in-law are very good, in order to let the mother return to the workplace, will take the initiative to help take care of the child, because she knows that it is not easy for young couples to make money, and it is a little bit to help.

How does a mother-in-law treat pregnancy after pregnancy? How can it be considered a big project for his family? For his family's inheritance, he must say that he is not allowed to do housework and take good care of the fetus, how can he deal with it? He won't let you get pregnant, and then he'll do the housework!

For the daughter-in-law after pregnancy, the mother-in-law will take good care of her, because it is not very convenient to move when she is pregnant, so the mother-in-law will take care of her three meals a day and daily life.

I didn't treat me differently because I was pregnant, I cooked and washed my own clothes when I was eight months pregnant, I didn't buy any nutritional products, and I didn't care about anything.

After I got pregnant, my baby took very good care of me and always made me something delicious.

1. When you get married, your mother-in-law is willing to respect your opinion for marriage.

Most women attach great importance to marriage and want to have the most romantic and solemn wedding. For example, buying a house, how to decorate, what kind of wedding photos to take, what kind of furniture and gifts to buy, what kind of wedding ceremony to hold, what kind of wedding dress to wear, etc., after all, every woman longs in her heart to be a proud princess, and she only marries once in her life, of course, she can't be so-so.

If your mother-in-law can talk to you carefully about these things before you get married, and support them strongly, then this mother-in-law must treat you well with sincerity. And some more frugal mothers-in-law will hope that the wedding will be passable, there is no need to do anything, of course, you can't say that such a mother-in-law must be bad, but she is from the perspective of the family to consider your wedding, not from your point of view. A wise mother-in-law tries her best to respect her daughter-in-law's ideas, as long as it is not too demanding, she will generally agree, and do her best to let you have a good memory.

2. Mother-in-law can take the initiative to help you through pregnancy and confinement.

A woman's pregnancy and childbirth is a very troublesome and painful thing. Ten months of pregnancy, the torment of childbirth and the discomfort of confinement can be said to be the most difficult period of every woman's life. If the mother-in-law can take the initiative to help her daughter-in-law at this stage, and take care of and accompany her daughter-in-law through this special stage, then there is no doubt that she must be a good mother-in-law who is conscientious.

With such a mother-in-law, as a daughter-in-law, Peng Min must learn to be grateful and thank her mother-in-law, even if some things her mother-in-law may not be in place, she cannot be blamed for this. 3. Mother-in-law can take the initiative to help you watch the child and respect some of your ideas about watching the child.

The parenting period is a stage where many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts are easy to occur. First of all, because of the age difference, the generation gap between the two generations is inevitable, and the daughter-in-law, as a novice mother, has many problems that are more idealized, so it is inevitable that there is some incomprehension and complaining about how the mother-in-law looks at the child. As a mother-in-law, I feel that after all, the experience of the older generation is there, and after raising so many children, I think that I have worked hard to bring up children for my daughter-in-law, and I have to be talked about, and I will inevitably feel unbearable.

An enlightened mother-in-law will properly listen to her daughter-in-law's different ideas about parenting, but as a daughter-in-law, it is not easy for her mother-in-law to take the initiative to help share the heavy responsibilities, so she can't blame her mother-in-law because of some different concepts, so proper communication is very important.