Should I be forgiven for my husband hitting me after drinking at 4 months of pregnancy?

Updated on healthy 2024-07-04
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If we are beaten by our husband when we are pregnant, I don't think we should forgive us, and we are already 4 months pregnant, and our husband beats someone after drinking, if it is serious, he is also considered domestic violence.

    Although he said that he was drinking, his behavior was definitely wrong, even if he would apologize to us when he sobered up, but this incident has happened. He beat us drunk, if it is serious, it is very likely to lead to a miscarriage, so if you think about it like this, you can know how serious this matter is, there is a first time and there is likely to be a second time. Some people are more soft-hearted in marriage, or when they are in love, when the other party says that they will not do it again, that they are wrong, and then communicate with us with a very repentant attitude, we will be very soft-hearted, but I think don't forgive them at this time.

    It's only 4 months of pregnancy, so if he waits until 5 months, 6 months, or even before giving birth, and he still beats us after drinking, it's not just a matter of forgiveness. Some people think that at this time, we can forgive him because it is the first time he has committed such a thing, so what if after we forgive him, he is doing this kind of behavior and beating us again during our pregnancy?

    In fact, at this time, I think it is possible to temporarily separate, which means that we can go to live in a friend's house, or go back to our parents' house. Pregnancy is not a trivial matter, and if you are beaten during pregnancy, the problem is not big or small. What's more, the other party is our husband, if he still does this, I think few people can accept it, and even if we tell our family about it, they will feel very serious.

    So I think that the first time this happens, we should deal with it seriously, and we must deal with it carefully to avoid the second time as much as possible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Must not be forgiven! Men who beat their wives are incompetent people! Not to mention that you're pregnant. Whatever the reason, he shouldn't have a shot at you. Resolutely unforgivable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think you should forgive the other person's behavior, because domestic violence is resolutely unacceptable, and if the other party hits you the first time, then he will hit you many times in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Should a woman be forgiven for being slapped 4 times by her husband during pregnancy? Hear what psychologists have to say.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It can't be forgiven, this is a man who has no love, doesn't understand the size of things, and is willful, and can't forgive or entrust him for life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't be forgiven, you can be beaten when you are pregnant, and you can't escape being abused in the future, so you should get a divorce as soon as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is domestic violence, and there are only zero and countless times that cannot be forgiven, especially when you are pregnant.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Unforgivable. A man beating a woman is unforgivable at any time. Knock out the children and divorce decisively.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I can't forgive, no matter what the reason, I can't do domestic violence, it's not good for both the pregnant woman and the fetus.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course not. Domestic violence is unforgivable at any time. Women must be self-reliant and self-reliant. Protect yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you don't forgive, what do you want to drop? Blame yourself for being too low, looking for such a husband! In the country, ** or court for such cases, usually and muddy mediation, it is recommended that you:

    After learning from the pain, I simply left. But it's better not to have children If the child has to be born, it is recommended that you still find a way to change yourself and your husband, because divorce will ruin three people, especially children. I hope your husband's soul belongs to someone who can be saved!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    can't forgive, not to mention that you are still a pregnant woman, and you will be beaten now, let alone give birth to a baby in the future, it is estimated that it will only be more and more fierce every time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, it depends on the degree of the fight and the small fights between the original couple, but it is not easy to say if you go to the hospital.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not knowing the situation you are facing now and your husband's attitude towards you before you became pregnant. If your husband didn't hit you before you got pregnant, and it was the first time you hit you when you were pregnant, do you think the reason for hitting you is worth it? If you think that if it were you, you would also beat him, whether you had children or not, then you would forgive him, if you felt that it was not worth it, you should not forgive him, he would beat you when she was pregnant, she didn't care about you or her children, and divorced as soon as possible.

    If you were beaten before you got pregnant, and you were beaten when you were pregnant, then this is called domestic violence, can you bear it without divorce?

    If you are pregnant, have no family to rely on, have a very humble position at home, and do not negotiate well, then you should get rid of the child and divorce. Single motherhood is great, but it's also hard.

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