After the breakup, he has been refusing to go on a blind date, how can this be

I'm generally more supportive of what the electric baton said, I'm a girl, I can understand your sadness, sentimentality, but no matter how busy your boyfriend is, even if your girlfriend is sick and can't show up, you have to give him a **comfort, and you have to call him yourself**. He has a lot of friends, good popularity, he must love to be lively, you should be considerate of him, and go to the lively with him, maybe it will feel different.

I'll start by saying I'm a boy.

For you, I would like to say first of all that you still have feelings for him! Otherwise, how could it take you so long to type so many words?

Besides, I don't think he's a fan of fun. It's not friendship, it's very important. You can't understand that you're a girl, and guys generally value friendship.

A friend is more important than a fiancée (girlfriend) when it comes to not being married, because a friend is a lifelong friend, while a fiancée may not. But after getting married, it's different, the wife is more important than the friend. Because he will live with his wife for the rest of his life and not as friends.

Moreover, his friends are friends he has with his heart, and the feelings should be very deep. And your relationship shouldn't be that deep now. If my girlfriend is critical of my friend, I will be upset and even consider breaking up with her.

Otherwise, what will happen after getting married? Don't associate with friends again? Hard!

Also, when you got sick. You should think about it from his point of view, a friend must be busy getting married, and he may really not be able to leave. Besides, even if he goes to see you, it won't make a real difference. (If you are sick and want him to see you, it also means that you still like him).

So it's still possible for both of you. But you need to comfort this wounded man. As you said, you are better than him, and he may have low self-esteem and dare not talk to you head-on.

If you can learn to accept his friends for the sake of future development, even if you don't like his friends, you should try to refrain from saying anything like letting him break up with his friends. As you can tell from your description, his popularity should be good. Maybe he thinks it's bad that you don't even have a friend, so why do you always want to change him when he doesn't say anything about you?

Landlord, my boyfriend and I are also a person who attaches great importance to the righteousness of buddies. I will maintain the computer, buddies have problems with the computer to find me, I am also obliged to run to help them repair, sometimes even busy until the middle of the night home, the meal is not bothered to eat, the family said I am stupid, to help others repair the computer for free The meal has not been mixed, but I feel that it doesn't matter. I have a clear conscience for my friends, and it is not an exaggeration to describe it, as far as I am concerned, I am obligated to help each other between friends, maybe it is too affectionate, I also like parties and lively, I like parties and lively because it has a lot to do with my personality, I don't like the loneliness of a person, not like to play.

I think you should go to your boyfriend if you like him, his friend got married and ignored you, maybe he was careless, this is the shortcoming of most men, right? Besides, when a friend gets married, he is going to help, and it's normal that he didn't come to see you, it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you, do you have to remember every moment to love someone, worry about it all the time, it's too tiring, right?

In the last word, if you think he is good and still have feelings, then forgive him and go to him! Don't leave regrets!

Go find him! Really, that's the most straightforward way to solve the problem. If you really love him, let go of your self-esteem, men need to be coaxed sometimes, you know?

Maybe he's the real man!

Looking at the title, I want to tell you that it shouldn't.

You don't know the reason why he came back to you, during the time you broke up, is she still the one you loved in the past? No one knows, since you chose to break up in the first place, why should you regret it now?

You can tactfully tell the other party that you are not suitable, and that there are differences between you on some things, and it is better to separate, hoping that the other party can meet someone you really like.

I think I should make it clear to the other party that the two people are not particularly suitable, and it is okay to propose a breakup directly, and there is no need to think so complicated.

In this case, I personally think that you should explain it directly to the other party, or you can let the introducer convey it indirectly, so as to show that the two of you are not suitable.

After reading the subject's description, this question is a bit complicated, about the matter of the ex-girlfriend, I think it depends on your boyfriend's attitude, as long as his attitude attributes are clear! The problem is easy to solve. How to solve it, there are the following two solutions;

1) This is your boyfriend's business, if he wants to deal with it first, you don't want to participate first, if your boyfriend is still there, and the third appears, ask your boyfriend to meet, I think you should come forward at this time, you can ask her euphemistically, what is the matter with my boyfriend.

If she still doesn't give up, you can observe your boyfriend's performance, you can see what kind of position this man is, so that you can better understand how to protect your feelings, at this time, you must believe in yourself, have confidence in yourself, and your boyfriend will give you an explanation.

b) The best of both worlds! You should be tolerant of everything, even if you hate and hate his ex-girlfriend in your heart, you pretend to be very generous, not to ask you to scold your boyfriend, or give your boyfriend to that woman.

Escaping can't solve the problem, you should face it, if the woman asks to meet again, you face it with your boyfriend, just like a friend, don't feel uncomfortable, you treat her well, even if you pretend to be out, when the time comes, when the time comes, not only will the woman automatically quit, but she can't bear to break you up, so she will like you more.

That's all for the plan I wrote, see which one suits you, for your reference!

If the blind date man can change his mind, he will have to break up sooner or later, because his ex-girlfriend can save his relationship. There must be a foundation, and you should let it go too. Otherwise, even if you reluctantly get together with Jiang Tingnan, you will still be treated by his ex-girlfriend.

It's not a big deal to break up if you break up, and now you can't refuse your ex-girlfriend, which means that he doesn't have you in his heart. All while the relationship is not deep, it is better to break up. lest he really get married in the future, and he will have a story with his ex-girlfriend again.

Don't want such a man, because it is more important to be an ex-girlfriend in his heart, and your position is more like a spare tire, so there is no need to waste your feelings on a man who does not love you.

has been with a blind date man for more than half a year, and recently his ex-boyfriend went to his ex-girlfriend to find him, and he was going to say to break up, and the best thing to do in such a situation is to break up, because such a man is too untrustworthy and wavering.

For such a boy, my advice is to break up with him decisively, and at the same time tell you about this matter, so that others know that he abandoned you for his ex-girlfriend. Make his parents feel guilty about you.

The boy who is more blind date has been together for more than half a year, and then because the other party's ex-girlfriend comes to him, he is going to break up, which means that he is not a good object, break up early, maybe you will be better for you.

This irresponsible man should leave quickly.

Find your best friend for a meal, vent and start over. Those who hesitate to do things are not worth considering.

Fortunately, now it's just a friend, what should I do if I get married, I keep colluding with my ex-girlfriend, and stop the loss in time.

If this guy breaks up with you because his ex-girlfriend is looking for him, it proves that he doesn't like you very much, and there is a second time, and letting go early is the best way.

If you don't know each other, you will be very disappointed and sad in your heart, because you like him, and he doesn't respond to you, and you don't.

A: I advise you to give up. Don't be with someone who is undignified and unassertive in doing things on their own.

You can talk to him well, talk more about your strengths, and make him feel that you will be better than his ex-girlfriend, so that he will not be divided.

If the guy insists on breaking up, there is no way, you can only agree, why, because a person who will choose to break up with you for his ex-girlfriend to come to him, such a person does not have much affection for you, and true love for the ex, so there is no need to be with someone who does not love him, and such a person is not worth your life.

I think you can only choose to let go of this, after all, he still loves his ex-girlfriend more in his heart. Otherwise, he won't be able to give up your relationship, and I don't think it's pointless if you insist. It's better to let him go, turn around and go first.

There is no good way to do this, unless you can save his heart, otherwise you can't get it back what he decides, so breaking up with you is that your relationship is not as deep as that of him and his ex-girlfriend.

For such a man, he said that you will break up when he breaks up, because he doesn't have you in his heart at all, do you want your object to have another woman living in his heart all the time? I'm afraid that no woman can accept it.

If she wants to break up, let him break up, you are not important in his mind, so why do you want um, why do you want um? Catch him, he doesn't have a person like you in his heart, I don't think it's too much of a point to catch him!

How to say it, whether your own advantages have been brought into play and made him obsessed, or whether he just didn't mean anything to you in the first place, it is not better to be better next and more well-behaved.

You should think about whether you want to continue, a man can't fit two women in his heart, and he will break up with you to show that he still hasn't forgotten his ex-girlfriend.

If you say this, you can tell him directly, is our relationship just for the past six months? Since you haven't forgotten your ex until now, why are you still talking to me about friends?

Separate from him as soon as possible, he just uses you as a backing, I hope you let go, he and his ex-girlfriend won't be okay, you wait and see.

Although he is very unwilling, it makes no sense to stay, in the final analysis, he doesn't like you too much.

Generally can't get out of the relationship with the ex-girlfriend, and most of them come back after the breakup, and the man generally can't refuse.

Bye-bye, bye-bye, the next one is better.

I have met this kind of person regardless of what to do, but it is his ex-wife, at first he said how bad his ex-wife was to him, and then people said that he was going to come back and immediately get back together with others, even if you don't divide it, it's useless.

What else to do, let him get out.

I don't know what other people think about blind dates, but at my age, I feel that as long as everyone enters the point where they start to meet the opposite sex and start a relationship through blind dates, there is a high probability that they will not only think about feelings. I didn't believe in this reason at the beginning, I stubbornly think that blind dates also have the probability of meeting someone they like, and there are many people who meet the love of their lives in the process of blind dates, but when they reach this age, they slowly realize that it is a luxury to talk about love at this age, especially it is too difficult to talk about love with a blind date, you want to fall in love but people just want to find a suitable person who can get married and live, so there is a high probability that the people who meet on a blind date are suitable. <>

Like you and your blind date after being together slowly no feelings, you already have the idea of breaking up, but I want to say that your relationship may be envied by many people, after all, being able to have feelings with the blind date in the process of contact is something that many people dare not think of, and there are many people who feel good after a blind date and get married after a period of contact, and they will not get along until the relationship fades, and it is indeed not easy for you to get along for so long. After all, there are no other problems between you who just have a weakened relationship, but if you insist on breaking up, then separate, and it is not interesting to be reluctant to be together if you don't want to continue. Next, I will talk about how to propose a breakup in your situation. <>

Tell the blind date directly what you think. If you really have already thought about breaking up with the other party, I personally think you can tell the other party directly, after all, everyone is an adult, don't procrastinate doing things at this age, it's not good for you, and don't let the other party guess your thoughts, if you guess wrong, you're still wasting time and feelings. So it is best to tell him directly to break up, although these words are hurtful, but the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is the best result for each other to say it earlier.

Cold violence can be chosen. Of course, you can also choose to solve it through cold violence, after all, cold violence is very hurtful, since you have an iron heart to break up but are embarrassed to say the breakup directly, it is okay to let the other party bring it up in this way, but I myself am not very in favor of this method.

Just talk to him. The most taboo thing about falling in love is that you don't love each other, but you have to force each other.

You can find your partner and communicate with him well, tell him that you have no feelings for him anymore, at this time two people are separated is the best choice for two people, both people can look forward, and then go to find a new person.