It s always inexplicably sentimental, and it s always difficult to make a choice in the face of feel

Updated on psychology 2024-07-05
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    That's what I am.

    I feel very sentimental at every turn, and when facing feelings, it is always difficult for me to choose, I have not given up what I should have given up, and I have not accepted what I should accept. Once upon a time, my boyfriend and I had a very good relationship, and he was very considerate to me. And we have become recognized as a golden boy and girl in the eyes of others.

    It's just that at that time, I didn't know how to cherish, I always missed it again and again, and we thought that it could warm up our relationship, but I didn't expect it to become a stepping stone for us to break up. Later, we finally broke up, no one thought of it, and it was my proposal to break up, I felt that I was tired of being with him, and I didn't want to be together anymore, even if he was good to me, but I didn't want to love him anymore, so I broke up with him.

    After the breakup, I didn't have a very good life, because I used to be so happy with him, but now that I am away from him, I will feel very sad, because there is no one like him to me anymore. No one tolerates my willfulness unconditionally, no one tells me countless bad jokes when I'm unhappy, and no one takes care of me when I'm sick. I've lost him gradually.

    I feel like I'm really having a hard time making a choice right now because there are people who like me more. But I always can't let go of him, I think, it's good to have him, if I don't have him, I will be very unhappy, if I don't have him, even if I change to someone else, even if someone else treats me better than him, I won't be happy. So in the end, I still chose to eat Huitou grass and stay with him.

    I think that when it is always difficult to choose in the face of feelings, you must follow your heart, and choose whoever comes to mind first, because the first person you think of must be the person you love the most. Because all the sadness and all the happiness of this person will become a kind of happiness, making you feel that no matter what the result is, as long as it is him in the end, it is all right.

    When you face your feelings, either choose the person you love more, or don't choose, let yourself be quiet, because during your quiet time, you can clearly understand your heart and know what you really want. Therefore, when you are faced with a difficult choice in your relationship, it is best to be quiet first, because when you are quiet, you will know which person you want most. You can also choose the person who first comes to your mind, because this person must be the most important person in your heart, if you miss the most important person, then it will be difficult to choose when facing feelings in the future.

    Therefore, it is normal for inexplicably sentimental people to have difficulty making choices in the face of feelings, and if you want to change this situation, you must let yourself follow your heart and choose the original one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This should be a personality problem, some people have a cheerful personality, always think about things for the better, and don't care much about some unhappy. But some people are always worried, unhappy when they encounter a little thing, and they are inexplicably sentimental.

    In the face of emotional matters, you can't hesitate to wander, and people should be free and easy. Everyone is a speck of dust in this world, looking for their own home, whether you are still lying in front of the window as you did at the beginning, holding the glimmer of light, feeling the silence of the world, the sadness in your eyes, the confusion of your future, or the memory of feelings. Do you think of Lin Daiyu in the Dream of Red Mansions, her eyes are full of melancholy, the flowers fall to the ground in the breeze, which is a symbol of its death, Daiyu is full of tears, and buries the flowers in the soil with her own hands.

    Maybe no one will cry and be sad because of the withering of all things, and some people are very sensitive to feelings and can't help but hurt and leave. Looking up at the sky, maybe it's your helplessness about life, but your crystal clear eyes will see a sky full of stars, shining against the black night sky. Be hopeful about life, it is like a meteor in the starry sky, waiting for the sound of your wish.

    If you're still having trouble deciding about relationships, choose to listen to your heart and listen to the opinions of friends and family. It's always inexplicably sentimental that you don't know enough about the world, that you haven't opened your heart and walked around more, the beautiful scenery, the welcoming people, and the laughter in every corner of the world. Look at the sky, the kite is still flying freely, maybe the line that binds you will soon break, you will fly freely like a kite into the distance, don't let the line hold you back.

    People should be happy when they live, if they are unhappy, they will live a day, and if they are happy, why should they be afraid that you will embarrass yourself.

    Open your heart, don't hide when you encounter feelings, face them optimistically and positively, and your casual and free will make you easier. Always sentimental will be your hesitation about feelings, difficult to choose will only make you more sad, for the relationship to see the opening point, life will go on, tomorrow will still be beautiful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I will also be sad inexplicably, and when I hear sad love songs, I will be emotionally low, and I will either cry or be happy for a few days when I see a tragic ** or TV series. People like us are more emotional, and maybe someone else's unintentional words can make you care about it for a long time, and you will be sad to death.

    Emotional people, sometimes they are said to have eccentric personalities, sunny for a while and cloudy for a while, are probably the best representative of a woman's face. This kind of personality makes it easier for you to hurt others in the relationship, and the average boy may be able to tolerate your changeable emotions, but after a long time, he may be annoyed, because he doesn't know which sentence he may say wrong and you will be angry, or it may be that you ask him to buy an apple and he will buy you a watermelon and come back You can also be angry for a long time, too difficult to serve, too difficult to get along with, usually the boyfriend can't stand it and proposes to break up.

    Usually we are more sentimental, maybe we can think of sad things when we look at a **, and then we cry ourselves. I once cried because I saw a lonely old man herding cattle alone because of Qingming, and then asked for leave the next day to pack my luggage and go home to see my parents, and I was always sad for some reason. Probably this is the so-called woman made of water.

    If you're like me, I suggest you don't listen to too many sad songs, watch sad movies and TV**, and get in touch with more positive, cheerful and lively people to be friends. Find a pair and try to find some good-tempered, gentle men as boyfriends, usually this kind of people are more tolerant of some of your little emotions.

    Return to real life and work hard to enrich yourself, how can you have time to be sad.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There will always be people who say that they are inexplicably sentimental, in fact, I always feel that I am inexplicably sentimental before, that is, the kind of sudden I don't know what to do, my heart is also itchy, or tidal, very unhappy, irritable. In fact, it is not inexplicable, if you think about it, there will definitely be a certain reason for you to be sentimental.

    For a long time, I thought I might be a little unhappy, just inexplicable. In fact, if I think about it later, there are always certain things that make me unhappy, and only I can feel this feeling, and only I can experience it, and only I can solve it to improve my feelings.

    In the face of emotional hesitation, it must be that you are not loving enough, or for other reasons. If you love enough, there is no such problem. You can ask yourself what you think and how you feel about the other person from your own side, don't laugh it off in a daze, always laughing it off will only make you more troubled and troubled, and increase unnecessary sadness.

    Emotional problems are not something you can solve by saying a few words on your own, ask your own heart, remember that your heart will give you the answer you want most. In fact, you already have an answer to everything in your own heart, and you can only ask others to affirm your answer and give you a little self-confidence. In fact, there is no need at all, you can make your own decisions, and you don't have to seek the opinions of others, after all, they are not you.

    So find a time to sit down and talk to your heart, as long as you really know what you're thinking, it's not a problem.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since the relationship has made you feel sad, in my opinion, it is not worth your persistence, let it go! Why bother with being stupid and stupid? Life is short, and you should be happy in time. When you let go, you will feel that life has suddenly opened up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then see if this sentimentality is ** for this relationship, and if so, give up this sad feeling.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everybody goes through something like this, and you have to follow your heart.

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