Is it wrong to make money desperately and want to make life better for the people around you?

Nowadays, many young people in society have a kind of thought, that is, they are desperate to make money, so that their families, children, and parents can live a better life, so they are desperate to make money, and even some of them go to a far and far place in order to make money, and they may not be able to return home once a year, so is it really good?

Just like the father of a friend next to me, in order to make their family life better, both husband and wife went to Beijing to work, 365 days a year only the New Year's week is at home, except for that week there is no time at home, that's it, the husband and wife have been gone for three years, and the children are also grandparents, because the children followed their grandparents when they were four or five years old, so they depended on their grandparents, and there is a saying called the closest relatives of the next generation, grandparents can't beat and scold, what do grandparents want from grandchildren, so the child has developed a lot of bad habits, just this year the husband and wife came back, the child did not listen to his parents at all, but always insisted on going his own way, it was at that time, the husband and wife realized this serious situation, so, since then, the husband and wife have not gone out to work, although the money has been earned in the past two years, but the child's education has fallen a lot, and the life is not as good as other children.

There's nothing wrong with making money, there's nothing wrong with wanting to make the people around you live well, but you can't ignore your family because of making money, that kind of behavior I feel is the stupidest behavior, what is money, money can make life better, but he can also make our original and beautiful family fall apart, and the children who could have grown up healthily end up in a mess, if it really becomes like this, it will be really bad, so, I want to warn our parents, don't worry about Qin Fen, Don't think that money is something that can solve everything, when you really become rich, you will forget your original intention, so we must remember that we don't forget our original intention, home is the most important thing. <>

At first, I also thought so, desperate to make money, to work hard, the reason is to want everyone to be better, suddenly one day I found that my grandparents didn't dare to call me **, because I was afraid that I would say busy, my mother didn't look for me, because I said busy, when I looked back and found that they slowly began to leave, I thought I was wrong. I don't know if you have such thoughts, but I, when I realize my mistakes, I want to accompany everything to make money! There is a high probability that something will be wrong.

Why? Money should not be above everything, and there are many things worthy of respect in life. Money is indispensable in today's social life, and you must know that money is not the only thing you live in this world, and money should actually serve people.

There is some truth in what you say, but one thing that cannot be agreed with is that having money does not necessarily mean a happier life. Because having money can only make people's material life better, but happiness is not completely equated with material life. Happiness is a psychological feeling.

From a heart of contentment and gratitude.

Then there are only people or things that are more important than the people around you.

If he is very ambitious, it may work, there may be people he cares about, there may be his relatives, but there must be some explanation.

If you want to do something, you should be informal, but there is no need to ignore family affection!

If a person doesn't even care about family affection for money, and when you have money, you will find that there is no one around you who is trustworthy and trustworthy, and money cannot buy true love.

Of course there is a mistake, filial piety comes first, you don't even want family affection, even if you make more, you can't buy back the family affection that blood is thicker than water.

It's very wrong, just imagine that you give up your family affection step by step on the way to make money, and in the end, you are left alone, is it interesting? Don't say you still have friends, really, no matter how good a friend is, it's not as true as family affection, I mean only parents when I say family affection, for me, family affection, a thousand dollars do not change!

There is a mistake, no matter how much money you have, you can't buy family affection, so you can't give up family affection for money.

There is a mistake, filial piety is a manifestation of gratitude, a person is not filial at home, and he will not be respected by others outside, because he does not even know the least gratitude to his parents, let alone talk about how to behave in the world, on the contrary, cursing and insulting resentment and trouble are very much, a person has a good study, a good career, and a good marriage are inseparable from the parenting of his parents when he was young, and even his dearest people do not know how to be grateful, so that others say what you see you.

Why make money? Of course it's wrong to give up for yourself, but it's right to sacrifice something for your family.

Family affection should be divided into whether there is affection or not. It doesn't matter if you don't have feelings to give up, choose your own career.

If you don't think about the source when you drink water, you will go to hell sooner or later.

It must be wrong, very wrong. Think about it, what are you making money for, making money is to survive. But we need to distinguish between the two concepts of survival and living.

Survival means having basic material conditions and not starving to death or cold. Life means to have a sense of happiness and love, and to live a meaningful life. The most basic thing you live in this world is survival, but after survival, it is more important to live.

The pursuit of money and the abandonment of family affection are our cold-blooded and ruthless side, and at that time we were no different from beasts. People who only pursue money must be insensitive. There are so many things in this world that are more important than money, such as love.

We can't be unable to give up love, because there is love in life (whether it is family, friendship, love), we will feel happy, and we will not be so lonely, we will love the world, and we can feel the meaning of our existence.

Happiness is a warm current that springs from the bottom of my heart.

Two people are able to warm each other up.

It's not just one person who unilaterally goes out of his way to love another.

That's not happiness, that's infatuation and madness; Calm down and experience it! Happiness can be crazy but never hysterical.

This is a very irrational approach, some people can do whatever they want when they have money, and some people have money and just want to use it on the blade, how did this money come from, don't you know it yourself?

Life in the world, how hard it is, you have to make money much harder than others, it is likely that you have to work ten times harder to live as well as those people, but because of a thought, you suddenly return to the pre-liberation period.

This kind of person who loses all his savings overnight, he must have an extremely serious gambler mentality, and the more he loses, the more he wants to get his money back. It may be that he doesn't care on the surface, but no one at the table wants to come back empty-handed.

That's good, just use the money of this hard year to buy a lesson, anyway, you still have a long time to go, you are a young man, and when you become old, you will thank yourself for this experience, it makes you repent in time and turn back in time.

It's a serious problem to lose all your wages overnight. Don't simply play cards in the countryside in the house, the problem is behind the huge loss of gambling money, we must be wary of some deeper interest groups, as well as the disorderly management dilemma of rural culture.

The logic behind the crime is complex and intertwined, for example, the local gambling epidemic has left some villagers in debt, which also drives crime. According to the analysis of local villagers, gambling is the root cause of the germination, development and even expansion of evil. Small gambling entertainment, big gambling hurts the body, and it will hurt the muscles and bones.

To some extent, gambling also illustrates the monotony of rural literary and artistic life and erodes rural culture. I think that everyone can work together to promote useful and interesting cultural activities, an active and healthy lifestyle, so as to activate the vitality of the countryside, but there are many ways. It is necessary to deal with the gambling that can't be beaten Xiaoqiang!

How much can you do with the money from a year's part-time job, especially the investment in children's reading, which is the real "gold" technique.

We don't have such people, our place is relatively traditional, and there is no bad atmosphere, occasionally just play cards, and will not bet so big, just a little bit of chips.

It's really a great shame for me to work hard for a year to earn money, and to lose it all overnight, I am completely sorry for myself and my family when I do such a thing.

There are people around, not only young people who come back from work, but even college students who have lost everything when they go home overnight, and even owe 20,000 yuan in gambling debts. The more remote rural people gamble, they have formed a certain atmosphere, they don't listen to anything, and they even think that gambling is not a crime. The lack of legal awareness, even the returning college students are not spared, and I feel terrible when I think about it.

How come there are no such people? After working hard outside for a year, I was happy to go home to my parents with the money I earned, and then walked on the way home, and just met a few childhood friends at the gate of the village, they said, ah, you came back to play, I said I will go home first, they said don't rush home, play first and play for a long time, play cards.

Then I was embarrassed to push back, I said okay, play two with you, I'm going home, so I went with them to play two, playing and they said that playing cards is boring, or we come to play mahjong or fried gold, I said no, he said come to someone, come to go home, then I said okay, play and play will lose money, who knows unconsciously in a hurry, I lost all my savings this year, Mom, I haven't entered the house yet, this year's salary will be lost, what should I do? I'm embarrassed to enter the house again. I then hit my parents and said that I won't go home for the Chinese New Year this year, the construction site is busy, my parents said you pay more attention to your body, or let's go see you, I said no, at this time I really can't stand it, I want to cry, in fact, I am at the door of the house, but I dare not enter, I heard my parents' voices.

One winter, a small worker on the construction site of my husband, the day before paid a whole year's salary, that night to play fried gold, lost a point, it is estimated that this year's work is too busy to relax, it is estimated that I want to win a little more money to go home for the New Year, I can only say that such a person is a little stupid!

I don't have such a gambling addict around me, but every year during the Chinese New Year, my brother habitually plays mahjong with those people he plays, and I heard my brother say that the reason why they will lose more and more is because they want to win back.

People who gamble tend to get rich overnight. They don't want to accumulate little by little, they want to get money quickly.

The more you want to make money quickly, the more you lose money.

Yes There is a man in our village who works outside, and after playing, he goes to play mahjong, loses his salary, and gets a fucking subsidy when he goes home.

It's the mentality that plays.

Glasses can be worn.

Small, big, one and two Chu.

In fact, everyone is the same, and it is normal to feel jealous when they can't see that their friends around them are better off than themselves. All you have to do is ignore these and just be yourself. You can also find a time to have a good chat with your girlfriends, open up to each other, and don't compare with each other.

You also surpass her. This is not a girlfriend, this is a friend.

This girlfriend is far away, and one day you find a boyfriend or husband, she wants to prove her charm, and you will die miserably!

Vanity is strong, this kind of person is careful with him, he may do anything for his vanity.

Which ones do you refer to more than? I'm also the one who wants to overtake or catch up with my best friend, maybe I can tell you what kind of mood it is.

Don't look for other people's reasons first, first examine what is wrong with yourself, and then draw conclusions, everyone thinks about it, this is nature, and there is no other intention.

It's normal, why is she under you, what's so chilling.

First of all, whether a person's living conditions are good or not and his character is not particularly large, for example: there is a person who works very hard, especially attentively, and does a particularly good job, but the character is not good, this kind of person eats by ability, not by character to eat, good character does not mean that the work is good, there are not many people who will work hard, this kind of person will still be favored.

There is also the case of congenital wealth.

For example: a person is born in a rich family, in his eyes, he is the protagonist, and everyone is worthy of his own acting, so the root will not care about the feelings of other people, so it has become a poor character in your eyes, but the economic conditions of other people's families are good, and it will not affect the mood of others.

As long as they don't violate the red line of the law, ordinary people with poor character live a good life. Because they can do whatever it takes to earn money, and they can trick anyone without feeling guilty for their own comfort. Never cared what other people thought.

Because honest people think that suffering losses is a blessing, and people with poor character harm others and benefit themselves.

Gibberish. Don't look at it.

Everyone's situation is different, everyone's good fortune is also different, and the good fortune is limited, and when it is used up, it is gone. Some people have accumulated a lot of good fortune, so they live well, and vice versa. Good fortune can be accumulated, and if you do things with an altruistic mind and have good thoughts, you will accumulate good fortune.

If there is more good fortune, life will be better.