Is it important to spend time with your family or to work wholeheartedly?

I think this issue should be discussed on a case-by-case basis. People have different ways of solving problems at different ages, and it is very important to be there for your family and to work wholeheartedly. Whether it is important to spend time with family or to work wholeheartedly is different for each person and every situation.

I think when you are in your twenties, you should just start working, you should put all your focus on work, because your career is just starting out and you need to go through a lot of things, and at that time your parents are generally still strong and don't need your care, you may not need to be by their side every day, so you will be considered by others as gnawing old people. The most important thing for you at this time is to work hard, because only by working hard can you have the ability to be filial to your parents when they are old, so that they don't have to work so hard, and they can start to care for the elderly as soon as possible, and they don't have to worry about you. Although money is vulgar, economic conditions are also an important part of our lives.

You can't do it without working hard, if you don't progress, you're regressing, and in this world, winning or losing is really important. <>

But when you are fifty years old, you already have your own small achievements, you have a career and a family, at this time you must also have your own savings, life will no longer make you have so much pressure to work wholeheartedly to support the family, and at this time your parents are already old, maybe they will start to get sick, start to walk, what they need most at this time is no longer your family, but the company of family affection.

When you grow older, you will understand more and more that money can never be earned, and the relatives who accompany you are the most important, don't wait until you want to fulfill your filial piety when your parents are gone, even if you regret it, you can only miss it stubbornly.

The ancients said: If your parents are here, you won't travel far. Everything is based on filial piety, and filial piety is the first.

From the perspective of "filial piety", accompanying family members seems to be a top priority. However, modern people believe that material is the basis of everything, and only with material foundation can they be qualified to talk about spiritual needs. From this point of view, it seems that the most important thing is to earn money from work.

Which is more important, different people have different answers in their hearts. In my personal opinion, no one is more important, work and family are equal and indispensable, but how to try to make a good balance between the two, this is what we need to think about. In society, everyone has to do their own thing in their own position and stick to their own rules.

For the company, we have the responsibility of employees, and for the family, we have the responsibility of being parents and children. We play different roles in different contexts. If there is a real urgency at work, then we have a responsibility to do it well, even if it is at the expense of part of our time.

But we can balance this "sacrifice" with time adjustment, such as taking time off after holidays, changing the time off for ourselves, and spending time with our families. This method of adjusting the time of the cherry blossom festival not only solves the needs of work, but also does not delay the company of one's family. Holidays are no different from ordinary days, and we should not do it just because we spend time with our families.

We can take care of our families on every ordinary day. Pick up the ** at your leisure and give a greeting to your loved ones from afar; Put down your phone at the dinner table and enjoy the meal with your family; On weekends, I stop staying in bed and take my parents for a walk in the park around my home. As children, have we found that each of us will make our parents happy for a long time?

Every time you go home, your parents are always full of anticipation? Sometimes they will nag: don't get too tired from work, remember to eat on time, drive slower ......Maybe one day when you can't hear these "nagging" will you realize how happy it is to hear them.

In fact, parents really don't want much. It's just that we can set aside some time, go home to see them, eat with my father, chat with my mother, and spend ordinary but warm time together. The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait.

Many things, if you don't do them now, you won't have a chance in the future. While your parents are alive, you might as well do more high-quality companionship for them. Companionship should not be just a formality.

When you sit at the same table with your family, but you are absent-minded, and your family can't feel the joy of reunion? When you are thousands of miles away from them, if you can care about each other and greet each other sincerely, love can make you like neighbors at the end of the world. If you're with your family, talk to them more and don't let companionship become a mere formality.

If you are thousands of miles away from your family, it is better to send a greeting and don't let the distance become a barrier.